#218_5E: Listen to conscience and live to old age
(Continuation from "#218_4E"
Motto: "Totalizm always helps."
The general principle of defence from premature death caused by the deafness to the voice of own conscience is simple. Namely, in everything that we do we should consult our actions with the voice of our conscience. But in practice this defence is quite difficult for many reasons. For example, because "doing of what is moral must be difficult, otherwise lying on our back and doing nothing would be the most moral behaviour in the entire world" - as explains it more thoroughly item #E3 on the web page named "god_exists.htm". In turn listening to our voice of conscience and carrying out whatever this conscience tells us to do, is a highly moral behaviour. Therefore in the world governed by God it must be difficult, and truly it is so. After all, if for example we are a father and a head of family, then the justly punishing our child with a rod gives to us a characteristics similar to that of a dentist - when we need to be painful in order to be a good parent in the final count. Thus, if the conscience commands to us that we should justly punish our child with a proverbial "rod", because this child just did something very wrong, then immediately we encounter a whole array of factors which make this difficult for us. The first amongst these probably will be our wife, which - as all women (i.e. beings created by God with a high level of imperfection - as this is explained in item #B2 from the web page named "antichrist.htm") will probably make this impossible for us. Then - if by any chance we live in a country which established anti-parental laws (such as these prevailing in New Zealand and which are described in item #B5.1 from the web page named "will.htm") we must risk a prison because of the use of a rod while the law forbids this. Furthermore, on our way are to stand also our own feelings - how to use a "rod" on a child which we love a lot. Another obstacle will be this child - which after being disciplined will run to the street and complain to everyone that "the father bit me - thus I hate him, because he is much worse than mum and he does NOT love me". Etc., etc. Therefore, such fathers who decide to discipline their children with a proverbial "rod", are forced to overcome all these obstacles (Also every wise and thoughtful mum - i.e. a mother deprived typical female imperfections, is forced to overcome similar obstacles, when e.g. temporally her husband is absent, and thus she is forced to serve the justice to her child on her own.) In addition, fathers must also learn to use a rod "justly". Means the punishment which they serve must be proportional to the guilt. It also cannot cause in a child any physical damage to the body. Furthermore, it should be proceeded with a verbal explanation why it is served, how much it amounts to (for a given kind of misbehaviour), and how in the future this child should behave in order to NOT deserve it anymore. Psychologically a highly helpful is also establishing for the use of a child a form of mutually accepted "pardoning" or "asylum" - i.e. the creation of some difficult to accomplish by a child, and known both, to this child and to parents, manner of avoiding a punishment (but this manner must fulfil a number of important conditions - e.g. must work almost instantly, because serving a punishment must not be postponed, it cannot depend on doing of some routinely chore, because a child with the elapse of time develops an "allergy" to this particular chore, etc.) In other words, everything that concerns such a punishment must be agreeable with moral recommendations of the philosophy of totalizm described in volumes 6 and 7 of my newest monograph [1/5].
Of course, children and teenagers also can by themselves work on developing their sensitivity to the voice of own conscience. After all, wise God for children make such self-learning of the obedience to the voice of conscience much easier than teaching it by adults. Children from the very beginning have this skill - as this is explained by the article [1#G1] from part [#218_3E] of this post. Later they only need to make sure that they do NOT loose it e.g. because of a bad influence of their peers, teachers, mass media, politicians, authorities, etc. But in order children and teenagers undertake their own efforts in such a right direction, someone amongst adults must explain to them exactly on examples which are illustrative and acting onto their imagination, "why" this should be done in their lives. In other words, someone amongst adults must firstly explain to them what is written in entire "part #G" of the web page named "will.htm" - only that beforehand he or she must translate this onto the language which children are able to understand.
The above is worth to complement with an information, that these people who in an aware manner begin to listen and obey their organ of conscience, automatically become "totalizts". This is because practicing the most basic version of the philosophy of totalizm, i.e. the version called "intuitive totalizm", boils down just to listening and to obeying the voice of our conscience.
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This post is an adaptation of item #G6 from the totaliztic web page named "will.htm" (updated on 5 May 2012, or later). Thus, reading the above descriptions would be even more effective from that web page than from this post - as in the totaliztic web pages are working all (green) links to other related web pages with additional explanations, text includes colours, presentations are supported with illustrations, the content is updated regularly, etc. The latest update of the web page "will.htm" can be viewed, amongst others, at addresses:
http://petone.loomhost.com/will.htm or alias: http://naj.zs.pl (which always links to the most important amongst recent updates of totaliztic web pages)
Notice that every address with totaliztic web pages, including the above web sites, should contain all totaliztic web pages - including web pages indicated in this post. Thus, in order to see any other totaliztic web page that interests us, it suffices that in one amongst the above addresses the web page name "will.htm" is changed to the name of page which the reader wishes to see. For example, in order to see the web page named "antichrist.htm" e.g. from the totaliztic web site with the address http://energia.sl.pl/will.htm , it is enough that instead of this address, in the window of an internet explorer the reader writes the address http://energia.sl.pl/antichrist.htm .
It is also worth to know, that almost each new topic that I am researching with "a priori" approach of the new "totaliztic science", including this one, is repeated in:
http://totalizm.wordpress.com or alias: http://blog.zs.pl
With the totaliztic salute,
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