i love a girl. but i dont know how i purpose . can u help me
purpose a girl but how?
Do you mean Propose? Well, for starters, I would make sure that she felt the same way about you as you do about her to avoid the life long scar of rejection 
Aside from that, it should not be too hard. Do something special for her - take her some place pretty, doing something that she would want to do. It doesn't have to be someplace that cost a fortune - a nice evening walk on the beach or watching the sun set from someplace remote and peaceful (a dinner picnic perhaps)... There are a million and one ways to go about it - you just want to try to make it something that will make a good memory without being too cheezy (though some chicks think cheezy is cute, so it depends on your lady)...
Sorry this is not more specific, but it kinda all depends on what is special to you and her... Just put some thought into it and I am sure something special will come to you...
Aside from that, it should not be too hard. Do something special for her - take her some place pretty, doing something that she would want to do. It doesn't have to be someplace that cost a fortune - a nice evening walk on the beach or watching the sun set from someplace remote and peaceful (a dinner picnic perhaps)... There are a million and one ways to go about it - you just want to try to make it something that will make a good memory without being too cheezy (though some chicks think cheezy is cute, so it depends on your lady)...
Sorry this is not more specific, but it kinda all depends on what is special to you and her... Just put some thought into it and I am sure something special will come to you...
Just go and tell her u like her a lot... Maybe use the words "I Love You" if u do love her..
It isint really that difficult....
It isint really that difficult....
walking up to a girl and saying "I love you" isn't such a great idea...
its too much, ease into it
its too much, ease into it
Do your homework. Get to know your girl well, before you pop the question. Get to know her interests, her dislikes, and her general nature that will help you plan your proposal in a better way. If she is shy and an introvert, propose when you two are alone. If she is sporty and loves adventure, then take her for rock climbing and propose when you reach the top, lolz!!
All girls love flowers. So get a huge bouquet of roses and tell her how much you love her and how much she means to you. Tell her you would like to spend the rest of your life with her or alone. Be ready to be smothered by a genuinely happy woman's hug!
Appreciate her for what she is. Tell her "you look beautiful" when she does not have any make up on. Tell her she looks amazing when she is having a bad day and mean it. She will love you for it and will readily agree when you propose. Just don't overdo it, as it may look fake.
Girls love to be pampered so when you intend to propose, make sure you are chivalrous enough to make her feel special and at the same time not look vulnerable. Women want a strong man, not a wimp.
Don't force her to say yes. The worst you can do is to push her around and threaten her dignity. Tell her to take her time and that you shall wait. Be a gentleman and respect her. In case she doesn't want a relationship, she will let you know of it then and there.
Hope these tips help you... All the best.
All girls love flowers. So get a huge bouquet of roses and tell her how much you love her and how much she means to you. Tell her you would like to spend the rest of your life with her or alone. Be ready to be smothered by a genuinely happy woman's hug!
Appreciate her for what she is. Tell her "you look beautiful" when she does not have any make up on. Tell her she looks amazing when she is having a bad day and mean it. She will love you for it and will readily agree when you propose. Just don't overdo it, as it may look fake.
Girls love to be pampered so when you intend to propose, make sure you are chivalrous enough to make her feel special and at the same time not look vulnerable. Women want a strong man, not a wimp.
Don't force her to say yes. The worst you can do is to push her around and threaten her dignity. Tell her to take her time and that you shall wait. Be a gentleman and respect her. In case she doesn't want a relationship, she will let you know of it then and there.
Hope these tips help you... All the best.
| eznet wrote: |
| Do you mean Propose? Well, for starters, I would make sure that she felt the same way about you as you do about her to avoid the life long scar of rejection
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very nice catch eznet !
Well, I think that depends the most on your country or region and what kind of habits and traditions you have there for that.
But, easily, you just may go straight for her and say: "Hi, can we go out for dinner"
Whatever feelings or emotions you have towards her, you can't propose right away as she simply can refuse as she may never noticed you around. You need to establish a rapport (or any kind of relation) before you take that move.
You can save yourself this step if you noticed she's attracted and/or concerned of you.
Good luck
But, easily, you just may go straight for her and say: "Hi, can we go out for dinner"
Whatever feelings or emotions you have towards her, you can't propose right away as she simply can refuse as she may never noticed you around. You need to establish a rapport (or any kind of relation) before you take that move.
You can save yourself this step if you noticed she's attracted and/or concerned of you.
Good luck
| leosthenerd wrote: |
| walking up to a girl and saying "I love you" isn't such a great idea...
its too much, ease into it |
I would home that if you are to the point of proposal, you would at least be past the awkwardness of "i love you". 
| leosthenerd wrote: |
| walking up to a girl and saying "I love you" isn't such a great idea...
its too much, ease into it |
Never knew that this (walking up to a girl and saying "I love you") was easy
. From the way u say, i will assume that you have purposed (Proposed) to multiple gals.
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| TrueFact wrote: |
| Well, I think that depends the most on your country or region and what kind of habits and traditions you have there for that.
But, easily, you just may go straight for her and say: "Hi, can we go out for dinner"
Whatever feelings or emotions you have towards her, you can't propose right away as she simply can refuse as she may never noticed you around. You need to establish a rapport (or any kind of relation) before you take that move. You can save yourself this step if you noticed she's attracted and/or concerned of you. Good luck |
What do you think... Gals will say No for this. If you know her for quiet some time and if you would call her, do you think that she will say NO ???
Supposing ur friend come to you and call you for a Dinner (which shows explicitly that he / she is going to spend
) then will you go or not.
AND if he / she calls you out to Dinner every day (Pay for Dining is via "DUTCH" Method) will you go or NOT ??
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but at the end, if you still think that you dunno how to do it, don't do it yet)
| indianinworld wrote: |
| Never knew that this (walking up to a girl and saying "I love you") was easy . From the way u say, i will assume that you have purposed (Proposed) to multiple gals.
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I think that what it boils down to is that saying "I love you" and a proposal to marriage are two completely different things... Saying "I love you", although sometimes may be difficult at first, is a natural step that comes along in many relationships after a period of time... it happens after the relationship has carried on long enough for the people to truly know each other... A proposal on the other hand usually comes far after many "I love you"s have been exchanged...
I would not dream of proposing to anyone that I was not only deeply in love with, but that I also knew almost as well as I knew myself. Marriage is a big step and can often be difficult - far bigger and more difficult than falling in love, which is easy... A proposal for marriage should only be extended when both people in the relationship have established that they love each other and have began talking about their joint future together... after all, that is what a marriage is - the formalization of two people's love and their desire to share their futures.
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