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My girlfriend is too pretty

Mon, 23 Nov 2009 14:12:40 GMT

Relationships : My girlfriend is too pretty

My girlfriend is very beautiful, a lot of people chasing her, and lodgers told me that his former girlfriend has a male chasing her, he had learned that a male, but honestly do not want others to feel bullied I do not dare to do so, so I began to feel weak.
I told her away, always with some boys I do not like looking at her eyes that I do not like it, they did not exist when I was in the bully me (with me in, do you dare look at me as female friends?).

I am a real person, did not dare do not want to stir up trouble, but I do not want others to feel bullied good (why is it I dare you to look at her with the kind of vision?), In fact, do not dare to do anything themselves, so sometimes feel very weak, I would like to look at the curb do not have any people around to see her, but more so feel inhibited more cowardly, so I do not like her to go to crowded places, because as the boys could have been avoided look at her.

I now see others afraid, but I forced myself to watch other people (because of this I am not a coward), I sometimes think, look at it this way, they will not dare to look at my girlfriend had (I did it!). But sometimes I stare at them, and they also continue to look at her, I will be unconvinced, but not their own can do, it also felt weak ... ...

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How far would you go for the one you love?

Mon, 23 Nov 2009 07:05:11 GMT

Relationships : How far would you go for the one you love?

Just a random thought, because I remembered the time my GF and I fought and I asked her how much she loves me. She answered that she'll be with me until she dies(sounds cheesy). Then she asked me the same question backed, I simply told her "If you could give me one, just one good reason. I'll kill my whole family starting from my mother and father.". She kinda cried and said, I love you so much..

And from then on, we seldom argue and she now says that she loves me sincerely.

I kinda look like a bastard telling her that. But I don't really have a plan to do that, and number 2 ,I don't think she would want to harm any of my family.

ANyway, how about you guys... how far would you go to prove you love someone?

do you mind sharing it to us ? ^_^

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something i wrote for my girlfriend

Mon, 23 Nov 2009 07:04:35 GMT

Relationships : something i wrote for my girlfriend

The amount I love you is out of this world. No one in this whole universe could tell you how much I love you.
When I am with you my emotions go crazy. Sitting in my bed those hours at a time are the best times of my life
and i will let no one mess them up.

Every day i spend with you is the best day of my life. Nothing in this whole wide world could make my days being with you any better. I also think that you are the most amazing person, the way your eyes look at me before we kiss
are the best things I ever look at, your smile after i make you laugh brightens up my day, and than there is the love you give me, makes me the happiest guy alive.

To be with you is all i want, and i would give anything to be with you forever. The love we got is the greatest you can ever get. Nothing will be able to ruin this love, because our love is to strong to be ruined.

(im not the best in grammer)

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are you still virgin??

Mon, 23 Nov 2009 07:01:16 GMT

Relationships : are you still virgin??

hey guys im a guy and im 21 and im still a virgin ....lol
i think im comfortable with the current situation how about you guys..
is it good to be a virgin until u get married or...

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Getting over someone you are in love with, while they...

Fri, 20 Nov 2009 17:23:49 GMT

Relationships : Getting over someone you are in love with, while they...

.... Are still in your life...

I am in love with my best friend. But we can never be. I've been trying to figure out how to get over this without losing them as a friend. They know the feelings I have for them and we've talked about this before. I dont want this to affect our friendship but I have a feeling that when I see them with someone else it would tear me up. One of the problems that I have is the mixed signals I get from them. I just dont know what to do.

I know there is no quick fix or magic pill to get over this... I'm just looking to get opinions from people... ...

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another long distance one down the drain

Fri, 20 Nov 2009 07:37:48 GMT

Relationships : another long distance one down the drain

some of you may remember me from the "realistic request?" thread here in this same topic... well here i am again many months later with yet another tale of woe due to distance.

a beautiful dutch girl approached me in the restaurant i work at part time and asked me out. we did. it was beautiful and we quickly fell deeply in love. we lived together for the next two months, i met her family over skype, she talked to me about her life in amsterdam and got me to such a loving, comfortable position with her, but then she had to leave to go back to amsterdam to live (i live in south australia).

we agreed to stay together and that at the end of the year i would come visit her for three weeks and if we were still happily in love then we could talk about the future.

within two weeks of her being home the txt messages and emails stopped. i got sad and felt lonely. i told her i was upset and that i thought we would be a lot closer than that. then she broke up with me. she only wants to be friends because she cannot see a future for us.

man, i feel cheated and used. dont' know why i a posting this here because i have a lot of good friends who have offered me advice already and i certainly know how to deal with this from my last experience, but it is good to let it all out again!

i am still in love with her, i am telling myself to hate her so i can have my heart to myself again, but it is not working. ...

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How to stop saying things I don't think ?

Mon, 16 Nov 2009 08:55:08 GMT

Relationships : How to stop saying things I don't think ?

Everytime I become a little bit angry to someone I can't stop myself from saying things that I don't think...
And those things sometimes hurt people.
For example, when I say things like "Your just a moron because you did that" It's just because I'm too angry and I can't control myself, but I don't think those things I'm saying

Do you have any tips to get over it ?
I know that I always become impulsive, even when I'm just a little angry over someone.

I almost lost my girlfriend for that

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First boy I ever had a crush on sent a friend request

Mon, 16 Nov 2009 06:57:04 GMT

Relationships : First boy I ever had a crush on sent a friend request

Oh boy oh boy am I ever conflicted about this one.

First off, I'm 42 years old. I never ever thought to hear from the guy twenty years later. This is just weird. Why did he remember me, after all this time, and hunt me down on the internet tubes?

Is it because I let him copy my homework?

I guess it doesn't matter, because he's no longer the tall, thin boy I fell in love with all those years ago, but his big blue eyes are still just as intelligent and piercing.

Thoughts? Suggestions?

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She lives acouple thousand K's away

Sat, 14 Nov 2009 01:30:53 GMT

Relationships : She lives acouple thousand K's away

This is probably going to sound abit pathetic, but I am really tormenting myself over this girl I met last night at a wedding... Now I am only 16 so thats why it might be abit suss, but anyway... The wedding was really boring and I was just sitting at my table, then my mate brought me outside where 2 girls waited. On the way there I told myself dont get too attatched' because my mate said they are from ADELAIDE, whereas the wedding and where I live is in sydney. We were all really bored and walked around heaps, and in the end spent about.. atleast 6 hours throughout the wedding. Over that time I dunno, we became really good friends. I didn't have time to get a number or an email, because we had pushed the time limit and had to go since it was 2AM. I got to my parents and they said were going lets go, so i went ahead of them and waited around the door area, keeping my eyes out for this one girl, but I never found her.
The main thing that is troubling me is that.. ...

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Man/boy love - yuck

Fri, 13 Nov 2009 05:58:43 GMT

Relationships : Man/boy love - *yuck*

Before whining at the topic title, let me clarify that this has nothing to do with the subject being about gays, but pedophilia.

Do you think that there can be honest love between a 13 year old boy with a 35 man? Please say in this topic. And I assume in here we can have at least a moderate freedom of speech, bound by the moral, so be honest you too.

Can a child consciently

consent

? Not talking about the legal age or legal issues.

Look @ this.

You see, there are people that unembarrassedly, comfortably advocate pedophilia.

Well, I begin thinking about how good the absolute freedom of speech is. IMO organizations like that should be shut down and the members imprisioned.

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Are boys always wrong?

Fri, 13 Nov 2009 05:55:09 GMT

Relationships : Are boys always wrong?

Till date I am really messed up trying to figure out why girls think that we take away their freedom.
Why is it so if we care about them,its likely that we will ask them not to do things that will harm them or threat their security.Why dont they have the brain to get this instead of accusing us?

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Jailbait

Wed, 11 Nov 2009 18:52:43 GMT

Relationships : Jailbait

This is for the "mature" guys: have you ever been attracted by that very nice girl, which looks above 18 and even 20, both mentally and "bodily" but, when you come close, you see that she is no older than 15 years old? That`s very bad. Please tell your experiences.
by the way I'm 25.

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How do you say "I love you" in your language??

Tue, 10 Nov 2009 22:24:21 GMT

Relationships : How do you say "I love you" in your language??

I believe that here we have people from all around the world, so I decided to begin a list of "I love you" in many languages.
To begin, I'll tell you how we say that in my language:
Portuguese/Português: "Eu te amo"
What about you???

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Unprotected sex

Mon, 09 Nov 2009 03:10:52 GMT

Relationships : Unprotected sex

Recently I started something that I don't know if I could name "dating" with a person I've known for years (since University).

We have some intimacy and we had unprotected sex. Ok, it was my mistake, I should have said no, but I didn't. After that I asked him, have you ever tested you for AIDS? and he answered, No, all my encounters have been with trustable people, so I've never considered a need.

I was a little shocking to me, specially because I found out he haven't used protection with his former couples.

I asked him to have a test, before being with me and always use protection, he said OK, but he haven't taken the test yet. So, I totally refuse having intimacy with him again.

How can a person can be so naive about this? I mean, non having being tested if he usually don't use protection. He expects to have unprotect sex with me, but I won't accept that.

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younger guys and older grls

Sun, 08 Nov 2009 14:27:10 GMT

Relationships : younger guys and older grls

this topic has for a long time boggled my mind. why is it looked down when a older girl goes out with a younger guy or why a girl thinks it's simply absurd when a younger guy likes or asks her out? this really ticks me off. there has been so much debate about equal rights...then why doesn't it apply to these kind of situations. yes, i knw tht some ppl do have relationships like this but they are very hard to come across especially in my country, bangladesh. i have this problem of liking older grls frm childhood. i have wanted to rid of this habit but i just can't seem to. and the hardest part is tht all the grls in our country have the problem is discussed about above. they just can't satnd the thought of going out with a younger guy. i don't knw but maybe it's becauce they will be teased upon by their friends or something else. ...

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How do you tell your gf/bf they're ugly?

Sat, 31 Oct 2009 18:52:37 GMT

Relationships : How do you tell your gf/bf they're ugly?

Title says it all.

Although, I want to know a some what, nice way to tell your partner they're ugly. Any suggestions?

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5 Things Single Women Hate To Hear...PART TWO

Wed, 28 Oct 2009 19:37:14 GMT

Relationships : 5 Things Single Women Hate To Hear...PART TWO

These five snippets of well-meaning advice to singles top Anderson's list of worst offenses.

Here's why.

1) What's Said:

MAYBE YOU'RE NOT TRYING HARD ENOUGH.

What's Heard:

"This can come off sounding like you're passing judgment on effort," says Anderson. "It's better to encourage a single person to explore new relationships to the extent they are comfortable and to extend themselves in ways that feel natural and not forced."

2) What's Said:

WEAR MORE MAKEUP.

What's Heard:

More than implying that the search for Mr. Right is as easy as brushing a spot of color onto the cheeks, this comment offends further by actually attacking a person's core identity. "A woman presents herself according to what she defines as meaningful. Whether her style is glamorous belle or au naturelle, every woman should be allowed to be herself. There's a man out there who is going to be attracted to her style, whatever it is. If she's presenting herself as anyone other than who she really is, that's false advertising and that's going to backfire."

3) What's Said:

GET BACK OUT THERE!

What's Heard:

This can send the signal that the single person is simply not doing enough speed or Internet or blind dating, or worse, that she isn't living a full enough life. "Singles are not by definition hiding out in their closets curled up in the fetal position all day," says Anderson. "Most are likely working, meeting friends out for dinner and events, working out."

4) What's Said:

YOU'RE TOO PICKY.

What's Heard:

This implies that at some point, a point that the single friend or loved one has reached, she is no longer allowed to be discriminating, says Anderson. ...

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5 Things Single Women Hate To Hear...PART ONE

Wed, 28 Oct 2009 07:15:20 GMT

Relationships : 5 Things Single Women Hate To Hear...PART ONE

Every time she hung out with her single female friends, the same gripes surfaced. Enough already with the how-to-snag-a-guy advice streaming from anyone and everyone as soon as status single was announced, they said.

Suddenly, Karin Anderson, Ph.D., assistant professor of psychology at Concordia University Chicago, found herself keeping track of what these single women were saying, replacing the strict academic research techniques she was used to with more informal polling.

What she found was a deluge of well-meaning advice being issued to singles that, while offered with the best of intentions, not only wasn't working but was making singles' skin crawl.

"The message to singles tends to be that they're doing something wrong, 'You're too this' or 'You're not enough that.' Being single is treated as this problem that needs to be solved," says Anderson. "That's really bogus. We should be telling single women, 'You're fine. There's nothing wrong. Enjoy your life.'"

These five snippets of well-meaning advice to singles top Anderson's list of worst offenses.

Watch out my next post for

WHY?

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What one word describes what you want in a boy or girl?

Mon, 26 Oct 2009 13:05:15 GMT

Relationships : What one word describes what you want in a boy or girl?

sweet.
a sweet boy is all i could ask for.

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GF hangs out with lots of other guys

Mon, 26 Oct 2009 02:41:28 GMT

Relationships : GF hangs out with lots of other guys

Alright fella's I need some opinions. I have a beautiful girlfriend that I care alot about, she doesnt have many girlfriends but has more guys wanting to be with her than I can count. We're both 20, but she knows the owners of quite a few bars in town and gets into them without problem. She goes, and I cant. The thing is she is going with these guys that want her, and try to kiss her everytime. I dont want to tell her that she cant go do that anymore, but at the same time its really eating at me. She is very aware that it eats at me, but doesnt seem to make much of an effort to do anything about it. Im very good about not getting close to other girls, or hang out with girls one on one just out of respect for her... Meh I dont know, what do you guys think I should do?

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How meaningful is "sorry" .... really?

Mon, 26 Oct 2009 01:39:47 GMT

Relationships : How meaningful is "sorry" .... really?

I've always been a bit cynical about people really hurting other people, and then coming up with a feeble "I'm sorry" penance. How can a word like that ever fix things? I was particularly thinking about this regarding David Letterman, and the incredible humiliation and hurt he must have caused his wife and family with his public admission "out of the blue"! That was hurt four times over. First there was the betrayal. Then the lies covering the betrayal. Then the very public humiliation that his public admission must have caused completely out of the blue. And then an apology that must have been equally hurtful for his wife and family. All of it completely self-serving. I don't care about his behaviour. ...

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Who is Gay here?

Sun, 25 Oct 2009 23:41:23 GMT

Relationships : Who is Gay here?

Just want to create a master post to let gay members to post their story here, and we could all discuss and learn from each other. things such as coming out, family, relationship, traveling as gay couples etc.....is that the right place to start a thread like this?

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Unfaithful - Why Men Cheat

Sat, 24 Oct 2009 19:18:07 GMT

Relationships : Unfaithful - Why Men Cheat

So, I found an interesting article on MSN and thought I would post it here. It's entitled Unfaithful: Why do men cheat? And it's not fair all the way, looking at it from a guy's point of view, because as we've been drilled - women are our equals, so they are just as likely to cheat. But alas, I found it interesting and wanted to share it.

Quote:

These days, we can't seem to escape the notion that men in Hollywood just can't stay faithful to one woman. Jude Law's recent infidelity and the speculation that Brad Pitt cheated on Jennifer Aniston are the focus of the media's fascination. Whether these actors live in such a different reality that this kind of thing might be part of the job description, we can't say. But when Jude and Brad can't keep from straying from seemingly ideal women like Sienna Miller and Aniston, we're left to wonder what that means for the rest of us.

A poll done by the New York Times in 2000 found that 44 percent of the male respondents admitted to having had an extramarital affair (and that percentage doesn't include those unfaithful guys who weren't willing to own up to their transgressions).

Are men inherently unfaithful? What really makes guys cheat? We asked the Love Council to weigh in.

Dan Cronin
There's a saying that goes, "Show me the most beautiful girl in the world, and I'll show you a guy who's tired of sleeping with her."

Rather crass, I think, but true. ...

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What does friend mean to you?

Tue, 20 Oct 2009 07:57:35 GMT

Relationships : What does friend mean to you?

Hello all, i want to ask

What does friend mean to you?

For me, Friends are God's way of taking care of us

What about you?

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What is your definition of a perv?

Mon, 19 Oct 2009 06:30:04 GMT

Relationships : What is your definition of a perv?

What is your definition of a pervert?

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How do singles spend their Valentines' Day?

Sun, 18 Oct 2009 19:17:24 GMT

Relationships : How do singles spend their Valentines' Day?

I'm currently single and I have no idea what I could do on this day. At the moment I just treat today as any other day and had been spending my time facing my laptop since this morning... Have been hard not to be distracted/affected by all the hooha associated with Valentines' Day... LOL...

Just being curious, or maybe even get some ideas, how do other singles spend their Valentines' Day?

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Is there such thing as a soul mate?

Sat, 17 Oct 2009 06:58:38 GMT

Relationships : Is there such thing as a soul mate?

Is there such thing as a soul mate?
I have never had a girlfriend, nor am I in any hurry to get one. But what I am wondering, is there such thing as a soul mate? I have seen soo many people get in love, then break up. Or get married, then after a few years divorce. So if people keep doing that, how can they find their 'soul mate'? Or will they ever find a 'soulmate'?
What do you think? I am not making sence but if you can refrase this then you are welcom to.

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girls my own age all too immature

Tue, 13 Oct 2009 15:12:21 GMT

Relationships : girls my own age all too immature

i know they say girls mature faster than guys but i beg to differ in my case

my parents split when i was 15 and my mother left me and my sister in an apartment by ourselves for quiet some time. We developed faster than other people our age because we had to fend for ourselves....now i live with my dad again and im doing pretty good but every time i meet a girl she just seems to act like such a little kid, its one after another acting like children.

Now the problem is that when i per-sue older girls they dont really want to date saying im too young, if i never tell anyone my age they think im 5 years older than i really am. does anyone else feel this way or think that college girls are immature? i dont know i guess what im asking is why would it matter if im only 19 but i have the mentality of a 25 year old... its very frustrating for me because a lot of girls hit on me but all of them seem too young even tho they may be older than me...its a dilemma help me out here

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Sexual Relationship Or Masturbate

Tue, 13 Oct 2009 14:31:14 GMT

Relationships : Sexual Relationship Or Masturbate

Don't know if this is where it goes so if it isn't I apologize. Which one do you prefer? Because I'm not shy to say this, but I would rather Masturbate than to get into a deep relation with a girl anyday just not to get her pregnant. :3

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random stranger, chance meeting & casual dating

Tue, 13 Oct 2009 00:12:54 GMT

Relationships : random stranger, chance meeting & casual dating

gent, really I'm not being picky or anything, but if you approach us on a bus, late night and smell or I should say stink of beer and trying to chat us up, what do you think our reaction might be?

I rejected an invitation for a drink, and I do know you probably want a quickie, but even if I might want a quickie too, do you think we would go for one when you don't present yourself well at all?

admit it, everyone is vain to a degree, and if looks are important to you, it should be important to us too.

so please, next time when you want to approach a girl, try and think before hand the chance of you suceeding. I'm nice enough and gave him my contact instead, if he remember by next morning, he may give me a call and arrange for a drink, after that my obligation is done

girls, what do you think?

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What kind of friends ?

Mon, 12 Oct 2009 19:38:23 GMT

Relationships : What kind of friends ?

If there are friends who would ignore you the whole time but only comes to you when they feel like shit and need to talk to someone, how you would react to them ? Would you listen to them everytime forgiving an forgetting about them or simply tell them to get lost ?

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I slept with my mom!

Mon, 05 Oct 2009 11:59:46 GMT

Relationships : I slept with my mom!

It was a summer. I was alone at home sleeping on my bed. My mom had gone out to purchase something from a nearby shop. I was watching tv and didn't know when did I sleep and Now I don't even remember that what I was watching on the tv.

After some time my mom had come back and was busy in kitchen. After cooking the lunch she had bath and she came to the room I was sleeping. she changed her cloths and she was talking to me as if I was awake but I don't know what she was saying as I was in deep sleep.

After a while somehow I got a break from my sleep and felt someone is sleeping next me and I recognised as it was my mom. She noticed me awake and she turned me to her side. Now I was facing her face and my half body was completely touching her. She was smiling at me and simply massaged me using her right hand. She slowly moved her hand on my chest then my tummy and my legs even between my thighs.

I turned myself to her side and by now she lifted her top and I could see her breasts in front of me. ...

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How Much do you love your parents?

Sat, 03 Oct 2009 08:48:28 GMT

Relationships : How Much do you love your parents?

how much do you love your parents? What you can do for them?

ni

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Clean of guys

Thu, 01 Oct 2009 18:01:28 GMT

Relationships : Clean of guys

Please don't take this personal, I just need lots of points, so I will take advantage to post some points of view.

I can tell that after 22 years on the romantic arena, I am totally tired, I am sick of selfish men, unfaithful men, married men, lyar men, clueless men, non-compromised men, erratic men, lost child men, with a girlfriend men, just looking for sex men, cheater men, If I find more adjectives I will add them later.

I always have said that not all men are the same, but I am arriving to the conclusion that yes, they are not the same, everyone finds a diferent way to deal you badly. Ok, that is an exageration, I have met a couple of good ones, but they are already married or in a serious relationship or have no interest at all about me.

So I have arrive a time in life when I prefer stay clean of guys, take note I am not interested on women for a change, just the celibacy suits good to me now.

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Husbands should help wives in household chores

Thu, 24 Sep 2009 07:17:38 GMT

Relationships : Husbands should help wives in household chores

Husbands should help their wives or better halves in doing household chores be it in the kitchen or doing shopping for vegetables and groceries.
I don 't think this is a question of male ego being affronted or hurt. It is just mutual understanding and sharing of workload.
However, there is one small negativity---wives normally tend to criticise or nag hubbies over the manner in which they might perform in doing the household chores.
I feel that wives must appreciate the gesture of their hubbies in helping them out and not nag them for minor hiccups or imperfections which are bound to remain as men by nature have never done such womanly things in the past

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am i just a control freak

Sat, 19 Sep 2009 00:04:03 GMT

Relationships : am i just a control freak

I have been with my girlfriend for over 6 years and i have been cool with letting her go out with one of her friends out to lunch or dinner or a movie but she has been doing other stuff like hanging out with new people and drinking i dont mind she meets other people but the fact that she tells me she is going somewhere else and she does the opposite we have had trust issues in the past that is why i am really trying to trust her and let her have her space but last week she left my house at 7 and came back to almost 1 am do you think im wrong i was okay if she came home until 11 pm or even 11:30 but i think after hours of 12 am i think some people are only out there looking for somethingelse, last night she left at 5:30 and came back till 11:30 pm and if felt like its too much time to be out there having her space am i just trying to control the relantionship? Oh and i dont go out on my own i dont feel like i need it

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being shy.

Thu, 17 Sep 2009 17:41:59 GMT

Relationships : being shy.

I don't know about you people, but i get really shy for some reason when i talk to my girlfriend. Theres a big feeling inside of me, like if somethings going to go wrong, or she doesnt like me much so i back off. But then if i back away from her she might think i dont like her. I dont really know what to do in this situation. Thats all

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to all those married; how's your marital life?

Tue, 15 Sep 2009 05:16:34 GMT

Relationships : to all those married; how's your marital life?

Can somebody share how's your relationship with your wife/husband? For how long you stay before marriage and how long you've been married...

as for me, we've been for 7 years steady as bf/gf relationship and 1 year shaky bf/gf relationship that i taught we will never be as one...and now, we've been for 2 years married...so far, our love is getting stronger though we encounter misunderstanding..so many twists and turns..so many bumps and humps that we've passed through...

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Just a question, to ask everyone!

Mon, 14 Sep 2009 19:28:02 GMT

Relationships : Just a question, to ask everyone!

I've been in realationships alot and they never worked out but the problem is.

Every time I am at school, or near this girl I really like, yea shes kind of young and I pissed off her parents so what! she doesn't care but the problem is, All I do is think for myself and say things about myself and I can't think anything about the past relationships that I had, I've been thinking more about myself than I am to her.

How would I approach her and treat her like herself, and still act as myself with all the feelings I had for my past ex?

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my english is very poor , who can help me ?

Sat, 12 Sep 2009 17:14:54 GMT

Relationships : my english is very poor , who can help me ?

as the title.............

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How to talk to girls? Do YOU know?

Thu, 10 Sep 2009 14:32:49 GMT

Relationships : How to talk to girls? Do YOU know?

Okay, so my questions are...
Is there a particular way guys should be able to talk to girls?
Is there a limit to what topics being allowed to be bought up?
What are some good conversation starters? (besides the obvious hi my name is such and such)
Is there anyway to kill the awkward silence, besides preventing it in the first place?
When you first meet them, what should you ask/say?
How can you prevent mumbling or stuttering?
Should you be asking direct questions, such as 'Do you have a boyfriend'?

EDIT: GENERAL QUESTIONS .. jeebus it's like talking, i'm just curious on people talk to girls, i don't care where it is. You can have a little mofo tag saying 'At a party' or 'At school'.

I talk to girls the same way as I talk with the guys, although I learnt that it isn't a good idea to do that... ...

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girlfriend and mother issues

Wed, 09 Sep 2009 21:53:16 GMT

Relationships : girlfriend and mother issues

Put simply, my mother does not like my girlfriend and it's really getting my girlfriend upset. She's tried everything she can to make my mother like her, but my mom's too stubborn to see that my girlfriend is actually a really nice person. I've been doing all I can to talk to my girlfriend and keep giving her suggestions on what to do and trying to keep her mood up, but after a whole summer I just don't know what to do anymore.

My girlfriend is caucasian and my family is Chinese, as in they're from mainland China. I'm sure there's a whole amount of culture difference making this difficult, but also a lot of culture and racial bias from my mother's end.

What else can I do, and has anyone else experienced this?

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What do I do? I Like/Love her but she doesnt feel the same.

Wed, 09 Sep 2009 21:37:17 GMT

Relationships : What do I do? I Like/Love her but she doesnt feel the same.

K.. where do I start.

This girl I am talking about... I first notice her like 3 years ago... the summer 3 years back.. that would have been... 2007 summer. I noticed this girl she was cute, we both went to the public swimming pool, I didnt really know who she was I never talked to her. I wasnt really attracted to her.

The next summer I didnt really go to the pool, however the summer after that I did, quite a bit and I think I started to like this girl... Not overly but a fair bit, when the end of the summer came (we went to different schools)... I gave her my #, I told her to call me if she ever wanted to meet up somewhere go play Tennis or hangout that kinda stuff. ...

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LOVE LOST

Tue, 08 Sep 2009 10:03:49 GMT

Relationships : LOVE LOST

Whats the point of love

90% of relationships end up in tragedy, thats pretty slim odds for people who are thinking of getting into a relationship. in can just ruin life

i know of two people that have lost the loves of there life to other people. couple months later they couldnt stand the pain of which had happend from there relationships and deaths were a result

So work hard and try and live without love unless your sure they are the one

is what i think

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Homosexuality - Yes or no?

Mon, 07 Sep 2009 13:30:46 GMT

Relationships : Homosexuality - Yes or no?

Yeah, what do you think about homosexuality? Are you against it, and if you are - why?

Are you gay? And how do you handle it? Does your family or friends accept it?

Tell me, what do you think about this Topic!

By the way: I am 17 y.o., male and gay. I am from Germany. My parents know it, but I think they won't really accept it. My brother doesn't have anything against it, and my friends accept me and my sexual preferences.

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help... how can get over the women I love?

Sat, 05 Sep 2009 01:28:35 GMT

Relationships : help... how can get over the women I love?

I have been with my girlfriend for 6 years now... wait no I WAS with my girlfriend for 6 years and we were what i thought was happy, however on sunday (my birthday) she told me that we have become more like friend than lovers. I can't seem to get myself together, she and I still want to be friends but I can't seem to think like that. I still text her and we still meet up I don't want to loose her at all, so defenatly don't want to lose her as a friend. she is my best friend.

It makes me sick of the thought of her with someone else, but I no one day she will be. she seems to be doing a lot better than me, just don't no what to do with myself. Cant seem to get the fact that it is over, and she is not going to call and say lets give it a try!. I am still getting stressed out and jealous when she don't text back straight away and when she goes out into town. keep thinking she is with someone else, or going to sleep with someone and it kills me.

to make it worse we both had to move back into are parents houses and it didn't help us in the end, but now her mum is kicking her out (*****) and she has NOWHERE to go, and I said she could come here. ...

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A real friend - A friend in need is a friend indeed

Wed, 02 Sep 2009 16:08:34 GMT

Relationships : A real friend - A friend in need is a friend indeed

Sub: A real friend - A friend in need is a friend indeed

I would like you all to share some experience(s) after which you/we found that "a friend in need is a friend indeed"

-- Regards, M. Shafiq

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status of relationships....

Tue, 01 Sep 2009 01:49:10 GMT

Relationships : status of relationships....

When do you think you know that you can differentiate between feelings for a friend and feelings for someone special???

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Fall in Love with a Best Friend

Fri, 28 Aug 2009 10:23:51 GMT

Relationships : Fall in Love with a Best Friend

ever fall in love with your own best friend..??

some ppl think its not a good thing to fall in love with someone who already know you so well and its not healthy for the relationship..

to me, ive already fall in love with my own best friend, so far, from a friend, to a best friend and now, my sweetheart.. i couldnt be more happier..

she is everything i need.. in terms of ANYTHING..

so, anyone here dating ur best friend..??

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mother-in-law in the house!

Sat, 22 Aug 2009 11:28:08 GMT

Relationships : mother-in-law in the house!

I'd like people to present their views on sharing the same accommodation for long periods of time with wife

and her mother

.

Personally, I find this very very challenging!

My mother-in-law stays at our place for about 5 months in total every year. She is single and takes care after our child. Accommodation is not that small, but I still have to give away my study room for her bedroom. I often need to do work at home, and when she is there, I work at the dinner table or simply on the lap.

Therefore, NO PRIVACY.

As a single woman, she is not at ease with men in general. It is better not to comment on her way of tiding up the house, otherwise she would blow up at me.

Therefore, NO PEACE OF MIND.

If I stop doing house work for some time, she grows more negative towards me (as if I incurred more work on her daughter, which is possibly a sort of an instinct). So, I have to prevent her from doing things in the house that I do anyway when she is away.

Thus I still have to do my usual house work while losing both privacy and peace of mind.

Mother-in-law will carry on with her visits. I have to make them less painful...

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