Hi, Is anyone else willing to talk about their problems with their kids? My brilliant beautiful boys are bipolar, adhd, oppositional defiant, one is obsessive compulsive, and the other depressed. They are only 4 and 6 and I love them unbelievably but this is really hard to deal with for them and me. My four year old made it up onto the roof at 18 months old and one year later you couldn't keep him off. He thinks he can not be hurt and is very impulsive and seeks the high of high places. They also fight to hurt eachother. anyone have any good ideas. Most ideas for behavior management are for compliant kids which mine are not. I have a ton of books, read most, applied some, taken some college classes pertaining to psychology and am now starting school to become and RN because God know's I'll need it with my boys. I'd love to trade stories with someone and get ideas that have worked with their difficult kids.