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Formula for happiness.





blue77
Formula for happiness.

I'im writing this because of all the sadness posts here. i hate to see people so sad.

Dont sit around thinking "how do i be happy" do something fun and dont think about it. Thinking about how to be happy means you are sad. and always thinking about how to be happy will make you always sad. Put your thoughts to the side, and play a videogame or buy lemonade and chips.

So hire is my formula.

1) your sadness now, in the broad spectrum of things, really wont affect you alot at all

2)look to the future

3) yesterday is history. tomorow is a mystery. today is a gift, thats why its called the present

4) sadness is a behavior. and your behavior is totally up to you. No one made you sad, you made you sad.

5) dont let people influence you. Do what you want to do to ensure your happiness.

6)happiness is also a behavior.

7) to be happy, well, listen to a happy song. or a bad ass song. or a cool song. or take a walk, or go autocrossing like me.

Cool dont stress it. if you are always sad, you are makin yourself sad. YOU are stressing it. stop it. dont think about sadness. its just a feeling. but so is happyness. stress happiness. stress happy thoughts. think only good happy thoughts.
S3nd K3ys
Great formula! Thanks for sharing.

:clapping:
xkobram
blue77 wrote:

3) yesterday is history. tomorow is a mystery. today is a gift, thats why its called the present

4) sadness is a behavior. and your behavior is totally up to you. No one made you sad, you made you sad.

6)happiness is also a behavior.



3) I have heard 1st and 2nd sentence somewhere but not the 3rd. 3rd is realy nice, maybe I haven't heard about it because that cant be translated in my language. I like this play with words.

4),6) Great view! I lek it, I will remember it...
Magicman
Sounds like a good formula. I've heard a few of those sayings before and putting it all together makes sense. Ironically when I'm sad, a sad-ish yet optimistic song makes me feel better faster than an upbeat song; namely Move On by Jet. This song reminds me that theres no point to look at the sadness of the past.
cybernie
pretty kewl!

with or without that formula i believe one can still achieve his or her desired happiness. he or she just need to set himself or herself from worries caused by misdeeds, too much longing for things not meant for her or himself.

being happy is not getting thing we want but giving what other wants.
tingkagol
diversity, distraction, and condoms.
xkobram
so i tryed 4) and 6)
Quote:
4) sadness is a behavior. and your behavior is totally up to you. No one made you sad, you made you sad.

6)happiness is also a behavior.



It realy works! Thank U very much!!
vervaeke
Excellent post. It's just as true about finding yourself a boyfriend or girlfriend.... the more you sit there and think about it, the harder it is. Just focus on the positives in your life and something will come along.
molif
great formula to all sad people out there...
vj_anish
Never trust a girl, when she says that she will be with you for ever!!!!
xkobram
xkobram wrote:
so i tryed 4) and 6)
Quote:
4) sadness is a behavior. and your behavior is totally up to you. No one made you sad, you made you sad.

6)happiness is also a behavior.



It realy works! Thank U very much!!


Well after few days being happy, trying have "Happy days" i must say, it doesnt work... But still, i can bahave to my friends as happy and i like, they like, im happy Very Happy
ravi_9793
nice one dude. Very Happy
urbanbuddha
Great post. n_n I hope we can all live by that and be happy and sunshine~ XD
freakinlame
Nice post dude. Always do the things you enjoy doing and do less of the things that you don't like. Hehe... Think positive and live like there's no tommorow Smile
ichsky
I really dont think there's a fomular for happiness. cause human beings are different and therefore what makes some people happy may not make other's happy. I think true happiness comes from wetin, and thats the only happiness that last.
studsstudio
ichsky wrote:
I really dont think there's a fomular for happiness. cause human beings are different and therefore what makes some people happy may not make other's happy. I think true happiness comes from wetin, and thats the only happiness that last.


I agree. hapiness is a feeling and the feeling will fade in time, caused by new experiences, it's not a behaviour or a way of life.
And, what made you happy when you were young can mean nothing to you when you're older.
I think a great deal off hapiness is of a social kind. people like to be loved and appreciated. People also like to appreciate themselves for what they accomplish, but (sadly?) it always depends more or less also on how others view you.

Of course with a positive attitude (towards the world, others, and not the least towards yourself) you'll improve your chances on being happy for some time.
Alias
Wow! That was great, thanks for the formula now I can be happy. Very Happy
xkobram
studsstudio wrote:
ichsky wrote:
I really dont think there's a fomular for happiness. cause human beings are different and therefore what makes some people happy may not make other's happy. I think true happiness comes from wetin, and thats the only happiness that last.


I agree. hapiness is a feeling and the feeling will fade in time, caused by new experiences, it's not a behaviour or a way of life.

Of course with a positive attitude (towards the world, others, and not the least towards yourself) you'll improve your chances on being happy for some time.


Not only with a positive attitude. You can change your feelings very much. It realy depends how much of will do you spend on it... Being optimist and being happy is very different...
studsstudio
xkobram wrote:
studsstudio wrote:
ichsky wrote:
I really dont think there's a fomular for happiness. cause human beings are different and therefore what makes some people happy may not make other's happy. I think true happiness comes from wetin, and thats the only happiness that last.


I agree. hapiness is a feeling and the feeling will fade in time, caused by new experiences, it's not a behaviour or a way of life.

Of course with a positive attitude (towards the world, others, and not the least towards yourself) you'll improve your chances on being happy for some time.


Not only with a positive attitude. You can change your feelings very much. It realy depends how much of will do you spend on it... Being optimist and being happy is very different...


I think you misunderstood: I wasn't saying hapiness is the same like having a positive attitude. I was talking about improving your chances on being happy (for some time) by having a positive attitude as mentioned above.

And I now think in addition that, in the beginning with your search to hapiness, 'acting like you have a positive' attitude is not so bad. when you share feelings, you get back those feelings you want to feel and that will help you with believing in yourself and it will let you value events that happened all along quite different but you weren't able to recognize them, because of your attitude. that way the act becomes your new way of life, and reality.
WehrWolv
getting off your computer might help?..
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