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Wanting to be in love with someone





Sinangel
Well, how can i start. Maby telling some of the past will help out.
Ive never been the guy that the girls want to be with all the time, not the popular type atleast,
So ive only been in one relationship, and that dident last long, posibly becouse i think i only liked her and she wasent realy my kind of girl.

But since that time, about 2,5 years ago, ive not felt in love with anybody, and that kinda scares me. becouse before that relationship, i was like constantly in love with one girl or another, but not anymore.

I am still atracted to females, couse im not turned on by gay porn, but naked women still works for me.

I also live by myself, but i dont feel lonely but i kinda want to love someone, and to be loved by someone else.

So might it be that i just dont meet the right girl, or is there anything else, any oppininons is apreciated

(btw sorry for the typos)
xkobram
Be optimistic, start working on it. Start searching a girl. Go to clubs, meet new people, go in libraries and other public places where can you meet girl for you...
rslate
I understand what you're saying, I've been in three 'serious' relationships (lasting over a year and involving living together or damn close to it) and I've never felt 'in love'. I just kind of go along with them because I get attached to them and don't feel like ending it, but I've never really felt it.

I figure that I just haven't found the right woman yet, and I don't worry about it. Woman *definitely* do it for me, no gay porn here either, so I think we're on a similar page.

Just keep waiting, and looking... but don't be too overzealous in your search, or you might miss what you're looking for. Wink
Sinangel
thanks for the replies people.
I guess I cant just wait for the right one to enter my life, I have to start looking some more, but after i started to work, my sosial life kinda went a little down, but i guess thats normal Wink

It might also just be the winter cold that makes me not wanting to wake up alone in a cold house, having someone besides me would be realy neat.

But I think it will solve it self over time i guess, most things do.
Just good to get it writen out somewhere Cool
xkobram
Ok, i wish you will fall in love soon. You won't feel sorry for that!
Vandalyzed
Well nothing in life is gonna fall in your lap.......and honestly, there's no such thing as "the right one"............. The human psyche is so complex that there are multiple "right ones".........at any given time in your life a girl can be the right one for you at that time. And then down the road your life changes and she may no longer be the right one.

Of course, you could always fall back on the cliche that while you're waiting for the right one, you should have fun with all the wrong ones. Even if the "Right One" does come around...who's to say she's going to stick around if you have no relationship experience?

Get out there, get some experience........ that's the only way to find "the right one".

And before anybody get stupid, by experience I'm not talking about sexual experience. I'm talking about relationship experience......... Sex is the easy part. It's the rest that gets all screwed up.
tingkagol
xkobram wrote:
Be optimistic, start working on it. Start searching a girl. Go to clubs, meet new people, go in libraries and other public places where can you meet girl for you...

^ that's the WORST place to find an appropriate girl.
Sinangel
tingkagol wrote:
xkobram wrote:
Be optimistic, start working on it. Start searching a girl. Go to clubs, meet new people, go in libraries and other public places where can you meet girl for you...

^ that's the WORST place to find an appropriate girl.


Hehe, well that depens on your preferences, for me the only local "clubs" are the bars around town, and im not after somekind of drunk girl Shocked ,

I dont drink myself, so thats kinda pointless, ive tried it some times before, but i cant seem to like a drunk girl, since drinking is just stupid after my opinion. Rolling Eyes

It was easyer when i went to school =) lots of girls there, now when I work I dont have any girls my age at work Sad
xkobram
tingkagol wrote:
xkobram wrote:
Be optimistic, start working on it. Start searching a girl. Go to clubs, meet new people, go in libraries and other public places where can you meet girl for you...

^ that's the WORST place to find an appropriate girl.


Sorry for that, I dont know what is the meaning of "clubs" for you. I meaned something like concerts, pubs or somewhere, where you meet your friends and meet their friends and new people...

Sinangel wrote:
It was easyer when i went to school =)


I wouldn't like dating girls from my school, beacause i have to go to the same school and she would say everything to her friends on the school and i don't want to walk in the corridor where some girls stand there, pointing at me and whispering "Thats him, who..."
AutoTechGuy
OK here's the deal... don't force it.. it'll happen when it's ready to happen.

Also don't shy away from it... go out and have fun.. but have fun for yourself! Don't go out EXPECTING to meet the one because believe me you'll be disappointed everytime.

Go do the things you like to do and you'll eventually meet the right girl, but also keep i mind... SHE has to meet the right guy too (you)! You have to be comfortable with yourself before you can really expect to fully comfort a woman.

Once you're confident with youself, it'll show. The more confident you are with yourself, the more confident women will be with you.
missdixy
Just try to meet people, and keep your hopes up! You'll meet someone eventually Smile
darvit
I think that since you're already working, your social circle has been limited to your co-workers [which could be sad]. Just like everybody else said, go out and meet other people. Because you're not a drinker, maybe you can look for other activities, depending on your interests [e.g. conventions, seminars, the gym!, parties, concerts, even some youth organization with members around your age Very Happy]. Good luck! Cool
angelussum
I agree with everyone here - don't stress out about not having a serious relationship for a while, everyone's different. It's hard to find a girl when you're not really looking, so get yourself out there Wink
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