Missing someone

iyepes

I was the one who wrote the topic about 40 days and 40 nights, misserably failed.

After a month of struggle, I finally had stated to say no to him. This time it wasn't a rethorical no, it was a no with him over me. He agreed again to stop having sex with me, I hope we both remain this agreement.

That's good, the bad part is, I suddenly find out myself missing him. We chat regularly, but last week he was so busy and I was somehow sick. Then Friday night arrived and I started feeling anxiety for not having talked with him.

We talked that day, he came for a moment to my home (his laptop is broken, so he needed my internet), we talked, nothing related to sex happened, I felt so good, but, I'm really concerned about missing him, it haven't happened this way before.

I don't want to find out I'm in love of him. I don't want that. He has a girlfriend and I'm doing my best to keep this as a friendship.

Any Suggestions about ways to stop missing someone?

whitehole

The best way I know to get over someone is to do things you like a lot. Like I love to workout and do well in school so I'd do lots of that and do it really well, you know, get into it. I'm sure you know how to get over them too in your own way. Gl, matters of the heart can be tough.

Coen

What whitehole said will work I think. Just find things you love to do and start doing them so you don't think about him all the time. In some crazy mood you could even try to find someone else although I wouldn't reccomend that option Razz

. I'd do as whitehole said, go out and do things you like.

geriav

To get over someone is I guess you have to realize that you have to move on and start to build a new kind of you. May be a new you is a start and do things that you like. Or may be think of a new goal in life and new perspective Wink

iyepes

Thanks for your two cents Smile

vanille

Immerse yourself in a hobby that will distract you. You can also go to your friends for support.

I know how you feel though, I miss my boyfriend all the time even though I see him everyday. It's a natural part of being in love.

supjapscrapper

yeah! I remember having discussed this in my answer to your previous post. It is always possible to forget someone, no matter how hard it is. Just avoid thinking about things you used to do together or things he gave you or places you used to go together or any of that knid of stuff. If you stop every thought about him from the moment it comes to your mind, then you'll have no problem forgetting him... easier said than done of course, and at first it'll certainly feel strange. But unless he keeps up coming at you, you'll make it. When you think that you are sure about your feelings and you can allow him to get back in contact with you, then do it. mots important, don't do the first move. If something happens between you both after this, then there is really nothing to do, you both guys are sexually addicted to one another, you'd better marry Very Happy

iyepes

Hmmm, we also have economical and somehow work relationships, so, it's not about forgetting him, It's about not missing him. Or saying in other words, I don't want to find myself having strong feelings towards him.