Relationships - Digest

What Should I Do?

Fri, 25 Jul 2008 08:05:43 GMT

Relationships : What Should I Do?

I Met This Guy, And I Have Been Seeing Him For Awhile Now, We Are Not That Serious, But We Also Don't See Other People.

He Is Pretty Amazing, He Understands Me, We Get Along (Which Is Rare For Me). It Has Been A Couple Months, And I Hate To Say It As Much As I Like This Guy, And As Much Time I Spend With Him, The Sex Is Pretty Bad.

Now I Think Its Me, Because I Haven't Been Able To Let Myself Open Up To Anyone Since I Broke Up With My Ex 2 Years Ago, He Broke My Heart, Left Me High And Dry, And After That I Have Never Been The Same.

Does Anyone One Have Some Good Advice?

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Why girls always loud and angry?

Fri, 25 Jul 2008 07:43:04 GMT

Relationships : Why girls always loud and angry?

Why girls always loud and angry?

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how do you know you are in a bad relationship

Fri, 25 Jul 2008 07:38:02 GMT

Relationships : how do you know you are in a bad relationship

The thougt crossed my mind, and looking back I realised I have been in bad relationships, but my question is how does one know on is in a bad relationship.

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Embrassed

Fri, 25 Jul 2008 07:37:03 GMT

Relationships : Embrassed

these days most of the guys are talking about feelings that they have for beloveds but they are afraid to confess it to them. I don't know why but every body feels the same if what the feelings are is true love and not just pretending. It could be really nice to tell a girl that you are interesting the feelings that you have for her without thinking that she will mock at you. most of the girls are sweethearts and they will respect you with that. But till now what i don't understand is that some girls do not act well when boys get in love with them. So, does that mean they are proud of themselves? or are they just away from the line of love?

CAN SOME BODY TELL ME WHAT THEY MEAN THAT????

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How to stop a girl from loving me ?

Fri, 25 Jul 2008 03:31:41 GMT

Relationships : How to stop a girl from loving me ?

Dear friends,

Just curious and somewhat serious. How can I stop a girl from loving me? Just friendship, with its all limits is ok but I don't need love. What to do??

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How can jealousy be cured?!

Fri, 25 Jul 2008 02:55:38 GMT

Relationships : How can jealousy be cured?!

It has been a while when i stopped loving girls, but i have found one beautiful young girl whom i called the girl of my dreams. How ever this girl claims to be in a real love with me and she takes much time with me and i completely trust her as i found her as a true love for me . Till now we have a little problem. whenever she sees me standing with another girl she thinks that i am dating her and when i come back to her i see her difference in mood, upset and disappointed. when i try to cool her down she tells me that she is dying for me and i wouldn't care. I tell her every time that i don't have another girl that i love more than i love her. I tell her that i am even going to marry her. She tells me that she trusts me and whenever i talk to her she cools down but she still keeps getting jealous whatsoever even if i am talking to my sister.
I don't know what to do>>>

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WHAT IS LOVE??

Thu, 24 Jul 2008 23:30:22 GMT

Relationships : WHAT IS LOVE??

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We are told that love is universal. Birds do it; bees do it, even educated fleas do it. Everyone falls in love. Apparently, love is built into our genes. We humans seem destined to rush into sexual relations with obsessive passion, often threatening the balance of their social relations in the process.

However, given the universality of love, we would do well to pause and think about the social consequences of love. What does it mean for human social life that love is ubiquitous.

Let us consider first the impact of love on marriages practices in societies where descent is unilineal. In such societies, as for example the Yanomamo, love, while common, is rarely if ever a motive for getting married. For such people, living in societies where lineages provide clear pictures of their kin and clear prescriptions of their marriage partners, marriage is an arrangement that one endures.-.more often than not, for the profit and power of one's lineage. In these societies, where domestic units are extended families, decisions about any particular marriage are usually made by the lineage member in authority, usually an elder male, whose primary concern in arranging a marriage is the betterment of his lineage. Societies with matrilineages are no different from societies with patrilineages in this regard. ...

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How do you say "I love you" in your language??

Thu, 24 Jul 2008 23:23:39 GMT

Relationships : How do you say "I love you" in your language??

I believe that here we have people from all around the world, so I decided to begin a list of "I love you" in many languages.
To begin, I'll tell you how we say that in my language:
Portuguese/Português: "Eu te amo"
What about you???

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how to get over someone

Thu, 24 Jul 2008 15:30:02 GMT

Relationships : how to get over someone

what is the best way to get over someone????
i mean seriously its rather tricky specialy if u let urself slip. i have yet to find a fail safe way to get over someone you like. this is jsut another rant type post to fill up space

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I am 25 years old,but no girl friend

Thu, 24 Jul 2008 02:44:14 GMT

Relationships : I am 25 years old,but no girl friend

In fact ,I am 160 cm tall.But in China it's so difficult to be loved,waahh

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Does age matters in relationship?

Wed, 23 Jul 2008 08:45:32 GMT

Relationships : Does age matters in relationship?

People, I just want to know what you all think of the appropriate age gap between a guy and a girl in a relationship. Does age gap matters in a relationship? We have examples of women who date younger than their age or men date way younger than their age. Is it a problem? What will occur if there is a problem at a later stage?

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Effective Pick-up LInes

Wed, 23 Jul 2008 08:34:51 GMT

Relationships : Effective Pick-up LInes

POst Out ur Effective Pickup Lines!!!!

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We talk about friendship

Tue, 22 Jul 2008 19:02:37 GMT

Relationships : We talk about friendship

We talk about friendship, I think that true friendship is always without ulterior motives and has no boundaries, for example I am in contact with people who live in other countries and be very okay, I could never use a friend for evil purposes or to draw a personal benefit.

Here in Turin I have few friends, but they are good and if I need help them not pull back, not even my brother is so good, I can always find many excuses and not contact me ever, even though we live a few kilometers away.

I am a person of good heart and very simple, I want to find a group of friends all over the world because the world is one big country and we are all united.

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Asking for advice

Tue, 22 Jul 2008 18:48:28 GMT

Relationships : Asking for advice

Ok, I like a girl, really really like her. I am pretty certain that she has no idea that I do, and has no interest in me. I am struggling with asking her out on a date. Anyone have any constructive advice for me?

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Will this relationship work?

Mon, 21 Jul 2008 14:32:37 GMT

Relationships : Will this relationship work?

Well i met a Brazilian girl on the internet. We became very good friends. We used to talk daily then we felt there was something more than friendship developing between us. Even though we speak different languages but she still can communicate in english. And we are even trying to teach each other our local languages. She is catholic and i am a Hindu. But we dont mind. After all we feel god is one. But I stay in India... almost on the other side of the world. ...

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Any suggestion here?

Mon, 21 Jul 2008 14:13:39 GMT

Relationships : Any suggestion here?

hi,i love a girl but she has a boyfriend,what should i do to get her?

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Best Relationship Advice

Sun, 20 Jul 2008 12:58:00 GMT

Relationships : Best Relationship Advice

Do not have one!

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Are you in love??

Sat, 19 Jul 2008 18:44:53 GMT

Relationships : Are you in love??

Are you in love??

Yes i am

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things to say?

Wed, 16 Jul 2008 08:19:34 GMT

Relationships : things to say?

I have a girlfriend who has never had a boyfriend before....

she is very nervous and shy.

I call her gorgeous, eg, Hi Gorgeous how are you going, etc.

I desperatley want to kiss her, but she has never kissed anyone before,

I feel that If I rush her, she may leave me.

Im looking for something to call her, A nickname that will make her feel good about herself, but nothing to corny. Something that will make her feel warm inside.

She is very shy and gentle, and I dont want to rush her.

If any ladies could give me some help here it would be greatly appreciated.

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I have a new girlfriend.

Mon, 14 Jul 2008 20:05:17 GMT

Relationships : I have a new girlfriend.

Two days so far, and I just got back from her house. While there, I came 16 times. My new cell phone wallpaper is her topless. She's amazing.

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What do you like about your partner?

Fri, 11 Jul 2008 23:48:01 GMT

Relationships : What do you like about your partner?

I think many times people tend to focus more on a person's negativity than otherwise. We complaint more than we praise. Gossips, for example, is all about bad mouthing someone and not the other way around.

So while there are plenty of that to go around, lets look at the positive picture and see the goodness in people.

To all of you who has a partner, either as your bf or gf, lover or married partner, what is the one thing (or even two or three..) that you like about your partner?

I don't mean abstract things like he is sweet or she is kind, but a bit more than that with examples.

For me, one of the things I like about my partner is her adaptability. Many of us try to make our environment fit to us rather than the opposite. But she, coming from a different culture, fits herself well in a different environment and I think its because of her personality

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Freely conversations in your family

Fri, 11 Jul 2008 09:46:51 GMT

Relationships : Freely conversations in your family

What themes can you discuss within your family (with your brothers, sisters and parents)?
What reaction will be if you start to talk about sexual themes? Or if you laudly say "PENIS", "CONDOM" or other interesting words when all family have a dinner?

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Internet dating - love or sex?

Fri, 11 Jul 2008 09:31:18 GMT

Relationships : Internet dating - love or sex?

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Is it love that a person seeks or sex? The question strikes your mental chords at once. Some say that love without sex is not feasible and vice versa. This of course is in reference to committed relationship and not casual dating.

Single women and men seek relationship for dating on Internet. Online dating is now becoming the number one platform for seeking a date. This is usually done by becoming a member of an online dating agency or a dating site as it is most referred. More and more person including couples and swingers are seeking relationship in adult dating service. The benefits that the Net offers far surpasses that which a land based dating agency can deliver. Speed accessibility and cost are the main factors. The tremendous versatility and options that the internet dating delivers is another major reason for online dating becoming more and more popular.

The dating service accords anonymity to the user member, hence one can seek relationship without disclosing his or her details. ...

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what keeps the fire burnin in a relationship?

Fri, 11 Jul 2008 09:22:53 GMT

Relationships : what keeps the fire burnin in a relationship?

..... i believe for any relationship to work, there should be "friendship and trust"

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IM SINGLE Because

Thu, 10 Jul 2008 03:54:05 GMT

Relationships : IM SINGLE Because

Im to self observed with my work and school does anyone ever find true love anymore?

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Can you love two people at once?

Wed, 09 Jul 2008 18:15:37 GMT

Relationships : Can you love two people at once?

I was just curious about what everyone thought. Can one person really love two people at once? this includes any type of preference: homo, bi, hetero, etc....

Explain your answers too. I want to know what reasoning you have behind it.

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Fall in Love with a Best Friend

Wed, 09 Jul 2008 07:00:25 GMT

Relationships : Fall in Love with a Best Friend

ever fall in love with your own best friend..??

some ppl think its not a good thing to fall in love with someone who already know you so well and its not healthy for the relationship..

to me, ive already fall in love with my own best friend, so far, from a friend, to a best friend and now, my sweetheart.. i couldnt be more happier..

she is everything i need.. in terms of ANYTHING..

so, anyone here dating ur best friend..??

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one night stand...

Wed, 09 Jul 2008 06:31:03 GMT

Relationships : one night stand...

wat do u think about one night stand?? izzit ok to have it??

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problems with the heart

Mon, 07 Jul 2008 17:05:51 GMT

Relationships : problems with the heart

I would like an advice... in those things i am not expert... I was in a "relationship" for many years, with ups and downs but all right, I knew this man only by internet and when i met with him the first time, he loves me more... we had a good time together.... but in this same moment I felll in love with another... this other man is many years more old than me but he showed interest for me too... despite I really wanted to accept him I rejected... because i tried to be sincere and loyal... but now i feel me guilty... I really love him and make me so sad that I lost him forever... ...

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New situation has arisen:

Sat, 05 Jul 2008 17:19:16 GMT

Relationships : New situation has arisen:

I've joined the Law School as of the beginning of this year. I'm 23, going to 24 in two months, and I came from a previous course, the Physics course. I did not graduate.
This means that my mates are from 17 to 19 years old, a little younger than me.
One of them is a very nice-looking brunette girl, aged 18, going 19, that appears to have maturity above her age, this means that she's not a girl anymore, but a woman.

Evidently I became interested on her. However, things have twisted away from what I planned. Of course this was because of mismanagement, like I said in another topic, I always screw up. Perhaps I realized that she wasn't as responsive to my approaches as I expected, so I became, unconsciously, an unkind man towards her. And growing.
I became calling her "my love" (not what your're thinking, here @ Brazil, some people call each other "my love" in a friendly way), and she said that she didn't like it. Fine, I stopped calling her like that.

She's also in my group of Scientific Initiation, some of our subjects. There was a day in which I was asking for her attention to deal with a problem regarding a project, no big deal. She didn't pay attention. ...

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Best friend moving to another country

Wed, 02 Jul 2008 20:12:46 GMT

Relationships : Best friend moving to another country

hello
I have a very close female friend who ive grown up with for like 8 years, but shes moving to Canada next month .
We're both highschool juniors, and we had like on and off crushes on each other and stuff before.
But she's leaving now, and I want to do something special for her.
What would be something special and memorable for a friend who's leaving?

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MY SIS IS IN LOVE

Sat, 28 Jun 2008 10:49:03 GMT

Relationships : MY SIS IS IN LOVE

my sis is in love witrh an unknown person. they met on the phone. what do you guys think she should do? for me, i am telling her to get rid of the guys. you will never know what he is upto not to show him self to her.

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"Self Pleasure" - Good Or Bad?

Wed, 25 Jun 2008 20:21:23 GMT

Relationships : "Self Pleasure" - Good Or Bad?

Many of the recent threads have been circling around men and women's views to sex so I thought I would open a thread on "Self Pleasure"

PLEASE : lets keep this thread sensible and not litter it with the vernacular, we all know the words that can be used to describe it, we don't need to use them here.

OK, I am a 30 year old male in a loving, sexually active relationship with a women my own age. We live together and share the same bed every night, but I openly admit to the fact I still "self pleasure" from time to time.

My G.F is fine about it, often suggesting that I "go to the bathroom" when she isn't in the mood for anything (and my amorous advances are keeping her awake!) and when I travel (my jobs means I spend a lot of time away from home) I do as well.

Self pleasure though is still a very taboo subject (in my opinion), while I openly talk about it with my close friends, I understand that there are still many out there that find this very natural act something of an act to be ashamed of or abstained from

I am interested to know what others think of "self pleasure", and if they do it, do they openly admit to it?

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but why??

Tue, 24 Jun 2008 18:15:17 GMT

Relationships : but why??

i don't hate people, I like everyone and while I do like some people more than others, I believe we are all mostly good people. unfortunately, most people don't see me the same way. this seems to stem from 6th grade, when i was a self absorbed ass. i still get a bit riled in politics or when someones being bullied, but I, for the most part, try to be nice to everyone. i don't see what i can do to change the way people think. wait, don't replay yet. I know you're going to say, "why do you care what people think, they don't matter!" I know that, but it gets annoying.

SO MY QUESTION TO YOU IS: WHAT DO PEOPLE HATE EACH OTHER??

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what you will do if a girl betrays you?

Tue, 24 Jun 2008 17:52:44 GMT

Relationships : what you will do if a girl betrays you?

Dear memebers

this is my first post i this forum.If anything goes wrong please take it as granted..

I want people to answer my question,like if you love someone very deeply in reply she betrays you.WHAT will be your next move..

This question is for the true lovers and who has faith in love

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This is hard..

Mon, 23 Jun 2008 18:05:36 GMT

Relationships : This is hard..

Okay so my boy friend is really nice.
my parent like him and thats all fine.
but his past isn't too fine.
i guess his ex girlfriend(his first girlfriend, I'm like only his second one.)
turned him in for rape.
but he didn't do it and everyone knows he didn't,
because they never had sex she just got really mad at him for breaking up with her.

the details:
his girlfriend never liked me until him and i started dating.
well when she found out we were together.

but now she constantly wants to hug my and talk to me and just be near me.
and he said that like a year ago(its now been to years since the "rape")
she wrote him a letter saying how she was sorry and wanted to be with him again and that she still loved him.

The hard part:
well two weeks ago his ex was at the book store and i was there with my dad and she came and gave me a hug.
then when we walked out of the store i said ew and my dad said who was that and i said its [his] psychopath ex who ruined his life and said he raped her.
and all my dad said was oh.

but last night i heard my parents talking about it last night and now they are all worried that hes like going to rape me or something.
and when i told my mom the true story she didn't even really care and my dad hasn't really said anything to me about it.

but when i told my boyfriend i accidentally said something he got really mad.

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the way i think of it is at least I told my parents EARLY in the relationship, instead of some random person going up to them and saying, oh didn't he rape a girl?

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What do i do?

Mon, 23 Jun 2008 12:56:34 GMT

Relationships : What do i do?

Ok well i have been "in love" with this girl for a while now and was about to ask her out but i overheard someone saying to her "so your gonna dump him" which makes me think "Is she single? or in a relasionship?" because the last thing i knew she was single!

Also i have no idea how i am going to ask here when the time comes im definately not doing on the internet and icant on the phone (i dont have one) so its going to havce to be in person but i dont wanna do it with all her friends around but i have NO idea on how to ger her alone

Any thoughts or ideas?

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take a look at the situation and help me plz

Mon, 23 Jun 2008 12:44:34 GMT

Relationships : take a look at the situation and help me plz

Ok, so i have known this guy for a little more than a year now. We met online, at first just talked online for a year then we started talking on phone. Its been 3 months of talking on phone. I always thought that the guy liked me but one day when we were talking on phone he said that its not only me that he talks to but there are other girls that he talk to on phone.
He talks to me for about 1-2 hr everyday, before going to college, in college during break and while returning from college. We also talk sometimes when he's at home...so when does he get time to talk to other girls. He mentioned abt one girl to me that he talks to and i'm very sure he was not lying abt her. He shares everything with me. We always talk like friends and i think i'm in love with him, not sure though. now i don't know if he likes me or not. ...

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DOs and DON'TS (Taboos) in England

Wed, 18 Jun 2008 01:48:55 GMT

Relationships : DOs and DON'TS (Taboos) in England

Manners are Important!!!

In England...

Do stand in line:
English like to form orderly queues (standing in line) and wait patiently for our turn e.g. boarding a bus. It is usual to queue when required, and expected that you will take your correct turn and not push in front. 'Queue jumping' is frowned upon.

Do take your hat off when you go indoors (men only)
It is impolite for men to wear hats indoors especially in churches.
Nowadays, it is becoming more common to see men wearing hats indoors. However, this is still seen as being impolite, especially to the older generations.

Do say "Excuse Me":
If someone is blocking your way and you would like them to move, say excuse me and they will move out of your way

Do Pay as you Go:
Pay for drinks as you order them in pubs and other types of bars.

Do say "Please" and "Thank you":
It is very good manners to say "please" and "thank you". It is considered rude if you don't. You will notice in England that we say 'thank you' a lot.

Do cover your Mouth:
When yawning or coughing always cover your mouth with your hand.

Do Shake Hands:
When you are first introduced to someone, shake their right hand with your own right hand.

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Have you ever dumped someone and realized it was a mistake?

Mon, 16 Jun 2008 07:59:23 GMT

Relationships : Have you ever dumped someone and realized it was a mistake?

I have a burning question, Has anyone dumped someone only to realize that it was a mistake. I ended a relationship about 6 months ago, and after three months, I started to miss my ex. At first i felt like the ex wanted out, so trying to protect myself, i did the dumping. It wasn't so hard, cause i felt I came out unscathed...but after a few months, I realized that i was wrong. I was not going through that guilt period, that many go through in a break up, I really did some bad stuff. Pushing the ex away. We havent talked much, but I received an email today saying that I am loved, however, things are over. But I dont want it to be over.

Has anything like this happened to anyone...whats your story. I am not depressed, nor desperate...I have moved on. ...

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another long distance one down the drain

Mon, 16 Jun 2008 01:00:20 GMT

Relationships : another long distance one down the drain

some of you may remember me from the "realistic request?" thread here in this same topic... well here i am again many months later with yet another tale of woe due to distance.

a beautiful dutch girl approached me in the restaurant i work at part time and asked me out. we did. it was beautiful and we quickly fell deeply in love. we lived together for the next two months, i met her family over skype, she talked to me about her life in amsterdam and got me to such a loving, comfortable position with her, but then she had to leave to go back to amsterdam to live (i live in south australia).

we agreed to stay together and that at the end of the year i would come visit her for three weeks and if we were still happily in love then we could talk about the future.

within two weeks of her being home the txt messages and emails stopped. i got sad and felt lonely. i told her i was upset and that i thought we would be a lot closer than that. then she broke up with me. she only wants to be friends because she cannot see a future for us.

man, i feel cheated and used. dont' know why i a posting this here because i have a lot of good friends who have offered me advice already and i certainly know how to deal with this from my last experience, but it is good to let it all out again!

i am still in love with her, i am telling myself to hate her so i can have my heart to myself again, but it is not working. ...

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Must spill! <3

Sat, 14 Jun 2008 12:28:04 GMT

Relationships : Must spill! <3

Ok, here's my situation: (any and all advice would be greatly appreciated)

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year as of Dec. 7. He constantly says things like "I want to wake up to you every morning" and things like that. He says he's going crazy without me (we haven't seen each other in two months) and sometimes he drops hints on the things he's going to do.

here's my problem: his hints aren't predictable.

He's been hinting at the fact that he wants to marry me for four months or so... and hasn't said anything else other than hinting. He's taken me by jewelry counters and asked what I liked. He's had me try things on that he liked. He asks what colors I want, who'll be in it, etc... I find that I'm planning a wedding that I wasn't asked to attend!

I understand that he is in a HUGE financial bind right now. But if he knows he can't pop the question because of financial difficulties or insecurities, why does he hint at it?

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polygamy

Wed, 11 Jun 2008 12:13:06 GMT

Relationships : polygamy

Does anyone here practice polygamy?
if you don't know what it means... it is when you have more than one wife. they both know and are comfortable with it.
alot of Mormons are polygamist.

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Racial Discrimination.

Tue, 10 Jun 2008 20:04:15 GMT

Relationships : Racial Discrimination.

I know the some people will believe this to be placed in the wrong area, but when speaking of the relations between demographics, that counts as, well, relationships.

I've been challenged by a friend to support evidence for the claim that Caucasians are currently the most discriminated demographic. Not only can it be supported by observation, such as with college acceptance, affirmative action programs, etc., but there have been studies done showing that Caucasians receive less ethical treatment from owners of businesses, etc., who belong to another demographic.

However, I can't find any, as I've always been inept with search engines and specifying parameters.

Could someone out there help me find something on this? My friend is a hard-headed fool who wants concrete evidence before he changes his opinion or the like. Any help will be greatly appreciated.

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40 days and 40 nights

Mon, 09 Jun 2008 07:11:17 GMT

Relationships : 40 days and 40 nights

Did you see the movie? well I can say I'm somehow playing the movie right now.

I have a good friend, we sporadicly end up involved in sex things. It started several months after we met. But he always reacted at the end with running away. The first times it happened he hadn't a girlfriend, but he always looked repented after finishing, and went away as far as possible.

A year later, he returned with an old girlfriend, I supposed those things would never happen again, but they occurred, and he reacted the same way at the end.

I have to say that we are good friends with our clothes on, we help and support each other. He knows about my life and I know about his.

Since he has a girlfriend now, sometimes the regret comes to him, and he tells me this won't happen again. We had agreed many times that our friendship doesn't need sex. That we can continue being good friends taking that part away. But even saying that, he seems to "forget" it conveniently for a while, and remembers it just after the sex finishes.

I've done some effort to quit this, my last one was inspired in the movie 40 days and 40 nights. I've put my self in abstinence, in order to keep me clean from this. ...

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What shell I do! I'm Engaged but know one knows...

Mon, 09 Jun 2008 06:20:03 GMT

Relationships : What shell I do! I'm Engaged but know one knows...

I am 17years old and the other day I proposed to my GF.

We have kept it secret due to our age but certain things lately have been erging me to tell people.

There is a family wedding coming up soon.
And my Fiancé can't go because my cuz wanted to take his GF and couldn't so my Family is saying it won't be fair if i take my GF but what people don't know is that she is not my GF! she is my Fiancé...

Do you think I should say somthing?

The reason we havn't told friends and family is because we are only 17 (18 in AUG) and affriad what they wil say & do. I know that can't stop us from loving each other and continue in out engagment.

What do people think I should do?

Please post yout comments or do the Poll above..

Thanks
Dan...

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A Son Who Is In Danger Of Becoming Just Like Me.

Mon, 09 Jun 2008 05:48:18 GMT

Relationships : A Son Who Is In Danger Of Becoming Just Like Me.

Don't really know exactly what to write at the moment. First it was a miscarriage, now I fear that my step-son is going down the same road that I have traveled, and I have NO idea how to handle it.

No matter what I say, or what I do, he continues to ditch school, and rebel in general. Let me make it clear...I cannot be blamed for this behavior, as he has lived most of his life with his father of whom he claims to hate. He and I are very close because I give him the love and respect that he does not get from his biological father. He wants to live with his mother and I, and is an amazing child with the potential to be anything that he wants to be, but continues in the same behavior whether he is living with us, or his father.
I am so damn scared that he will end up like me! Living out of hotels, and cheap apartments because I spent all of my younger years at party's, and roaming around the country instead of getting the kind of education needed to provide a stable, secure, and happy home for my family. When My brain finally caught up with my age, it was too late. Now I struggle to make ends meet, and I see him going in the same direction.
At this moment, all I want in life is for my beautiful step-son to realize his dreams. How to help him do it is killing me!

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Missing someone

Mon, 09 Jun 2008 05:24:28 GMT

Relationships : Missing someone

I was the one who wrote the topic about 40 days and 40 nights, misserably failed.

After a month of struggle, I finally had stated to say no to him. This time it wasn't a rethorical no, it was a no with him over me. He agreed again to stop having sex with me, I hope we both remain this agreement.

That's good, the bad part is, I suddenly find out myself missing him. We chat regularly, but last week he was so busy and I was somehow sick. Then Friday night arrived and I started feeling anxiety for not having talked with him.

We talked that day, he came for a moment to my home (his laptop is broken, so he needed my internet), we talked, nothing related to sex happened, I felt so good, but, I'm really concerned about missing him, it haven't happened this way before.

I don't want to find out I'm in love of him. I don't want that. He has a girlfriend and I'm doing my best to keep this as a friendship.

Any Suggestions about ways to stop missing someone?

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This forum / directory is relationship and not only Love...

Mon, 09 Jun 2008 05:21:10 GMT

Relationships : This forum / directory is relationship and not only Love...

I just noticed all these posts are mostly on love. they should change this forums title to Love and remove relationship. anyways - how do we define a relationship? family, friends, relatives, colleagues, acquantainces etc... was my guess...

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Please help me give an advise to my friend

Sat, 07 Jun 2008 06:05:58 GMT

Relationships : Please help me give an advise to my friend

Hi guys, I'm just kind of newbie here, though I've adopted with the site. I think here is the place to post such a topic since its related to LOVE.

A friend of me is having a problem with his girlfriend. He is bit worried about her loyalty and he often tells me that she is cheating him. I, personally, know his GF, and she is my friend, too, and I don't see her going with other guys, and when I asked him if he saw her with another guy, he told me that he never spotted on her with another guy as he never saw her even dating another guy via phone, email, etc... The only thing he claims is that he is doubtful.

I tried to calm him down, but he's really loggerhead person and then he asks me an advice every minute!

What is your idea? What do I tell a doubtful person? Please help!

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