Alright, so I've been eying this girl for quite some time now, but I've never built up the courage to talk to her. I know nothing about her except that shes a sophomore, and I think shes really pretty. It'd be a cool experience to get to know her a little better, but, how do I go about doing this out of the blue?
i know the best way for a guy to approach me is for him to just come up to me with a smile and just say "hi how are you" followed by a nice compliment. a guy usually follows with "you have a beautiful smile" and that's enough to bring me to a smile lol. as for after that, it depends on how are you with conversations.
haha some guys actually got me from their corniness so it DOES work on certain girls! ^_^
If you have no wingmen that could introduce you to her, the best way is just to approach her. You've got nothing to lose really. Its better to live knowing if theres any future between you two than live wondering in the middle of the sea not knowing what will ever happen.
I always start by saying hi. Then, followed by, what's going on. I'm sure you could think of something to talk about after her replies.
Everything starts with a hello, approach to her and be kind. It would be useful to find out about her interests, likes and dislikes. But if you don't know a friend of her, you'll have to do all the research by you own.
It's ok for you to just walk up to her. Be nice, start by saying hi, with a smile.You say she'd pretty then compliment her, you can add some joke to get her to smile then compliment her more.
Tell her the truth, which is yuu've been admiring her for a while see what she says and ask tobe her friend.
Also dont forget, watch your body language. Most guys that approach a stranger get rejected because they were nervous and shown an unpleasant body language. So make sure you are in a relaxed state of mind.
Just a hint : Most guys when they see a girl they have a crush on, they would usually think how fkn beatiful she is. But don't do this, found her weakness (flat-chested, funny nose, etc) and remind yourself of this, trust me this helps a lot on building your confidence.
Also most importantly don't be boring, especially if you are hitting up a popular girls in ur social circle. Don't be too nice, be the best of yourself. Trust me girl actually do get bored easily if you just treat her like another mr.super nice guy, especially hot girls, they fkn sick of it, because I can guarantee you a lot of guys who approach her, can be arguably said 90% will act on that way.
Ever wonder sometimes why hot girls like bad boys ?? It is not because they are macho, it is because they drive the women emotionally. Women think more with their emotion than their logic, unlike us men whos thinking is heavily based on logical reasoning.
All the best mate !