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Black Wedding




Really weird, about the only thing I can really remember clearly and in some kind of order. Okay, this is actually going to be very short.

I had a dream, it was long and jumbled, but when I woke up I recalled putting on a wedding dress. The only odd bit, and the part that unsettled me, was the fact it was black. When I tried to reflect on that part of the dream I remember feeling reluctant, maybe resigned. I didn't want to get married, I didn't want to put on that dress. I felt like I had no choice and it just had to happen.

I tried to look up what the black wedding dress might mean, and it's not good. The only issue with their interpretations is it revolves around possible relationships you might be in. I'm not. Not even close. They seem to view a normal wedding as positive and good and about commitment, but the black wedding dress turns this into something bad or negative. The dress seems to be more personal.

From the Dream Bible:

http://www.dreambible.com/dreamdictionary/w.html

Quote:
To dream of a black wedding dress represents an excessive attitude towards making a permanent choice. It may also reflect fear that is motivating you to make a permanent choice. You may feel that you have to do something forever.


Another bit about dreaming of wearing a black wedding dress from this Dream Dictionary and Symbol Interpretation:

http://www.experienceproject.com/dream-dictionary/Wedding-Dress-dreams

Quote:
To dream of a black wedding dress represents an excessive attitude towards making a permanent choice. It may also reflect fear that is motivating you to make a permanent choice. You may feel that you have to do something forever.


If I had to throw in my own thoughts... I see black as more of a funeral thing. I half think that, while I'm putting on this dress to get married, I'm also getting ready for a funeral. I don't know that it's mine or if it will be that person I marry. That made me thing that maybe I had that fear that I will find someone, marry them, and then they will die before me, well before they should. That fear of being alone... like my dad is right now.

Dreams are a fickle thing and it's hard to find the right meaning in there, or if there is supposed to be any meaning to them. My brain is still processing and healing so a lot of my dreams trend to focus on my mom still...



4 blog comments below

People says "Marriage Is The Grave Of Love".

I think marriage is not so bad.

If you ask your father that
if he had a chance to go back to the day he proposed your mother,
would he do it or not?
I think the answer will be "Yes".

The end of the spouse's life is hurting,
but if you want to avoid the ending and choose to don't have a spouse.
You might lose all the joy during the marriage and the children you might have.
rx9876 on Wed Jan 15, 2014 5:47 am
TG, both of your quoted sources point to a 'permanent choice'. So what choice are you worried about?
standready on Wed Jan 15, 2014 10:58 pm
:S I don't know Stand. The only thing I can think of might have to do with how my supervisor recommended me for the Mac Bistro Bar presence in the library. The idea of being lead on a project scares me because what little I learned of project management was in a wimpy controlled environment. Today it has been made official and I am prime for this project :S

I do need something like this. I need to do it right and I am scared out of my mind. But when I talked with my manager it feels like we're on the same brain wave length. I feel like I know what I'm talking about and I grasp what is going on and what really should be happening. My secret skills? I really do want to work towards management and being involved in projects is going to be part of them, I think.

But this might mean I'm getting another contract right? Apparently this is supposed to be done real soon, hopefully by the end of this fiscal period? Next fiscal period? I don't actually know when either of those would be. Eek!
TheGremlyn on Thu Jan 16, 2014 1:55 am
Congratulations L! I have all the confidence in your secret skills. Don't worry I won't tell a soul how great you are at the Mac attack (and other things)! laugh That is just between you and me. Scared just makes you work harder but you can do it - FANTASTICALLY!
standready on Thu Jan 16, 2014 11:51 pm



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