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Gal Friends V/s Boy Friends...





tempdbs
Hi all,

A small story which took palace in my past.

As one of my hobby is making friends, I always try to talk to the people to make them friends with words, but moreover in this search I often to get more gals rather than boys.

Lets add some support for this...

Before 8 years, when I was going back to college from home after a weekend in the train, I met 3 persons in the journey. In four hours of journey, we all four became so close that we exchanged our address and telephone nos. In that three; one Girl is there.

Continues.... Arrow

After completion of exams, I called all of them but the two boys atleast responded well and the gal, she totally astonished for my call and was very happy for again talking to her. (One important point - There's no love b/n me and her as I was there in love with some other and she knew it)

Thats all ---

our friendship started from train and it completes its 8th succesful year with small small dispute in between.

Not only these, many stories are there that gals become friends easily.

From this discussion, let me know your views on this Discussion...
Azmo
I don't get it.. so you make friends with girls easier then with boys. or atleast manage to stay friends with them easier then with boys? what about that? what's ur question? what do you want us to discuss...

hey I'm happy for you making friends.. always great to have a friend, I have friends too, want me to list how I met them? or just those I didnt meet in places like school/work/kindergarten ?
tempdbs
Azmo wrote:
I don't get it.. so you make friends with girls easier then with boys. or atleast manage to stay friends with them easier then with boys? what about that? what's ur question? what do you want us to discuss...

hey I'm happy for you making friends.. always great to have a friend, I have friends too, want me to list how I met them? or just those I didnt meet in places like school/work/kindergarten ?


Hi Azmo Laughing ,

From the above statement, i wanna to tell that, Gals will become friends easily & can be friends after getting some disputes, where as in b/n boys, this will not happen !!! (in my history). Thats wanna to tell.

And moreover in this discussion, people can share their different & typical nature of their friends and how it was happened (the friendship) ??

Even People can become friends by this discussion as their tastes are similar.


Thats all Razz
starfish2007
yes I know what youmeen and incept rfor a few exceptions I notest the same things about girls genrally any they are more eazy to make friends wellnot even genrally mostof thetime they are. but whenit comes to bing eazy forgiving there not all like that. ihad friends that were girls that stoped bing myfriends after miner dissagrments that i didnot really think were all that big of deels so youre rong to think that girls all are eazy forgiving.. but there eazer tomake friends witha at first anyway. I agree there
Teddy1
I would say girls are easier to be friends with although they are sensitive. They take things very serious. Guys usually express their emotion through anger which is why most guys end up fighting when his and his friends friendship is on the rocks. Girls get upset they cry when such a good friendship has gone down the plughole. I can understand why to a degree but i think that friendship with either girl or boy is just as easy to keep. =)
hicham_the_webmaster
Nice story ... But I think the question is not the way you make friends, is it easier with girls or boys, but in fact it's related to the person herself, how does she feels, she looks to the life, her hobbies, qualities, mind ... Good topic anyway Surprised
tempdbs
Teddy1 wrote:
I would say girls are easier to be friends with although they are sensitive. They take things very serious. Guys usually express their emotion through anger which is why most guys end up fighting when his and his friends friendship is on the rocks. Girls get upset they cry when such a good friendship has gone down the plughole. I can understand why to a degree but i think that friendship with either girl or boy is just as easy to keep. =)


Yours Quote is really impressive and what really happened for me, Teddy Laughing .
Hope you also went through the same. Is it Very Happy ???
tempdbs
starfish2007 wrote:
yes I know what you meen and incept r for a few exceptions I notest the same things about girls genrally any they are more eazy to make friends well not even genrally most of the time they are. but when it comes to bing eazy forgiving there not all like that. i had friends that were girls that stoped bing my friends after miner dissagrments that i didnot really think were all that big of deels so youre rong to think that girls all are eazy forgiving.. but there eazer tomake friends witha at first anyway. I agree there


Totally I disagree with you,
Teddy1 wrote:
I would say girls are easier to be friends with although they are sensitive.
As Teddy told that gals are more sensitive, your Friendship may be misjudged by her as you have touched her sensitive areas.

According to their habitual nature, Gals can't bear once they totally misguided a boy.

Please support some story happened for in your past, so that we can come to know that Gal's friendship is difficult to manage. Let us know.



Hey Laughing , please check your space bar as it becomes very harsh to read. in Quote i did it.
Are you in Hurry !!! Question
SyncM
i fell the opposit i have/ had i girlfriend no sexual or nothing but she is really messy to hang up with if you dont call for time she get angry and so on my boyfriend dont care if i dont call for months they just say hi sholud we take a beer. Then much of my hobbies my friend share not gils so its pretty easy choisse
Azmo
Agree with previous reply.. it takes more to keep up the good relationship (Friendship) with a girl.. I have kinda the same.. since I moved away from my home town.. I talk with my friends a few times a week.. and with the guys.. it's always just as chill as it was when I still lived in the same town.. no hard feelings or anything..

but let's say I dont talk with one of the girls for like 2-3 weeks.. it can get very stiff.. u get short answers or somethin like that.. when u end ur conversation and do the "kisses and hugs" thingy.. u get either "hug hug" or "mm bye" but if u talk 1 or more times a week it doesnt happen.. then u get the "kisses and hugs" thingy back.. anyways.. doesnt rly matter.. we are still close.. just guess it affects girls more if u dont talk for some time then it does with boys..
tempdbs
Azmo wrote:
Agree with previous reply.. it takes more to keep up the good relationship (Friendship) with a girl.. I have kinda the same.. since I moved away from my home town.. I talk with my friends a few times a week.. and with the guys.. it's always just as chill as it was when I still lived in the same town.. no hard feelings or anything..

but let's say I dont talk with one of the girls for like 2-3 weeks.. it can get very stiff.. u get short answers or somethin like that.. when u end ur conversation and do the "kisses and hugs" thingy.. u get either "hug hug" or "mm bye" but if u talk 1 or more times a week it doesnt happen.. then u get the "kisses and hugs" thingy back.. anyways.. doesnt rly matter.. we are still close.. just guess it affects girls more if u dont talk for some time then it does with boys..


Hi

Its very cool reply from you.

All the people meant to deserve this knid of situations. But based on this, one can't feel it as LOVE which misguides her.

Just see the starfish qoute here which may be happened this --->

Quote:
yes I know what you meen and incept r for a few exceptions I notest the same things about girls genrally any they are more eazy to make friends well not even genrally most of the time they are. but when it comes to bing eazy forgiving there not all like that. i had friends that were girls that stoped bing my friends after miner dissagrments that i didnot really think were all that big of deels so youre rong to think that girls all are eazy forgiving.. but there eazer tomake friends witha at first anyway. I agree there
bangala
It is probably because of the opposite attraction. That is nature, opposite poles got attracted to each other!
tempdbs
bangala wrote:
It is probably because of the opposite attraction. That is nature, opposite poles got attracted to each other!


I never agree with this statement.

I am just saying it is easier to maintain/manage the friendship with Gals when compared to boys even after getting disputes also.

Donot mess up the attraction over here which leads to a totally un-meanigful message.

Whats opposite pole, Just we are talking about friendship.
Have you read the 1st statement of mine.


Please go through it in the following Quote, if you didn't got it.


tempdbs wrote:
After completion of exams, I called all of them but the two boys atleast responded well and the gal, she totally astonished for my call and was very happy for again talking to her. (One important point - There's no love b/n me and her as I was there in love with some other and she knew it)
molif
same here... i feel more like myself when i hang out with my girlfriends.. when comes to boys, somehow their topics can be abit boring..

i think i have some female characteristics in me when comes to socialising..
tempdbs
molif wrote:
same here... i feel more like myself when i hang out with my girlfriends.. when comes to boys, somehow their topics can be abit boring..

i think i have some female characteristics in me when comes to socialising..



Its a Universal true... All have to deserve it and also to accept this.
arjay
Smile The quality of the friendship counts MORE than the gender. The opinion echoed by the original topic poster, as he said, is based on his personal experience, and understandably, he experienced better friendship treatment from the gals more than the guys.

But, my humble opinion will say it is not a gender issue. Maybe, you were just looking friendship in a different view that matched how gals extend friendly rapports with you. But, not all have the same view on friendship.

To be more specific, most guys preferred tough friends just to have ‘strong’ emotional and physical backings when troubles arise. When is it a matter and issue of personal physical security, as the going gets tough, you will always depend on your guy friends for their guidance including moral, psychological and PHYSICAL support. That is why you will seldom see gals in the battlefield. Smile

On the other hand, when the issue is purely emotional and you want unbiased and varied constructive opinion at your side always, you will tend to go for the gal friends. That is why you will seldom see guys in a nursery.

The bottom line is … what influences more your daily activities and endeavors will tell you what kind of friends you will prefer and will be wanting to be with. Smile

So, whether is it a guy or gal friend, it does not matter as much as the QUALITY of friendship you built-in within your relationship. Quality may include, but not limited to, how far one can go to prove his/her friendship. After the 18th birthday of your grandchild, will the friend be still there?

Goodluck always.
tempdbs
arjay wrote:
Smile The quality of the friendship counts MORE than the gender. The opinion echoed by the original topic poster, as he said, is based on his personal experience, and understandably, he experienced better friendship treatment from the gals more than the guys.

But, my humble opinion will say it is not a gender issue.



I agree with you.

Friendship will never depend on the Gender..... but, here just I am sharing the general experience which will be occuring for each & everybody's life.

But as of now, they (gal friends) are more caring, understanding, loving, etc., when compared to Guys.. Thats up and also vice-versa will be done with Gals.....
Teddy1
tempdbs wrote:
Teddy1 wrote:
I would say girls are easier to be friends with although they are sensitive. They take things very serious. Guys usually express their emotion through anger which is why most guys end up fighting when his and his friends friendship is on the rocks. Girls get upset they cry when such a good friendship has gone down the plughole. I can understand why to a degree but i think that friendship with either girl or boy is just as easy to keep. =)


Yours Quote is really impressive and what really happened for me, Teddy Laughing .
Hope you also went through the same. Is it Very Happy ???


Yeah, I know of this through experience. Girls cry alot when they get upset and i always try to comfort them ^^ it shows the caring side in a guy most girls don't expect to see. Alot of guys to resort to violence to solve things but in all honesty what does fighting accomplish ? nothing. It doesn't show who's the bigger man. There is a saying that i've gone by for quite a long time that saying is "It takes a man not to cry it takes an even bigger man to cry." the reason i go by this is because most guys are humiliated by crying but if showing your emotions is humiliation then that's just f*cked up =).
tempdbs
Teddy1 wrote:
tempdbs wrote:
Teddy1 wrote:
I would say girls are easier to be friends with although they are sensitive. They take things very serious. Guys usually express their emotion through anger which is why most guys end up fighting when his and his friends friendship is on the rocks. Girls get upset they cry when such a good friendship has gone down the plughole. I can understand why to a degree but i think that friendship with either girl or boy is just as easy to keep. =)


Yours Quote is really impressive and what really happened for me, Teddy Laughing .
Hope you also went through the same. Is it Very Happy ???


Yeah, I know of this through experience. Girls cry alot when they get upset and i always try to comfort them ^^ it shows the caring side in a guy most girls don't expect to see. Alot of guys to resort to violence to solve things but in all honesty what does fighting accomplish ? nothing. It doesn't show who's the bigger man. There is a saying that i've gone by for quite a long time that saying is "It takes a man not to cry it takes an even bigger man to cry." the reason i go by this is because most guys are humiliated by crying but if showing your emotions is humiliation then that's just f*cked up =).


Nice experiences from you and me.... What about all the frihosters....No Gal friends or no Friendships....... Lets share our experiences in other discussions....
Thanks for your participation..

If anybody have better experiences... you can share with me & Teddy...
ReubenWilliams
tempdbs wrote:
molif wrote:
same here... i feel more like myself when i hang out with my girlfriends.. when comes to boys, somehow their topics can be abit boring..

i think i have some female characteristics in me when comes to socialising..



Its a Universal true... All have to deserve it and also to accept this.


all have to deserve it?

what do you mean? Do you mean everybody has deserved boys to be ripe with boring fruit? Or do you mean everybody deserves the interesting conversation of girls. The ambiguity of your meaning is due to a lack of clarity, interestingly clarity is something something men are ususally good at.

Myself I feel like I had very few female friends growing up, then the last few years I have had loads. However a lot of my female friends I have ended up alienating as with almost all of them there seemed to be some kind of underlying atttraction, whether it was ever spoken or acted on or not it just seemed to be there, acting as an intensifier for both the strengths and weaknesses of our friendship.

In my experience men seem to be more logical, calculating, reasoning and accurate, women tend to be more expansive, emotional, irrational, experiential. I'm not sure that there is a valid better or worse but I can see why you might find it easier to stay friends with people who will want to engage in friendship simply for the fun of it. I believe generally men are more likely to be pragmatic, not in a malicious sense but simply assess the value of the friendship and will less often put in the energy to pursue long distance relationships of any nature, especially friendship.

However as with all of theese things for each virtue there is a use, and a complete person needs friends of both sexes. And if I was really stuck and needed help with some kind of project I would normally think of my male friends to help.
molif
if u say so.. but some ppl have some preferences when comes to having friends..

for me, i got 8 times more gal friends than guy friends..

im a chatty guy, well, some of my guy friends are just too speechless..
fbcompany
Well i have 1 girl friend (my actual girl friend) and about 10 good male friends. i know lots of girls i could be friends with but i seriously can not be assed having mundane conversation with them or having to treat them like little princesses and entertaining them.

I have found that the majority of girls are just looking for somebody to play with so they dont get bored. Few are actually interested in becoming friends. im not waisting my time being a play toy.
tempdbs
molif wrote:

for me, i got 8 times more gal friends than guy friends....


Isn't this statement is somewhat different. So from the above stmt, are you supporting this discussion or hampering this one.
I didn't get what you wann to explain from the above....

molif wrote:
im a chatty guy, well, some of my guy friends are just too speechless..


Nice... you are very much intrested in chatting with gals.

But in my discussion, I asked the frihosters to expalin/share unknown friendships happened with gals in their past..

So a Small question for you ??? Question
Do you have any chat gal Cool who is a very good friend from a longtime.
let me know.

Anyhow thanks for sharing your thoughts..... here... Laughing
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