The girl which i am inlove for have recently break up. She have been consulting me for advices and I comfort her. She have said she has no plan in making up her last relationship. When is the right time to tell her that i am inlove with her?
well in this case I would advise that you continue to support her and be the shoulder to cry on, allow her to totally get over the previous relationship then you could start by gradually telling her what a great person you think she is (i.e. only if you mean it : ) )
ya I would gradualy let her know how i feel and she will eventualy get the picture and by alowing her ample time to totally recover from her previous relationship will allow the two of you to hopefully continue with a more stable relationship.
anyway good luck and cheers for now
tell her now when she is still vulnerable and emotionally unstable
Only you know what she is like and if there is a real chance of something else.
Think realistic, not idealistic, and talk it out. Communication is the key.
If it clicks, great! Else, she would only help you to come out of it(heartache, sleepless nights and all that stuff).
the easy answer is not now. She just had a loss, and if you tell her now she'll think you'retaking advantage of her. Just wait until she stops thinking about this guy. Maintain communication, and when she's on her own two feet, tell her.
when she feel dat you also love her...and when she can forget about her past...
Just take it easy with her. I cannot judge how her current situation is, only you can. Allow her time to recover and overcome what she's just gone through. Make sure you are there for her. Act nice and listen, talk with her and give her advice if she asks for it. Make sure she knows you are there for her. When you feel she is over it you could giving some signs that you like her and would like to become more then friends. I would start to talk with her about some things that are a bit more personal. Feelings or something like that. Stay subtle in the beginning and just see what happens. Must important is that you don't overdo it if you feel that she needs more time.