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How does one ask a girl out?





leosthenerd
I would, but...
creativfrequenci
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This Valentine's Day make your date special by giving your beloved the best gift of all. Get that ring from the jeweler and pop it up with your question while dining or just when the sun is going down. It is the best gift anyone could give to a loved one. Of course it is difficult to live upto this gift every year!

Have your proposal aired on the radio on your beloved's favorite station. Make sure he/she is listening to the station at that time. It is sure to bowl her over. It is original and not many have tried this idea yet.

Another way of proposing is to hire a glider and get your message written on the sky against the blue backdrop, only if you can afford it. Intercom her when you are about to get the message written. Rest assured the answer is going to be a "Yes". Just pray for a safe landing though!

Record a personal home video of the moments you spent together. You can also include nicknames you use for each other. Get your friends to re-enact these moments. In the end, the video shows you, proposing your love to your cherished one. Get it delivered to your beloved through a friend along with a bouquet of roses. It sure to win your beloved's heart and there is no way one can reject such a cute proposal.

Another great idea for a proposal is to express your love on the big screen. Make a plan for a movie and pre-plan with the manager of the theater to have your proposal aired on the screen just before the movie begins. The always-energetic crowd will be your confidence booster and is sure to get a positive reply for your proposal.

Another great idea to propose is on your beloved's birthday. It will make that day so special that it will be etched in her memory forever. You can take him/her for dinner and propose when it is just the two of you, or you can do it in front of her family and friends.

A unique idea is to gift your beloved a jigsaw puzzle. Make sure you take out one piece from the puzzle beforehand. Ask her to solve the puzzle. When he/she realizes one piece is missing, take that piece out from your pocket in which it is written, "Marry me because you complete me". It is a beautiful way to show your beloved how much he/she means to you.

Proposing while taking a walk in a romantic atmosphere like by the sea-shore, a secluded park or near a historical monument is also a good idea. It is simple, unexpected and is sure to win over your love. Make sure the timing is either early morning or late evening, around twilight. It adds to the romance.

Gift her a small book in which "Will you marry me" is written in different languages. The english version can be at the end of the book. Another idea is to eliminate the page in which the english version is written. When they ask you what it means, propose!

The last and the best way to propose is the traditional way. Go down on one knee, hold a single red rose on which the ring is tied with a ribbon and pop the question. Though old, this way is a sure winner and works every time.

Source - http://festivals.iloveindia.com/valentines-day/proposing-ideas/top10-ideas-forromantic-proposal.html

Hope its helpful.. All the best!
[MOD - quote tags and source added - Bikerman]
dcfive65
Grow the Testosterone you need to get the ultimate confidence!
TrueFact
Establish a rapport, then it would be easy for you and everyone else to ask any girl out.
WhistleTurning
Hi leo
From your monica, I guess you don't get out much. By far the best way of meeting anyone is to belong to some group or other whether it is based on a hobby or interest. This way you have something in common to talk about and thus get to know her, and she you, in a real situation. 99.9% of the population would find it difficult to just walk up to someone and ask them for a date, but a person once you get aquainted is easy to say "would you like to ????? tomorrow, you wouild find it really interesting" or some such.
RosenCruz
do not practise a lot..just try to make some conversation that makes sense.then tell your purpose...
Chris65536
There's no easy way.

Talk to her, and get to know her a bit (as a friend, first). Then you can try and ask if she's doing anything on the weekend (a bit cliche, but it's a good sign whether she's interested in you). If she tells you that she's going out with her boyfriend (or girlfriend: we're in the 21st century after all!), then you have FAILED at this point. Twisted Evil

But aside from just blurting it out, you don't really have much recourse. And being turned down isn't that bad really. You just feel like a lemon afterward (especially if someone else overhears: so rule #2 is to do it quietly)
leosthenerd
Laughing thx guys
rightclickscott
Just don't be a pussy and do it. What's the worst that could happen? She says no and you move on to the next girl?
leosthenerd
I could, but I won't XD all great suggestions, thx again Very Happy
profbis
Tell her " How U doin?. and wink!
enricos
All the posts here say the same thing : "grow some balls "

But even before all that you have got to do one thing , and that is build attraction.

A famous pick up artist once said " Attraction is not a choice, it happens at the subconscious level". That means if she is not attracted to you it doesn't matter what you do your not going to get the girl.

Lets face it women want confident , goal oriented men who have high ambitions. Prove to her you have those qualities.

My best advice , build the attraction before you ask her out. Otherwise your just wasting your time.
apple
so....you asked her out yet???
ainieas
You what never works out? If you just sit and then contemplate what the other person would say for the fear of being rejected. You just need to let go of things like these do it in the spur of a moment. All thinking can be done later in retrospect. Smile
Afaceinthematrix
Just zip up your man suit and do it! Don't fear being rejected. Trust me. You never want to not ask a girl out because you're afraid of getting rejected because then you'll be wondering years later if you could have gotten her... it's better to just know if you could have gotten her. So just be nice, be yourself, get to know her, and then ask her if she wants to go out on a date.
thealpha
it depends on the types of event you want to do with the girl. You may simplt to ask her directly and I think if she do not has a negative feeling about you, she will agree to go out with you, right?
leosthenerd
Well, I asked her out and she seems to like me, but she hasn't given me an answer yet. Theres still hope... Wink
apple
leosthenerd wrote:
Well, I asked her out and she seems to like me, but she hasn't given me an answer yet. Theres still hope... Wink


who hoooooooooooo!
i happy for you!

so how'd you feel after asking her?
pamelahicks
be respectful, and polite. Don't assume she will say yes. And don't assume she will say no!
Keran
Sorry if this comes out the wrong way, but I just couldn't stop myself ;]

enricos wrote:
Lets face it women want confident ,
- Open your zipper in your pants.
enricos wrote:
goal oriented men
- Keep staring at her breasts
enricos wrote:
who have high ambitions.
- ask her if she wants to try kamasutra with You.

Seems easy doesn't it? ;]
Coen
Just do it.
Remember, she won't eat you alive or something like that. The worst thing that can happen is that she tells you "no". Well, bummer but nothing you can't get over.
leosthenerd
Laughing Laughing Laughing nice

thanks Very Happy

I felt pretty good, kind of embarassed but happy nonetheless.
bonez
Who says there are no secrets?
First be bold (ladies like guys that are bold but don't be proud)
do not over work your self in a bid to impress her
brush your mouth very well
Make sure you are not over dressed or applied too much make ups
leosthenerd
But I don't wear make-up Laughing
Coen
That's good then Razz
But he's right. Be genuine and be yourself. If you start acting strange and better then you are the girl will probably notice and she might not like it. Just be you and try beeing confident (don't act over confident though, you'll feel where the line is yourself just fine). As I said before, it's not such a big deal to ask a girl out. You just need to do it.

I asked a girl out for the first time myself a while ago and I was stressing a bit but did it anyway. I asked her and she said yes quickly. I was like: Gosh, that was easy.
It's not terribly hard. Just try it and you'll see Smile
watersoul
Just be friendly and happy and confident I say, but not over-confident.
Oh, and always believe in yourself every time, thats the main thing - otherwise no one will believe in you. I've got a twin sister and she tells me that its unbelievable the number of girls out there who are looking at guy's themselves and actually just really hoping for that one question of "fancy doing something tonight/weekend/whatever" Smile
apple
things still going good leo?
leosthenerd
for the most part yeah Wink
venometal
+ hi sylvia
- hello
+ how u doin
- fine u?
+ just wonderin..hmmm..u have a bf?
- no, why u askin?
+ ehhmm..u wanna go with me? Embarassed

if sylvia is the right girl:
- lol so cute, yeah why not .))

if she isnt:
- wow it was quite fast man, lets take it easy n stay friends
leosthenerd
Good senario Wink thats a good way to do it
me410
Only one phrase: Who dares winsˇ
Kyohtee
Say" Oh My god!!!! plz, go out with me!! Ahh*crys*" and look up Razz
Arthur3009
i don't know, asking? who knows, you can't say it is in that way, NOOO, noooooo, every girl has one kind of feeling
youandmephotography
If the girl is in your circle of friends, maybe talk to her at a party or gathering

If you haven't called her yet, and are relying upon txts and ims, try calling her, it shows confidence!
If you don't want to do that, try to swing the conversation to movies, ask her if she's seen any blah blah, etc. MOVIES aren't a great first date, I would say just hanging out somewhere is a better one, the darkness/tense feeling could get both of you really nervous, if you know what I'm saying.

Try to pick a place where you can talk about anything you want, a "relaxed" setting

Hope that helps?
deanhills
Talk to her. If there is never an opportunity because she is always surrounded by friends, then try and find her phone number and phone her. But talking directly is probably the best way to see how receptive she is of going out with you.
dale
Here are some cheese pickup lines:


I'm not drunk, I'm just intoxicated by you.
I was so enchanted by your beauty that I ran into that wall over there. So I am going to need your name and number for insurance purposes.
If beauty were time, you'd be eternity.
If I were a stop light, I'd turn red everytime you passed by, just so I could stare at you a bit longer.
Babe, your beauty makes the morning sun look like the dull glimmer of the moon.
You'd better direct that beauty somewhere else, you'll set the carpet on fire.
If I received a nickel for everytime I saw someone as beautiful as you, I'd have five cents.
For a moment I thought I had died and gone to heaven. Now I see that I am very much alive, and heaven has been brought to me.
Sorry, but you owe me a drink. [Why?] Because when I looked at you, I dropped mine.
You look cold. Want to use me as a blanket?
Can I have directions? [To where?] To your heart.
Do you have a BandAid? I just scraped my knee falling for you.
Be unique and different, say yes.
Do you have a map? I'm getting lost in your eyes.
Fascinating. I've been looking at your eyes all night long, 'cause I've never seen such dark eyes with so much light in them.
Most people like to watch the Olympics, because they only happens once every 4 years, but I'd rather talk to you cause the chance of meeting someone so special only happens once in a lifetime.
You're so beautiful that you made me forget my pickup line.
You shouldn't wear makeup. It's messing with perfection!
If I had a star for every time you brightened my day, I'd have a galaxy in my hand.
If a thousand painters worked for a thousand years, they could not create a work of art as beautiful as you.
You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.
Damn, if being sexy was a crime, you'd be guilty as charged!
I was wondering if you had an extra heart mine seems to have been stolen
There isn't a word in the dictionary for how good you look.
Me without you is like a nerd without braces, A shoe without laces, aSentenceWithoutSpaces
Is there an airport nearby or is that just my heart taking off?
When I'm older, I'll look back at all of my crowning memories, and I'll think of the day my children were born, the day I got married, and the day that I met you.
Are you from Tennessee? Because you're the only ten I see!
I must be a snowflake, because I've fallen for you.
Are you an interior decorator? When i saw you the room became beautiful.
There is something wrong with my cell phone. It doesn't have your number in it.
Baby, if you were words on a page, you'd be what they call FINE PRINT!
You must be a hell of a thief because you stole my heart from across the room.
Do you have a twin sister? Then you must be the most beautiful girl in the world!
You look beautiful today, just like every other day.
Excuse me, but I think I dropped something. MY JAW!
If you were a booger I'd pick you first.
Do you know what I did last night? I looked up at the stars, and matched each one with a reason why I love you.
Excuse me, I think you have something in your eye. Oh wait, it's just a sparkle.
If this bar is a meat market, you must be the prime rib.
Are you lost ma'am? Because heaven is a long way from here.
I'm fighting the urge to make you the happiest woman on earth tonight.
My love for you is like diarrhea, I just can't hold it in.
Hello, I'm a thief, and I'm here to steal your heart.
Hey baby you're so fine you make me stutter, wha-wha-what's your name?
I bet you $20 you're gonna turn me down.
I'm not actually this tall. I'm sitting on my wallet.
Do you have the time? [Tells you the time] No, the time to write down my number?
Would you grab my arm so I can tell my friends I've been touched by an angel?
Hey... Didn't I see your name in the dictionary under "Shazaam!"?
Rejection can lead to emotional stress for both parties involved and emotional stress can lead to physical complications such as headaches, ulcers, cancerous tumors, and even death! So for my health and yours, JUST SAY YES!
I seem to have lost my phone number. Can I have yours?

Hello are you married? [Yes] Well I didn't hear you say "happily".
You are like a candy bar: half sweet and half nuts.
Excuse me, but does this smell like chloroform to you?

Hello how are you? [Fine] Hey, I didn't ask you how you looked!
Did you clean your pants with Windex? I can practically see myself in them.
How was heaven when you left it?
Did you fart, cause you blew me away.
I don't have a library card, but do you mind if I check you out?
Hey...somebody farted. Let's get out of here.
I didn't know that angels could fly so low!
There must be something wrong with my eyes, I can't take them off you.
You are so fine, I wish I could plant you and grow a whole field of you!
Is your last name Gillette? Because you are the best a man can get.
Is your name "swiffer"? 'Cause you just swept me off my feet.
Excuse me, but you dropped something back there" (What?) "This conversation, lets pick it up later tonight.
Are you going to kiss me or do I have to lie to my diary?
Are you cold? You look like you could use some hot chocolate... Well, here I am!
If stars would fall everytime I would think of you, the sky would soon be empty.
Damn, if being sexy was a crime, you'd be guilty as charged!
You know, Dr. Phil says I'm afraid of commitment...Want to help prove him wrong?
Your lips look so lonely.... Would they like to meet mine?
Baby, you're so sweet, you put Hershey's outta business.
Can I buy you a drink or do you just want the money?
Did the sun come out or did you just smile at me?
So there you are! I've been looking all over for YOU, the woman of my dreams!
Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by again?
Inheriting eighty million bucks doesn't mean much when you have a weak heart.
You see my friend over there? [Point to friend] He wants to know if YOU think I'M cute.
The only thing your eyes haven't told me is your name.
Excuse me, I just noticed you noticing me and I just wanted to give you notice that I noticed you too.
(As she is leaving) Hey aren't you forgetting something? (What?) Me!
Somebody better call God, cuz heaven's missing an angel!
Can I borrow a quarter? ["What for?"] I want to call my mom and tell her I just met the man/woman of my dreams.
Did it hurt? (Did what hurt?) When you fell out of heaven?
I'm sorry, were you talking to me? [No] Well then, please start.
I know milk does a body good, but baby, how much have you been drinking?
I play the field, and it looks like I just hit a home run with you.
I'm new in town. Could you give me directions to your apartment?
If I could rearrange the alphabet, I would put 'U' and 'I' together.
If you were a tear in my eye I would not cry for fear of losing you.
My lenses turn dark in the sunshine of your love.
Was you father an alien? Because there's nothing else like you on Earth!
What time do you have to be back in heaven?
Baby, I'm no Fred Flintstone, but I can make your Bedrock!
Wouldn't we look cute on a wedding cake together?
Your daddy must have been a baker, because you've got a nice set of buns.
Your legs must be tired because you've been running through my mind all night.
[Point at her ass] Pardon me, is this seat taken?
Was your father a thief? 'Cause someone stole the stars from the sky and put them in your eyes.
[Look at her shirt label.] When they say, "What are you doing?" You respond: "Yep! Made in heaven!"
Your eyes are blue, like the ocean. And baby, I'm lost at sea.
You know how they say skin is the largest organ on the human body? Not in my case.
My name isn't Elmo, but you can tickle me any time you want to.
You be the Dairy Queen and I'll be your Burger King: You treat me right, and I'll do it your way.
(Ask a person for the time) 9:15? So today is May 1, 2008, at 9:15 PM, thanks I just wanted to be able to remember the exact moment that I met the woman of my dreams.
Pinch me. [Why?] You're so fine I must be dreaming.
Ouch! My tooth hurts! [Why?] Because you are soooo sweet!
You must be from Pearl Harbor, because baby, you're the bomb.
You must be Jamaican, because Jamaican me crazy.
Do you know karate? Because your body is really kickin'.
When God made you, he was showing off.
You must be a Snickers, because you satisfy me.
Are you a parking ticket? 'Cause you've got fine written all over you.
Is your dad a terrorist? Because you are the bomb.
Are you religious? Cause you are the answers to all my prayers.
You're like a dictionary, you add meaning to my life!
Baby, you are so fine I could put you on a plate and sop you up with a biscuit.
Is there a rainbow today? I just found the treasure I've been searching for!
You remind me of a magnet, because you sure are attracting me over here!
Hey, is it just me, or are we destined to be married?
Hello. Are you taking any applications for a boy/girlfriend?
I have an "owie" on my lip. Will you kiss it and make it better?
Let's make like a fabric softener and 'Snuggle
I didn't see any stars in the sky tonight, the most heavenly body was standing right next to me.
Hi, my name is Doug. That's "god" spelled backwards with a little bit of you wrapped up in it.
If I could reach out and hold a star for everytime you've made me smile, I'd hold the sky in the palm of my hand.
Well, here I am. What were your other two wishes?
(Put your fingers on the other's nipples) Hey, here's (name), comin' at you with the weather. Can I be your warm front?
How much does a polar bear weigh? [How much?] Enough to break the ice... Hi, I'm (insert name here).
Well, I AM telepathic, and I can tell that you love me. Right? [NO!] Darn, I always get "love" and "lust" mixed up.
Should I smile because we are friends, or cry because I know that is what we will ever be?
When I look into your eyes, it is like a gateway into the world of which I want to be a part.
Hey baby. You got a jersey? [A jersey?...Why?] Because I need your name and number.
Hello, I'm doing a survey of what people think are the cheesiest pickup lines. So, do you pick 'Do you come here often?', 'What's your sign?', or 'Hello, I'm doing a survey of what people think are the cheesiest pickup lines.'?
(hold out hand) Would you hold this for me while I go for a walk?
This time next year let’s be laughing together.
Didn't I see you on the cover of Vogue?
Excuse me, I don't want you to think I'm ridiculous or anything, but you are the most beautiful woman I have ever seen. I just felt like I had to tell you.
Have you always been this cute, or did you have to work at it?
Hey baby, you must be a light switch, cuz every time I see you, you turn me on!
Hey, don't I know you? Yeah, you're the girl with the beautiful smile.
Was your father a mechanic? Then how did you get such a finely tuned body?
I have had a really bad day and it always makes me feel better to see a pretty girl smile. So, would you smile for me?
I hope you know CPR, cuz you take my breath away!
I just had to come talk with you. Sweetness is my weakness.
I think I can die happy now, cause I've just seen a piece of heaven.
Apart from being sexy, what do you do for a living?
If I told you that you had a great body, would you hold it against me?
I sneezed because God blessed me with you.
Is it hot in here or is it just you?
Nice to meet you, I'm (your name) and you are...gorgeous!
So, what do you do for a living besides always making all the men excited and warm all over?
Was your dad king for a day? He must have been to make a princess like you.
Were you arrested earlier? It's gotta be illegal to look that good.
Were your parents Greek Gods, 'cause it takes two gods to make a goddess.
What does it feel like to be the most beautiful girl in this room?
What's that on your face? Oh, must just be beauty. Here, let me get it off. Hey, it's not coming off!
Wow! Are those real?
Ya know, you look really hot! You must be real reason for global warming.
You are the reason men fall in love.
You know the more I drink, the prettier you get!
You know, I would die happy if I saw you naked just once!
You know, you might be asked to leave soon. You're making the other women look really bad.
You look like my third wife. [how many time have you been married?] Twice.
You make me melt like hot fudge on a sundae.
You should be someone's wife.
Were you in Boy Scouts? Because you sure have tied my heart in a knot.
Are you as beautiful on the inside as you are on the outside?
I want to be your tear drop, so I could be born in your eyes, live on your cheeks, and die on your lips.
Babe! you look so fine I could drink your bath water!
You're so hot you would make the devil sweat.
If I had a rose for every time I thought of you, I would be walking through my garden forever.
Excuse me.....Hi, i'm writing a term paper on the finer things in life, and i was wondering if i could interview you...
If god made any thing better than you he keep it for him self.
Girl, if I were a fly, I'd be all over you, because you're the shit!
There must be a lightswitch on my forehead because everytime I see you, you turn me on!
Hey, how did you do that? (What?) Look so good?
Damn girl, you have more curves than a race track.
If you stood in front of a mirror and help up 11 roses, you would see 12 of the most beautiful things in the world.
If God made anything more pretty, I'm sure he'd keep it for himself.
You are so beautiful that I would marry your brother just to get into your family.
You look like a cool glass of refreshing water, and I am the thirstiest man in the world.
Are you a tamale? 'Cause you're hot.
You are so beautiful that you give the sun a reason to shine.
Do you want to see a picture of a beautiful person? (hold up a mirror)
Do you bleach your teeth? 'Cause your smile lights up the entire room like a candle in the dark. Let's go prove it.
Your ass is so nice that it is a shame that you have to sit on it.
Someone should call the police, because you just stole my heart!
Stop, drop, and roll, baby. You are on fire.
Baby, you're so hot, you make the equator look like the north pole.
Come live in my heart, and pay no rent.
If it weren't for that DAMNED sun, you'd be the hottest thing ever created.
How is your fever? [What fever?] Oh... you just look hot to me.
I just got dumped, and I think that you could make me feel better.
(Walk up to someone and bite them anywhere) Sorry, taking a bite out of crime. [WHAT?] Well it has to be illegal to look that good!
You are a 9 - you'd be a perfect 10 if you were with me.
Excuse me, I'd like to have kids someday, and I wanted to know how your parents created such a beautiful creature.
You're so hot, I bet you could light a candle at 10 paces.
My buddies over there said that I wouldn't be able to start a conversation with the most beautiful girl in the bar. Wanna buy some drinks with some of their money?
I can't believe I've been hear the entire evening with all these beautiful people and the moment I find 'The One', all I have time to say is "good bye".
Hey baby, you've got somthing on your butt: my eyes.
This isn't a beer belly, It'a a fuel tank for a love machine.
I don't know you, but I think I love you already.
You know I'd like to invite you over, but I'm afraid you're so hot you'll skyrocket my air-conditioning bill.
Here's the key to my house, my car... and my heart.
if we shared a garden, I'd put my tulips and your tulips together. (tulips = two lips)
Is your name Summer? 'Cause you are as hot as hell.
If I had to choose between one night with you or winning the lottery...I would chose winning the lottery...but it would be close...real close...
Do you have any sunscreen? 'Cause you are burning me up!
See these keys? I wish I had the one to your heart.
Stare at girl . ("What're you staring at?")
You, Before I Wake Up From this Dream.
You're hotter than donut grease.
Your eyes are as blue as window cleaner.
Are your parents retarded, 'cause you sure are special.
If you could put a price tag on beauty you'd be worth more than Fort Knox.
I must be dancing with the devil, because you're hot as hell.
I never need to see the sun again because your eyes light up my world.
If you were a steak you would be well done.
It's dark in here. Wait! It's because all of the light is shining on you.
Can you pull this heart-shaped arrow out of my butt? A damn little kid with wings shot me.
Hello. Cupid called. He says to tell you that he needs my heart back.
Kaseas
"hey, do you wanna meet up later for a coffee/drink/lunch?"
or
"hey do you wanna do something together later?" (i used that when asking out my current gf. We're going on 6 months now Very Happy
Afaceinthematrix
dale wrote:
Here are some cheese pickup lines:



Honestly, do not use pick-up-lines; they do not work. The only time I would ever suggest trying some stupid pick-up-line is if you're actually not trying to get a date and you're just friends with the girl and you want to make her laugh.

As far as picking up chicks, they simply do not work. I'm saying this from experience, and I'm sure there are plenty of ladies on this forum that can confirm what I just said.
desonium
When I see a lovely girl I try to get her attention. Like walking against her and then say "sorry i was pushed in the back". Most times she smiles at you everytime you see her again Very Happy
The conversation will start by him self Cool
andysart380
just tell em you want to go out with them
gaxtest
First become her genuine friend and make sure u can make her laugh to ur best ability, then take her out maybe on Val's day and tell her what you think about her.... hey hey hey!!! follow ur heart ok!
muffinman187
have confidence talk to her , make her laugh, have confidence, kick it with her, have confidence and then ask. ask and you will know
collage123
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natilovesmike
I think you just need to go and ask if she would like to go out for dinner and a movie. That sends a pretty clear message and it is still done in a friendly way.

I know girls that are SO pretty and guys who really like them but they never get the courage to ask...and I know the girl would most likely say yes if they only asked...

But yes, sometimes you will get a rejection...which hurts...but after a few rejections you realize its nothing too bad...not the end of the world. You can just keep looking for the right girl.

But if you never ask....then you will never get anything.
Afaceinthematrix
natilovesmike wrote:
But yes, sometimes you will get a rejection...which hurts...but after a few rejections you realize its nothing too bad...not the end of the world. You can just keep looking for the right girl.

But if you never ask....then you will never get anything.


That reminds me of a strategy that I had back when I was 17-18 and in high school... I just learned to not fear rejection. So if I wanted a date, and I figured that 1/5 girls would go out with me, then I would just go and ask out 5 girls... One of them will probably say "yes." So just learn that rejection isn't that bad and ask as many girls out as you can... The more you ask out, the more you'll hear "yes." Of course, I'm a little older now and a little better at these kinds of things. So I know how to do these things slightly better...
pscompanies
All the posts here say the same thing : "grow some balls ". But even before all that you have got to do one thing , and that is build attraction. A famous pick up artist once said " Attraction is not a choice, it happens at the subconscious level". That means if she is not attracted to you it doesn't matter what you do your not going to get the girl. Let's face it: women want confident , goal oriented men who have high ambitions. Prove to her you have those qualities. My best advice , build the attraction before you ask her out. Otherwise your just wasting your time.
andysart380
ive got the same sort of problem man...i'll talk and flirt all day bjut i never have the confidence to ask them to hang out or if they want to do something..what helped me out is i try to always remeber..there are millions more waiting to be asked..one of them eventually has to say yes...and the more you ask the better your chances.
paskifire
be yourself Very Happy
Bluedoll
Well seems you asked her and got a good response so that part is over. If I can make a small suggestion it would be that if I were you I would now listen to her because you do like her and not so much to anyone else who is not going out with her.

Hope that makes sense.
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todabeat
i think that it all depends on your age...

because depending our age, it could mean different things
like when you are in middle school.. is not like a lets get married
its just like the first girlfriend it makes you nervous but not that much

as if it was like the one.
the one you meet once you are 26-30 and you know she could be THE ONE Very Happy
Bluedoll
Dales pick up lines Laughing
- pick up lines do not work but some most definitily are good for a laugh -
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hello Dale Laughing
ponda
I would, but...
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Asking a girl out is no easy feat, especially when you're a little shy, and you don't want to ruin your chances with what feels like the girl of your dreams, but don't worry about that because most girls will give you a chance for just trying. But there comes a time when you have to step up and be bold, or forever wonder what if. Read these guidelines, draw some courage, and ask her out! And remember, all you have to do is be yourself!
_AG_
Before its obvious you've noticed her, make sure she notices you. Show the confidence you have. Let her see that you arent about picking up women. And try to seem open and approachable by laughing and relaxing your body language.
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