It looks to me that you're trying to meet perfect someone.
Wow...good luck with that. I already found mine. But please specify guy or girl. Im sure you will get some crazy responses.
I hope you're willing to be/do the same for that perfect person too.
would like to help but my girl is the best i have now..
try google.com u may find one hehehe
hopefully u will find one if u keep your cool. good luck man but its hard to find one unless u dig up a grave yard hehehe
It's not impossible to find somene perfect. But someone is better in math and worse in biology. You would have to evaulate his pluses and forget minuses. Everyone could be perfect in someones eyes, just try to look trough love...
actually, once you found the one you like, that girl/guy is the perfect one in your eyes already..
DiageoLiam...everybody wants the perfect someone.
My advice is not to want such perfection that you miss the opportunity to be with someone who will bring joy and possibly completeness to your life.
I once told a friend that wanting the perfect someone does not mean that when you meet them they would be already perfect...it can mean that they are being worked on and are working out the flaws and short comings in their lives etc.
It's like this...if you said you wanted a house and described it to me...and you realize you did not get a house but rather all the materials required for building what you want....does that mean that you got less of a house?
My point is, sometimes we get some of the raw material in the person and we reject them cause we don't wanna wait and go thru the process of change and growth.
I don't think it's the perfect someone who you are looking for, but, what do you offer for that special person? Sometimes we don't find that special one, because we don't show ourselves as special as the people we want. Show that person in you, and at the end she/he will come.
One thing you must never lose sight of in picking the perfect person for yourself...
What is perfect for you may most likely not be perfect for your friends. Tho I'm not saying to ignore your friends advice, I'm saying to be mindful that you and your friends are different people with different emotional (and other) needs. Tho you have similarities you all are never the same.
I'm saying this based on my own experience. My friends would never have approved of my fiancee had I sought their approval. However, when they saw me happy and met him their comments were... "you guys are perfect for each other".
I hope that this info helps you somehow.
I think the only thing that would be too much to ask for is the whole high aspirations that are coming true thing. One persons aspirations differ from anothers;it's all relative and noone can really be the judge of what is a "real" "dream" etc
As has been stated before, it is difficult to find that perfect someone, however there is time in your life, and be patient with it. If you do find it soon, grab life by the horns and hold on. If they are that perfect someone, don't let go of them. I've been fortunate to find someone who is ambitious, brilliant, loving, sweet, funny, and everything I could ask for. Sorry I can't help you out more than just to give you words of encouragement to hang in there and you will find that someone.