Do any of you guys or even girls face this? Due to the hormonal changes and imbalance during a female's menstrual period, they are a total different person. This girl I know online, her period just came like 3 days ago and she has been fighting with me every single day since without any reason?? One minute, I'm talking nicely with her online/on the phone and the next thing I know, she flares up over my normal conversation and hangs up my call. What gives?? I notice that she becomes extremely sensitive to every single thing I do or say (not to say she is not already sensitive by nature). I'm trying my best to be understanding but sometimes I really think I don't deserve this kind of treatment. Is this some kind of special privilege issue girls expect to get out of guys during their period? Any female's input is greatly appreciated. Guys, you are welcome to comment as well. Thanks. 
kelvin dear....a lot of women (not all) get that way during their cycle. my advice is this....know the times when she's extra sensitive and you be extra sensitive also. be sensitive to her feelings and moods etc. truth is a menstrual cycle is not a nice thing and if it were you going thru it...you'd want someone around you who could be understanding and lend support.
Stay away from her. She's psychotic and legally not responsible for her actions. 
Just try to stay calm and don't get mad yourself. Try to keep reasonable. Especially younger (teen) girls can get pretty weird during their menstruation period as they just feel shit. Imagine she's probably not feeling to well anyway and that she's a bit diffrent too (due to menstruation). Just don't take it to personal.
Sighhhh............ it happened again. I wonder how much more of this I will be able to take. Will I have to continue facing up to this every month? 
I wonder if it still the menstrual or she's just really way too sensitive. I mean how can it happen every single day? Again she hung up on me.... | Kelvin wrote: |
| Sighhhh............ it happened again. I wonder how much more of this I will be able to take. Will I have to continue facing up to this every month? I wonder if it still the menstrual or she's just really way too sensitive. I mean how can it happen every single day? Again she hung up on me.... |
Have you tried telling her how you feel? I would reccomend waiting till her period is over but have you ever told her you don't like the way she acts when she's having her period? If you tell her you aren't comftable with it she might be able to try and change it.
It's up to you whether she'll be able to take you saying that in a good way though.
I wouldn't reccomend saying it when you're not sure whether she'll like you for saying it or not.I think I saw in my psychology book that it has actually been shown in studies that a womens period does not have a significant impact on her mood. It has become a socially acceptable excuse to be in a bad mood though. If this is the case then some use this excuse to the fullest.
Anyone else encounter this but during my ex gfs cycle time she would admit to being more sexually aroused during this time? Confused the hell out of me!
Yeah same.... my GF also used to be sexually aroused when she had her periods... and we used to have sex.....
have sex with her till her eyes roll out of her head, that usually works for me.
When I was younger, my heart broke every time _before_ my period. I could cry for hours because of a little thing that was said that "probably meant something bad". Before your period, you become an "expert" on reading (the worst) between the lines. I slammed the door at my parents, how could they not understand how miserable I was? A few days later, I laughed about it. I do not have that problem today, so it might be a combination between being a teenager, PMS and p-pills... But the feeling is real! Anyone that says that it's just an excuse to be in a bad mood is probably a guy and should find himself another job than talking about things he knows nothing about!
But even if the mood gets worse, we can still behave like people, and show some consideration for others. Talk to your girlfriend, and tell her that you do not accept her behaviour towards you. Say you understand that she is extra sensitive during that time, but that it do not give her the right to treat you that way.
Good luck understanding PMS. Wish I did.. (and I am female!)
haha i am a girl and i cant understand us at all
i am no different around my period period...ha
and while i dont think other chicks are faking it,
its pretty lame and they should jusst lock themselves in their rooms for a couple days and spare the world of their bitchyness 
u don have to stay away from them for those who having their periods.. i mean, don tell me u always need to know if they are having period..
Boy: hey, wanna go out..?
Girl: sure.. where..?
Boy: oh wait, are u having period..?
Girl: err.. ya..
Boy: u know what, i got lots of housework to do.. maybe next time..
Girl: *fuming mad...
geddit..? just treat them nice, coz its the period that got them pissed with themselves, so don add salt to the wound..
I have 2 daughters including the wife that's why I work alot of overtime hell... some girls (not all) don't even have to be on there period and still are total bitches to everyone.
I know a few myself.
I had a girl break up with me when she was on her period because she was mad at me for no reason... then when she was over it she was asking me to take her back.
slap her in the chops and tell her to shut up.
or do what i do. grin and smile and be totally lovley, its canny go wrong
its normal for them to act like that..just try to be calm and to understand her...
dont make or do something that would make her mad or irretate her...
patience is a virtue...any way it comes only one's a month...
I am VERY lucky, my best friend (a girl) doesn't get PMS. She's very easy going though, nothing bothers her all that much...
I don't think every girl gets it. But I reckon the best way to deal with it is to be the best behaved you can and hope for the best, and if she's still annoying tell her politely...
lol my girlfriend doesnt freak out or become a bitch on her rag, she just cries. at anything. like if she drops something, she'll cry. 
Whenever it's that time of the month for me, it's so painful, that I just whack out on pain pills. Then I act all crazy and high, and people wonder what the crap is wrong with me. Darned PMS.
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like i said men, work lots of overtime for that week. They might complain a bit but you have a ligit excuse. Hey, I am makin money
| djcaution wrote: |
| lol my girlfriend doesnt freak out or become a bitch on her rag, she just cries. at anything. like if she drops something, she'll cry. |
Usually women drop things or start to become a bit clumsy (<- probably some spelling error in that word) when they have/are about to have their period. So it can be a sign and it happens with more women. | Kelvin wrote: |
| How do you handle a girl during her "Period"? |
With a lot of care!! I know my gf first goes all horny before her period so thats kinda cool but then there are the mood swings like stuff and that keeps me on my toes. Try not to piss her in anyways. She told me a long time ago that she gets real angry at small things during her period so I don't hold anything to her during that time. Can't think of anythng else!
