Hey, I'm freezdog (aka Justin, in real life)
I have a relationship problem with the girl I'm crushing.
I know that I like her, but I have no idea what she thinks of me back.
Here's the story: (sorry that its really long )
We're both pretty good friends, she is two years older than I am, and
we see and talk to eachother a lot. I know her friends and they like me.
I've been over to her house and have driven around with her and some
of my friends. Right now, we're just good friends.
The problem is that now I think that I like her, and I am desperately afraid
to tell her, because 1.) I am really comfortable with our friendship. I respect
her and everything that she does because we share a lot of the same interests and 2.)
I'm afraid our relationship might get really awkward if I tell her and she does not return.
We're in a production together right now, "we are the dream." Last night during intermission
we snuck out alone to get some air and the topic sort of came up that we both had to sneak back to the drama room to get something or another. This involved walking around the permimeter of the school and going in the back enterance. She was really scared so she had me hold her arm. When we got down there, I asked her what she needed. She said, nothing- she just wanted to keep me company. Then she asked me what I needed. My motive was the same, I just wanted to keep her company. We laughed over it, and then the topic came up (obviously) of who each of us liked. She said that she was really confused. She had an ex-boyfriend who she still felt some attachment to and that there was someone in the cast that she also liked. I said that yeah, there was someone in the cast that I had a crush on. (HER!) She started guessing and said that if I told her she would tell me, etc... It eventually ended when we made it back around the school and we parted for the second half of the show.
I never told her.
The same scenario, or something similar, is going to happen tonight. She invited me to a small party before the show this afternoon with her and a few of each of our friends, but I declined because "I was busy."
I...need...help.
I feel backed into a corner with no space to breathe. Does anyone have any advice on what to do?
I have a relationship problem with the girl I'm crushing.
I know that I like her, but I have no idea what she thinks of me back.
Here's the story: (sorry that its really long )
We're both pretty good friends, she is two years older than I am, and
we see and talk to eachother a lot. I know her friends and they like me.
I've been over to her house and have driven around with her and some
of my friends. Right now, we're just good friends.
The problem is that now I think that I like her, and I am desperately afraid
to tell her, because 1.) I am really comfortable with our friendship. I respect
her and everything that she does because we share a lot of the same interests and 2.)
I'm afraid our relationship might get really awkward if I tell her and she does not return.
We're in a production together right now, "we are the dream." Last night during intermission
we snuck out alone to get some air and the topic sort of came up that we both had to sneak back to the drama room to get something or another. This involved walking around the permimeter of the school and going in the back enterance. She was really scared so she had me hold her arm. When we got down there, I asked her what she needed. She said, nothing- she just wanted to keep me company. Then she asked me what I needed. My motive was the same, I just wanted to keep her company. We laughed over it, and then the topic came up (obviously) of who each of us liked. She said that she was really confused. She had an ex-boyfriend who she still felt some attachment to and that there was someone in the cast that she also liked. I said that yeah, there was someone in the cast that I had a crush on. (HER!) She started guessing and said that if I told her she would tell me, etc... It eventually ended when we made it back around the school and we parted for the second half of the show.
I never told her.
The same scenario, or something similar, is going to happen tonight. She invited me to a small party before the show this afternoon with her and a few of each of our friends, but I declined because "I was busy."
I...need...help.
I feel backed into a corner with no space to breathe. Does anyone have any advice on what to do?
. drink a few glasses and tell her.
