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Azmo
I was watching a tv-show last night, a talk show that's about relationship and sex.. anyways, in that show, they went out on the streets, asking people if they know where a womans clitoris is located.. basicly, "here is a picture of a vagina, point out where the clitoris is" and more then 50% did not know where it was located, and most people asked was women. I wouldnt reacit if it were mostly men asked, but..

Could this be true? Could it be that we have such bad sexual education that alot of women don't know where their own clitoris is? Atleast it sounds abit weird.
SGbilder
Was it a picture of the real thing? Because I saw a tv-show when people on the street had to point out the clitoris on a bad drawn picture, it was kind of misleading and deceptive... I can't say I blame some people to point out the wrong spot, those guys that were close anyway... But then of course there were some people who had no idea.. =)
Azmo
ah, ye.. the picture was kinda bad.. but you could still see what it was so you should be able to point it out, or atleast be close
pgminilounge
I think women should know the anatomy of their own gender. In fact, with all the horny men out there these days, men probably know more about it then women.
HoChiMo
problem is: many females don't considere sexual intercourse something nice but something that is endured (of course, you can rightfully blame the male-centred media for that). thats why I know many girls that dont have fun exploring their own sexuality so its pretty sure they dont know about their clitoris.
AmzLangers
HoChiMo wrote:
problem is: many females don't considere sexual intercourse something nice but something that is endured (of course, you can rightfully blame the male-centred media for that). thats why I know many girls that dont have fun exploring their own sexuality so its pretty sure they dont know about their clitoris.


Ummmm.... wemen don't seem to like intercourse all the time, because its not the only thing that can pleasure us hellooo.... there is more to sex then intercourse... some wemen find it much more pleasureable in foreplay then intercourse... like some wemen might not know where the clit is... but do all men know where the wemen g spot is???
just standing up for a good reason... i know my sexuality, and know everything about my body, wemen who don't... they ten need to explore, and get educated, reading books at the libary will help wonders, or information on the internet.
frozenhead
I didn't get the scenario, you mean "asking people around"? Picking men and women?

So odd when a woman don't know where is? Shocked
Azmo
Yes, you pick people randomly on the streets, showing them a badly drawn picture of a vagina and asks them to point out where the clitoris is. The picture was bad drawn, but it was still easy to see what it was. So you should atleast be able to point somewhere close to it.
Da Rossa
Azmo wrote:
I was watching a tv-show last night, a talk show that's about relationship and sex.. anyways, in that show, they went out on the streets, asking people if they know where a womans clitoris is located.. basicly, "here is a picture of a vagina, point out where the clitoris is" and more then 50% did not know where it was located, and most people asked was women. I wouldnt reacit if it were mostly men asked, but..

Could this be true? Could it be that we have such bad sexual education that alot of women don't know where their own clitoris is? Atleast it sounds abit weird.


Unfortunately still it has people that think that sexual education in the US is an good thing. This is not what I hear from many sources of news. The AIDS among the youngest, girls specially, is spiking. This is a matter that I can be proud of my country, in here the prevention campaigns are the most advanced. But I know there is still much to do. The problem is that young people don't care about rules, they want to enjoy life and have stories to tell others, so they can feel superior. It's amazing that a WOMAN doesn't know where her clitoris is.
Azmo
sexual education is a good thing tho, but I don't think that's enough.. we (when I went to school) had only like 4 lessons about sexual education, that's not enough.. besides from that, we had a teacher who I feel was not confortable talking about those things, he could hardly show us a condom w/o making it very fast. Imo give more sexual education, it's hard to rly learn of all danger and body parts and so on,, in just 4 lessons = about 4 -6 hours in total
Da Rossa
Azmo wrote:
sexual education is a good thing tho, but I don't think that's enough.. we (when I went to school) had only like 4 lessons about sexual education, that's not enough.. besides from that, we had a teacher who I feel was not confortable talking about those things, he could hardly show us a condom w/o making it very fast. Imo give more sexual education, it's hard to rly learn of all danger and body parts and so on,, in just 4 lessons = about 4 -6 hours in total


That's a problem too.
The teacher can NEVER be embarrassed to teach this subject. It is very important. Let's say you're 12-15 years old. To be honest, you're not gonna learn everything from the classes, but it is mandatory that you have the lessons and take them seriously before going to the practice. Practicing while you're still young MAY prevent you from doing worse things when you reach the adulthood. If you lose virginity with the age from 12 to 15, then you're going to discover more about yourself earlier, and get consciousness and performance earlier too. The drawback is that young teens don't have the values solid yet, they could lose the force of will for the pleasure, as they're likely to do: they go out with the "friends" soon enough, they drink soon enough and they f**k soon enough. The parents must keep both eyes in it.
blue77
Some women, don't know their bodies well ( as I see it the older ones), and the man have to care, about this location becouse the situation wil get more terrible. Anxious
Srs2388
If someone came up to me and asked me where is the clit I would be like... ummmm okay you're weird and leave.
Da Rossa
Srs2388 wrote:
If someone came up to me and asked me where is the clit I would be like... ummmm okay you're weird and leave.


I didn't understand.
Azmo
Da Rossa wrote:
Srs2388 wrote:
If someone came up to me and asked me where is the clit I would be like... ummmm okay you're weird and leave.


I didn't understand.


He means that he wouldnt even answer the question cause he would think it was some kinda joke or just some plain idiots walking around having fun..
psydevil
yes there is a lack of sexual education, there was a case that a couple though that they were having sex but he was just rubbing the penis against her legs. Shocked
Da Rossa
psydevil wrote:
yes there is a lack of sexual education, there was a case that a couple though that they were having sex but he was just rubbing the penis against her legs. Shocked


How old were they???
Azmo
there was also an old case in Germany where to grown up people had tryed to get a baby for years.. finaly they went to some sexual expert asking for advide.. he asked what positions they where having sex in.. and they just "what is sex?"..

Yes this is kinda strange, since everything is about sex these days.. anyawys.. they didnt know.. very religious family and no school so no one had ever told them about it..

Was written in a swedish news paper some years ago so guess it's true.. anyways.. there are always people that dont know..
greenwoodmonkey
OK, so a large percentage of men don't know where a women's clitoris or G-Spot is... wow... big news.....

It would be interesting to look at the statistics of those questioned to establish :
What percentage of those males questioned where :
Homosexual
Virgins
Married
Had watched porn
Had never watched porn
Had discussed sex with their partners

It would also be interesting to see of those women asked who got it wrong :
Were virgins
Had masturbated
Had ever achieved orgasm - through penetrative or stimulation.

I for one was an early developer when it can to exploring women anatomies so, but even to this day I have found it difficult to find some women's clitoris' the first time I have been with them, but have also found that some assistance it has been achieved..

Oh and for someone to suggest that the majority of women only have sex to please the man.... jeez... who are you trying to kid?? This is not the 1900's anymore.. of course there will always be some who have no interest in it, and only "perform to please rather than to be pleased", for which I will always feel sorry for but the question there is.. are they in the right relationship? And surely there must be as many men out there in the same position.

Women like sex as much as men... so lets all learn what our partners and lovers like and get on with it without using TV programmes that so obviously use crappy "men are bad" statistics to educate...

The best way to learn is "Practise, Practise, Practise"... remember that and you will all have ALOT of fun
Da Rossa
I would say women get more off the sex than the men. I also believe that they cheat way more, specially the younger ones.
greenwoodmonkey
Da Rossa wrote:
I would say women get more off the sex than the men. I also believe that they cheat way more, specially the younger ones.


Have you just written that to get a 4 more points and a some quick replies so that you can write a lengthy and seemingly well balanced appraisal of your views?

Views such as those are exactly why program makers can get away with showing a badly drawn picture of a vertical bacon sandwich to men so that they wrongly identify where the buttons are....
Azmo
greenwoodmonkey wrote:
OK, so a large percentage of men don't know where a women's clitoris or G-Spot is... wow... big news.....



Ye that's not big news.. but point with this post were that many WOMEN dont know where their own g-spot is..
Da Rossa
greenwoodmonkey wrote:


Have you just written that to get a 4 more points and a some quick replies so that you can write a lengthy and seemingly well balanced appraisal of your views?

Views such as those are exactly why program makers can get away with showing a badly drawn picture of a vertical bacon sandwich to men so that they wrongly identify where the buttons are....


You can draw any conclusions you want.
This post was to comment this one:
Quote:
women like sex as much as men... so lets all learn what our partners and lovers like and get on with it without using TV programmes that so obviously use crappy "men are bad" statistics to educate...


I don't know why you got offended.
SlugDragon
It's still despisable that thsoe recongnize couldn't locate the top of the vaginal texture...the clitoris. It's at the peak of the region...if you've seen a labeled picture, you'd have to be a fool to be unable to locate it in the future...despite (lack of) use of the information, sexual experience, further sexual eduction, etc.

It's really not all that hard...you have the slit (diamond if laying down, spread), and the peak toward the navel houses the clit. Not very hard.

It's the fault of the people asked if they are unaware of the location, and nothing else should be blamed/adressed. I assume the program in question didn't single out to ask small children, people unlikely to ahve experience (mentally challenged), or people who barely spoke english (I'm purely assuming the program was in english).
bonestorm74
I know where it is, the question is, do I care?

Kidding of course. Smile
rfarrand
well...i know where it is...i guess i am on the smarter 50% of the country. Glad for that one. How do people not know where it is, seriously...especially guys... you need to , to please a woman. am i not right?
evilryu530
the clit is located just above the opening of the vagina. it's like a pimple then when women get aroused, it grows depending on the women the size. but u kinda have to open the lips a bit to find it, it's there, now hitting that spot is a different topic.
greenwoodmonkey
Hitting that spot? Are you talking about the infamous G-Spot???

OK, so we can all describe where the clitoris is.. well done everyone... and yes I agree, the point of the thread was to say that that the program showed a percentage of women don't know where it is as well as men...

OK? But how many men know where THEIR G-Spot is? or have even bothered to look for it (I don't recommend it without lube, gentlemen!)...

All men know how to pleasure themselves, but for women self pleasure is often seen as dirty so therefor I am not overly surprised that there is a percentage of women that don't know where it is...

And yeah, of course there will be some guys who don't know where it is, it doesn't make them bad, it just means they have never been shown... again I ask the question :
How many of those questioned were :
Homosexual?
a Virgin?
Azmo
greenwoodmonkey wrote:
again I ask the question :
How many of those questioned were :
Homosexual?
a Virgin?


Don't know about that.. was just people of the streets so very hard to say..

Anyways, I do know where the male G-spot is.. and if I do remember it right.. we have a "smaller G-spot" too.. located between our penis and our anus, we usually calls it "the golden spot".. it's not a hole or something.. just a spit on our body that's sensitive for touching.. that's rly "pushing the right buttons" when a girl do that Smile

Anyways.. almost feel like this topic could be locked now since it feels more like people are telling eachother where the g-spot is.. and btw.. women got 2 spots aswell.. for those who did not know that..
greenwoodmonkey
Azmo wrote:
and btw.. women got 2 spots aswell.. for those who did not know that..


Is one of them a man's wallet?
Or a nice car?

I asked my missus last night what I needed to touch to REALLY turn her on... she said it was the light switch.. Sad
Azmo
greenwoodmonkey wrote:
Azmo wrote:
and btw.. women got 2 spots aswell.. for those who did not know that..


Is one of them a man's wallet?
Or a nice car?

I asked my missus last night what I needed to touch to REALLY turn her on... she said it was the light switch.. Sad


hehe, na but it could be Smile that would make it 3 spots then Smile

Naa but same as we.. 1 inside and 1 "outside" ... besides from the clitoris the other one (the true G-spot) is located about 5cm inside the vagina..

ur missus, cute word Smile
asim
Azmo wrote:
I was watching a tv-show last night, a talk show that's about relationship and sex.. anyways, in that show, they went out on the streets, asking people if they know where a womans clitoris is located.. basicly, "here is a picture of a vagina, point out where the clitoris is" and more then 50% did not know where it was located, and most people asked was women. I wouldnt reacit if it were mostly men asked, but..

Could this be true? Could it be that we have such bad sexual education that alot of women don't know where their own clitoris is? Atleast it sounds abit weird.


Dude there are lot of females uneducated, educated but dont anything about sex until are married, and some dont have interest in taking care of thier vagina, my gf takes ultimate care of her vagina, she is always clean shaved.
gandalfthegrey
I remember watching a British documentary series on sex and they did the same experiment.
It could be just that many people are really dumb and having sex without knowing what a clitoris is or its where-a-bouts.
macky
yes we are lack of sex education... parents should always monitor their children as always...
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