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Yantaal
why is the stereotype that men are all: sex sex sex sex

it killed me, ex was so insecure she thought i shold be wanting sex all the time and thought it was her fault.

its such a stupid thing, i think woman are more sexualy orientated these days
Boomstick
Most women think that because they read it in them magazines and thats just the stereotype. But man, if she was wanting it all the time, you should gave it to her.
Artelis
I believe it has something to do with our biological makeup. Go figure.
achowles
I think that a lot of guys are responsible for perpetuating that myth about themselves to look good in front of their friends.

In reality it seems that women have always been more sexually orientated for the most part. It's just that they have (and still are a lot of places) been repressed by religion and government and made to feel ashamed of that.

It should be noted though that the above is a broad interpretation. But then that seems to be the way that this thread is going...
Zampano
Shouldn't this be in the relationships forum?
Animal
Zampano wrote:
Shouldn't this be in the relationships forum?

Yep Wink

-Moved-
clydejaw
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blue77
Man need sex more that women and this is a fact. It doesn't meen then man want sex every minute and they are always ready to do it.
Every good looking girl things than all males are ready to have sex with her and she is right at the most of the times. And for that these girls are having a very high self esteam.
In relationship after the passion is cooled down and the man don't want to have sex they are fealing bad and humiliated.
And that is the reason why often you may hear " Every man in the street may have sex with me, but not my boyfriend" Laughing
DevilsSon
Yantaal wrote:
why is the stereotype that men are all: sex sex sex sex

it killed me, ex was so insecure she thought i shold be wanting sex all the time and thought it was her fault.

its such a stupid thing, i think woman are more sexualy orientated these days


because it's true Razz
Bannik
sex sex sex sex sex food sex sex sex sex
bassman
I think men are just less subtle. In my dealings with women it does seem like many of them are just as horny as I am. In reality it seems like my fiancee and I want to be physical about equally, although it seems like I want to go all the way more often.
sanwixh
It is true that most women want to be more sexually active, its just that the public doesn't generally accept this. A woman's traditional public image is to be demure, polite, overall submissive, thus an aggressive woman is criticized by society.

Where as for men, we are expected to be aggressive so it is a general view on almost all aspects, especially in sex. Although we al know that we want as much of it as we can get, those that have the luck and ability to get it that is. haha ^^
brilliantbeauty
I think it's definately a macho thing. Like pubescent boys in the locker room saying they did this and this when it never really happened at all.

I think an agressive, openly sexual woman is becoming far more accepted into Western society. I mean, women like sex just as much as men do, they just don't make their sex lives known to all of their friends and friends' friends, you know?

On a whole, I think men and women have equal desire for sex, it's just the expression that varies.
greenwoodmonkey
Sex isn't the be all and end all, but its damn good fun!
I dont think it is just men or women who are more sexually orientated nowadays, i think it is everyone is more and more sexually active nowadays, and it seems it is easier to get laid now than ever before.
The media has had a big part to play in this, and in the stereotyping of men as sexual monsters and devients, while glorifying the "Ladette" / "girls get what you want" "ten orgasms in a night" culture that is so prolific.

No longer are ladies, ladies, instead there is a blurring of the lines between men and women that is nothing to do with equality and more to do with a lack of moral fibre in society.
tijn01
Sex is just so huge in our culture right now, every advertisement we look at is almost soft porn.... we are thrust with the idea that all any of us want is amazing sex all the time, its stupid, but thats what we are led to believe these days....
pgminilounge
Wow the topic sure attracted my attention. Anyways, alotta girls think men are all perverts deep down, but I think girls can be perverts too, just in a different way. I mean women want sex too, don't they?
just-in
Finally we are all social animals... Sex is inbuilt in our body ... one can't stop it...
AmzLangers
Yantaal wrote:

its such a stupid thing, i think woman are more sexualy orientated these days


I love the way your saying that.. ROFL**
and yes it's true. The virtual man today is more scared of sex as it will break relationships and make the woman more "i'm to tired"... But in reality all they nedded was a night off...
now you guy's are also scared of us saying it was rape, and we win but the truth is that all we wanted to do is get back at u....
another fact could be that because your scared of sex sex sex, is because were the ones who take charge now...
did you know a woman now is one of the most powerful beings ina house old... and when the boy's are out numbered, they sit there and are quiet because of wemon gang ups. lol
I think i should stop now. lol
it's completely normal... it's just you saying "you don't have to if you don't want to".... Trust us when we want to we do!
joshumu
sex can be fun, can be casual, can be intimate, sacred, romantic, pointless, regretful, men view it differently give it less meaning probably is why women think they always want it. besides women are all about the four play anyways so its not sex on the brain, it's WOMEN on the brain.
evilryu530
women and men see sex differently. men see it for pleasure and arousal, and power, etc...women see it as more emotion, love, sharing somthing special....the tip is to make women u think u are on that same levle as them....
greenwoodmonkey
pgminilounge wrote:
Wow the topic sure attracted my attention. Anyways, alotta girls think men are all perverts deep down, but I think girls can be perverts too, just in a different way. I mean women want sex too, don't they?


Can you define what you mean by Pervert?

Just because men and women think about sex does not make them a pervert..

Society is almost certainly pushing people to having sex at a younger and younger age, mainly through media and peer pressure.

I was a semi-late developer when it came to loosing my V in my "circle of friends" being nearly 17 when I finally did - most of my friends had done it months before.

The media is a hypocritical monkey. While it is happy to portray kids as bad saying that they are loosing their V's younger and younger now (to peers, not via molestation or other (which is an entirely different notion that I don't want discussing) it is happy to allow magazines that actively educate under 16's about safe sex etc.

Personally I would like to see a global ban on advertising and media that portrays minors (under 16's) in provocative poses, or that in any way promotes underage sex.

I for one think there is not enough done in schools for sex education, but moreover think there is not enough done in schools on the morality of underage sex.

There are limits and restrictions for a reason and I don't think a 14year old is wise enough to understand the true implications of underage sex.
pijana_braca
Why not?
It's healthy. Very Happy
Tvis
I met a lot of girls that are definitely into a lot of sex...but I guess it's true about what's been said before. Because sex in almost all advertisements, girls also get involved in a changing world. Things that are normal now, were very provocative a few years ago. Not to mention 20 years ago. But if you see half naked girls on tv at all times at the day. You start to think it is pretty normal. And girls are also getting more into that. They are more aware of they're sexuality. And want to do it more than ever before...
xkobram
I thing its little bit wasting of time to discuss sex - it was, is and will be.

But now exists more opinions on it and in the world of globalization it becomes to be something different than in psat centuries...
billgertz
Sex, irresistable biological need. (for some) hahaha. Most people are liberated nowadays. Do it with responsibility.
xkobram
billgertz wrote:
Do it with responsibility.

Great advise! Ill remeber this...
UnikeViruz
I like sex.....But...To much sex is dangerous Wink
prole
Quote:
sex sex sex sex sex food sex sex sex sex


Very Happy

Razz
tingkagol
men are overstated.
hereme
Maybe your spring is comming.
Pikokola
because that's how man should do Razz

Man who ever ejaculate, can't help to ask for it once a week (at least once a month), pressing those passion are hurt for a man... But for women, that's ok if they don't "cum" for 2, 3, 6 month or even 1 years or more Razz
MrJe
Well, that's true! Sex is the core of many relationships, but it's not everything though. Men can also see it as part of a fair game between two sensitive souls.
If men were always thinking about sex and women were temperating them, then what about gay couple??? Do you really think long-time gay couple only think about having some good f...k??? Do you think there's no love?
Another stereotype: sex cannot be good without love. I've had a long relationship with my ex. We knew each other very well, including on sex field. And in the end, there was no love anymore, but we could make love (or call it however you want) and have, give, much pleasure...
windrei
Yantaal wrote:
why is the stereotype that men are all: sex sex sex sex

it killed me, ex was so insecure she thought i shold be wanting sex all the time and thought it was her fault.

its such a stupid thing, i think woman are more sexualy orientated these days


but did you really having the desire of sex so frquently..... if yes, you cannot blame her think in this way....
ReubenWilliams
is both an expression of social dominance and a genetic pull. a yearning driven by the hardwiring of our anatomy.

Ses is proper important to both genders. It is simply that society expects men to be more showy about it, something about courtship I suppose.
HollyK
Not all guys have sex on their mind about >90% of the time. It gets annoying when some people do that (One of my friends has told me about the guy's locker rooms... Certain conversations should not be repeated). I mean, to me at least, sex seems to be a large exertion of effort for nothing without love actually being there.
bluefossil
it's because men do think about sex sex sex sex.
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