Haha, that's great. Thanks for sharing this with us.
This is slightly amusing, but there's something to keep in mind... most of those "ugly" guys are smart, or creative and smart, or creative and funny, or some combination of all the above.
Chicks dig brains. Chicks dig creativity. And above all, chicks dig guys who make them laugh. Smart and/or funny = sexy. These personality traits are extremely rare in good-looking men. Most of the really handsome men I know are either stupid or gay.
That leaves me with three options:
Door number one: date a gorgeous, self-centered moron;
Door number two: date a smart, funny, nice guy with a potbelly, a receding hairline, or some other physical imperfection;
Door number three: be a frustrated fag hag.
I'll take door number two, thank you.
So this one really hits the spot with me. I'm 22 dating a 31 year old guy. i have two kids from a previous relationship but i guess you can consider me one of the lucky ones, my body in no way changed from having two kids, in fact it got better....not to sound conceeded but i'm a good looking girl. after leaving my x of four years.......(the father of my children) i had to endure the single like.....being a single mom wasnt easy as it was but once i got into the dating thing......it made for one hell of a life lesson. I've always been really superficial when it came to guys physical appearance and age. no way would i date a thirty something guy with a bit of a beer belly........"YUK" well yuk at that point in my life.......until i got deathly tired of the games.....these twenty year old guys were nothing but GAMES!!!!!!!!! easy to come by but hard to understand. not only that by the time i met my current boyfriend i was ready to settle down....just not with him. so i put him in the friends zone almost instantly. it was great, he has a daughter.....and before i knew it we were talking about everything, and he was finishing my sentences........so this not so great looking average joe 31 year old guy.....somehow managed to steal my heart when i least expected it. He told me i was the most beautiful woman he'd ever seen, but not to get into my *pants* he sent me flowers when my friend passed away......just to show he cared........not to impress me. He rarely went out with "the guys" without inviting me........He wasnt into the partying uptown seen like all the guys i've dated prior..........and pretty soon i started to notice how amazing his eyes were when he started into mine, and how much i loved his firms grasp as he held my hand.....his smile........he has dimples......."cute as hell".......before i knew it he became the most handsome man on the face of the earth. his flaws vanished......now we are going on 8 months...and almost engaged......lol i say almost because he hasnt FORMALLY proposed.....but we've talked about it...
and u know we still get wierd looks when we go places together.....i've had guy friends of mine ask me what i see in him......and i can honeslty tell them that he is everything "I" want in a guy. i couldnt be happier
LOL... thats some funny stuff
Women tend to go for brains, creativity, and all these stuffs. But it is funny sometimes to see the very good contrast
love makes one close an eye to all the flaws.. it's pretty amazing how one day you might fall for your enemy even!