ok let me start by saying i have major trust and jealousy issues but im really worried my girlfriend might be telling another guy she likes him i know people cant help liking someone and she tells me sometims that im the only guy shes willing to spend the rest of her life with but all the time shes saying aww i love that guy(im not gonna say his name just incase she reads this) and the other night she freaked out because she lost a note she wrote to him because he wrote one to her saying that he knew she had a boyfriend but he had a crush on her and stuff like that she said all the note was really saying that she wrote was that she had a boyfriend now it bothers me and she knows it but on the other hand shes basically living with me now till her family gets moved into their new house which makes me think if she was talking to him behind my back she would live with her grandmaw not me so then that way she could talk to him on the phone all she wanted ohh and friday i thought she was flirting with another guy and got pissed off and she called her mom very upset which i appologized for many times which is another thing that makes me not think shes cheating and her mom is kinda cheating right now and it pisses her off badly that makes me think that she wont cheat because she hates it but this whole situation bothers me with this guy because i really do love my girlfriend and i dont want her cheating on me or anything what do you people think i should do or atleast what do you think of it do you think shes cheating
First off, let me say this. YOUR WHOLE POST IS A RUN-ON SENTENCE, AND IT IS VERY VERY CONFUSING.
Anyways, it sounds like your girlfriend is being unfaithful, but yet you sound like you're rambling and paranoid. To be sure of things, you yourself need to ask her "In what ways do you 'love' [name of guy she's mentioning all the time], and why?" Don't take 'well, he's soo friendly!' as the only answer, her responses to this question could be a big determining factor.
Relationships are weird.
if she cheetin on u dog beat her n 1 good last time, then drop her like a bad habbit.
thanks for the help people ohh and last night we were making out and we both had our shirts off but she said she couldnt so we stpped but today she said she was going to the mall with a random girl ive never heard her talk about named kasey and she hasnt gotten home yet and its almost 8 where i live
ahhah i know my punctuation sucks and i always forget it
and the guy above had good advice i think i might be paranoid i always am with relationships but thanks people for the help
I agree with RubySlasher. I speak English as a third language so that was pretty darn hard to understand with out reading through a few times. But i know where you are coming from my friend. I also have jealousy issues. My advice is to do this just sit down with the girl tell her how much she means to you and that it bothers you how much attention she is giving this other guy. After that it can only go two ways. She will either say she loves you also and try and stop. Or...well life moves on.