Are you in love??
Yes i am 
Why the sad face then, friend? You should be happy. 
Yes, I am
That's mean that I'm love of a person who doesn't love me in the way that I wanna be loved.
I wanna be in loved of another girl... but I dont know how.
I am, unanswered but party confirmed. Don't know if it will stay at friendship, at least I want more than that.
| gtoroap wrote: |
Yes, I am
That's mean that I'm love of a person who doesn't love me in the way that I wanna be loved.
I wanna be in loved of another girl... but I dont know how. |
Then you aren't in love.
im in a state where... Im in love with like 4 people.
looong and complicated story, but yes Im in love.
im a in love 
Yep, I am. Reading through the posts, I wonder if a person can be in love with more than 1 person at the same time. If yes, is it really love? Can one gives equal love or would the love have to be divided? I guess you can still call it love but I don't think its true love.
How do we define true love? Obviously, there is no one definition that fits all and I pressume everyone would have their own opinions. Love is all about feeling and if one feels in love, then yes thats love, I suppose. The very same way, one would fall out of love when s/he does not feel it...
To all those in love, make it last!
| Guelila wrote: |
im in a state where... Im in love with like 4 people.
looong and complicated story, but yes Im in love. |
ohh man.... this is because people now just call everything love....even people who go out together since 2 days say they are in love. You cannot be in love with 4 people at the same time this is just an excuse for the desire to get sexual favors from these 4 girls at the same time. love is a feeling that takes time to grow, that can't be made to exist after one stare or whatever ceheap romans and serie B movies have gotten into our heads.
I'm certainly in love! I have found the most amazing, beautiful, talented girl and I think about her all the time. We've only been dating for a week too, which makes me question the following assertion:
| supjapscrapper wrote: |
| love is a feeling that takes time to grow, that can't be made to exist after one stare or whatever ceheap romans and serie B movies have gotten into our heads. |
I think that love can be very quick to develop. I have no doubt that I love this girl. I of course haven't told her yet...as I don't know if she feels the same way yet. I think it depends on the person. I find that I can fall in love fairly quickly if the girl is right...but I do agree that love only grows over time. It sounds like a contradiction, but it's not to me. Just because I love her now, doesn't mean I won't grow to love her more and more over time. Personally, I like to think of love as a whole spectrum, as opposed to just black and white, love or not. There is love there, I can feel it...but I also know it will only grow over time. So who's to say you can't fall in love with just a glance? Really, it depends on the person and their own beliefs and opinions about love. Some can fall in love that easily, others cannot. Neither way is right or wrong...but I think we can all agree that love in and of itself is always a wonderful thing.
| genchan wrote: |
Yep, I am. Reading through the posts, I wonder if a person can be in love with more than 1 person at the same time. If yes, is it really love? Can one gives equal love or would the love have to be divided? I guess you can still call it love but I don't think its true love.
How do we define true love? Obviously, there is no one definition that fits all and I pressume everyone would have their own opinions. Love is all about feeling and if one feels in love, then yes thats love, I suppose. The very same way, one would fall out of love when s/he does not feel it...
To all those in love, make it last! |
I don't believe in love with multiple persons, although I don't think that there is anything wrong with Polygamy. Multiple wives or husbands could be the result of love with no new impulses anymore. You can't imagine being without the other person, but your heart won't beat for him/her as it did the day you met.
Love is actually just a method of the brain to mentally force a person to reproduce. That's what it does but you can't define it.
Yeah i have to say I'm in love,
and i think that this time i found the right person.

In 2 months and i have been in love with a girl who is my classmate. She really don't know me coz i'm new to the class,but she is the most beautiful girl i have ever seen in my life at the same time she is talented and educated as she goes no.1 for every exam.I tried talking to her many times but failed to do so. When ever i see her face looking down i feel as if i am in a big muddy river. Sometimes i see her alone sitting on her special chair, busy writing some thing and when i try to talk to her some thing happens in my heart which forces me to change my mind.You know what?..Because the girl is as polite as never seen before.And no body had never dated her before, so i get shy about that. she turned down my friend before and i am afraid like so. With all that happened i still love her so much. 
| daljirman wrote: |
In 2 months and i have been in love with a girl who is my classmate. She really don't know me coz i'm new to the class,but she is the most beautiful girl i have ever seen in my life at the same time she is talented and educated as she goes no.1 for every exam.I tried talking to her many times but failed to do so. When ever i see her face looking down i feel as if i am in a big muddy river. Sometimes i see her alone sitting on her special chair, busy writing some thing and when i try to talk to her some thing happens in my heart which forces me to change my mind.You know what?..Because the girl is as polite as never seen before.And no body had never dated her before, so i get shy about that. she turned down my friend before and i am afraid like so. With all that happened i still love her so much.  |
You probably aren't in love either, but you do certainly have admirable feelings toward her. Don't just ask her out, though. Try to talk to her, and don't let your heart get in the way. You own your heart, it doesn't own you. Don't let your anxiety get the best of you. That's how I lost out on so many good years, but I've been able to regain them because of the one girl I'm with now. I can't say for sure if she's the one, but we certainly connect.
Either way, give it a shot. What's the worst that could happen?
| rightclickscott wrote: |
| daljirman wrote: | In 2 months and i have been in love with a girl who is my classmate. She really don't know me coz i'm new to the class,but she is the most beautiful girl i have ever seen in my life at the same time she is talented and educated as she goes no.1 for every exam.I tried talking to her many times but failed to do so. When ever i see her face looking down i feel as if i am in a big muddy river. Sometimes i see her alone sitting on her special chair, busy writing some thing and when i try to talk to her some thing happens in my heart which forces me to change my mind.You know what?..Because the girl is as polite as never seen before.And no body had never dated her before, so i get shy about that. she turned down my friend before and i am afraid like so. With all that happened i still love her so much.  |
You probably aren't in love either, but you do certainly have admirable feelings toward her. Don't just ask her out, though. Try to talk to her, and don't let your heart get in the way. You own your heart, it doesn't own you. Don't let your anxiety get the best of you. That's how I lost out on so many good years, but I've been able to regain them because of the one girl I'm with now. I can't say for sure if she's the one, but we certainly connect.
Either way, give it a shot. What's the worst that could happen? |
He's right Daljirman. Talking is the least you should do. If you just have a conversation you can decide whether you still like her, and her hobbies and her whole lifestyle. Plus you shouldn't be scared to talk to anyone.
Was in love few days back. Now no more...
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| He's right Daljirman. Talking is the least you should do. If you just have a conversation you can decide whether you still like her, and her hobbies and her whole lifestyle. Plus you shouldn't be scared to talk to anyone. |
That, or you can masturbate. On her, preferably.
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I am in more than love, love is no where near what i feel for my soul mate. 
| rightclickscott wrote: |
| Flakky wrote: | | Either way, give it a shot. What's the worst that could happen? | He's right Daljirman. Talking is the least you should do. If you just have a conversation you can decide whether you still like her, and her hobbies and her whole lifestyle. Plus you shouldn't be scared to talk to anyone. |
That, or you can masturbate. On her, preferably.[/quote]
Masturbation is also an option but I don't think you can win her heart by doing that 
| Flakky wrote: |
Masturbation is also an option but I don't think you can win her heart by doing that  |
BUKAKKE BUKAKKE BUKAKKE.
Too much sperm.
| rightclickscott wrote: |
| Flakky wrote: | Masturbation is also an option but I don't think you can win her heart by doing that  |
BUKAKKE BUKAKKE BUKAKKE.
Too much sperm. |
You've been watching too many Japanese movies, you're thoughts of love are now corrupt! D:
| Flakky wrote: |
| rightclickscott wrote: | | Flakky wrote: | Masturbation is also an option but I don't think you can win her heart by doing that  |
BUKAKKE BUKAKKE BUKAKKE.
Too much sperm. |
You've been watching too many Japanese movies, you're thoughts of love are now corrupt! D: |
It becomes ok when you're watching those movies with your girlfriend. Like I do. =D
| rightclickscott wrote: |
| Flakky wrote: | | rightclickscott wrote: | | Flakky wrote: | Masturbation is also an option but I don't think you can win her heart by doing that  |
BUKAKKE BUKAKKE BUKAKKE.
Too much sperm. |
You've been watching too many Japanese movies, you're thoughts of love are now corrupt! D: |
It becomes ok when you're watching those movies with your girlfriend. Like I do. =D |
Ok now you are just scaring me 
I love my sons. In love with someone sexually? No. I care deeply for my wife but the love is pretty much dead. I don't feel like I'm capable of loving anyone, anymore. I know I could full myself into thinking some affair was love but I know how it'll be in the end so I just stand clear of love.
Well you see there is this girl i am deeply in love with and she feels the same way about me!! The only problem is she has been seing a guy for 1 year and she is having second thoughts about him. She told me she knows that her and i would be perfect for each other but she doesn't want to hurt him. I told her i will always be here for her but i also told her not too leave him for me! She said she wants too be with me soo bad!! She said she is willing to hurt him too be with me but i told her too stay with him for now till she finds out if she really wants too be with me that bad. I told her i will always be here for her if something happens. I said go for two years and if its just not right we can than think about being together. She has told me she willl do anything to be with me, and i feel the same about her!! but i cant tell her that, because she might just leave him for me! It wouldn't be so bad if he wasnt my good friend but i dont know. He has talked to me about it and he told me he thinks she should be with me because he knows she loves me more than him i told him tho that I could never do that too him because he loves her so much!! So really im stuck! We are madly in love but i dont think we could ever be in a relationship!!
I would say that I am in love and that I do love.
I think that love is a decision and not a feeling or emotion. SO I have decided to love despite my moods, despite his moods and despite all the obstacles life presents.
I love him.
| apple wrote: |
I would say that I am in love and that I do love.
I think that love is a decision and not a feeling or emotion. SO I have decided to love despite my moods, despite his moods and despite all the obstacles life presents.
I love him. |
Yeah you could also see it as decision, any counter-thoughts?
Well it's partially a decision but sometimes you just fall into it so you can't choose. But maybe I'm just trying to find out the perfect answer while we could also define love as something more general.
right now I'm not and its ok. 
Thoroughly in love! 
Updated status: Yes I am
I miss her since I haven't seen her for like, 5 days 
Yes, definetely I am in love. I am in love with lots of people. Depend how you define love. I love my kids. I love my husband. I love my parents.
I am not in love at the moment. Can't say that bothers me. I'm sure someone will cross my path in time.