I have a friend who is 15 and all he talks about is sex, porn, and boobs and he's a virgin. how do i shut him up?
My Friends Addiction
Take him to Vegas and buy him a $20 ******.
Just kidding......
Just kidding......
eh. theres nothing wrong with porn, sex, and boobs.
probably cause i'm a 15 year old guy...
probably cause i'm a 15 year old guy...
Yeah? I am younger ... Nothing to it except you will not learn anything for 40 days ...
Its pretty normal. Its a stage where ballz drop and little boys realizer women arent the cootie-infested kissy bags that they used to hate. They become obsessed with sex and the like, because men historicly and geneticly the dominating sex, so its natural for males to want to know everything about everything. On top of that, its aethetically mind blowin. So, all you can really do is put up with it for a while. However if it DOESNT slow down within a yearish, it means he DOES have a problem, and you should inform his parents. It takes a friend to be able to do that. I was called out on a different addiction when I was young, and it saved my life.
I think its a maturity thing, there is a time and place for sex, jokes about sex etc. You need to know when its ok to bring it up and when to keep your mouth shut. Perhaps let him know that he can think about it as much as he likes but your sick of hearing about it (I'm sure others are sick of it too).
| Kovalchuk17 wrote: |
| I have a friend who is 15 and all he talks about is sex, porn, and boobs and he's a virgin. how do i shut him up? |
Are you his girlfriend?
| Meggsy wrote: |
| Perhaps let him know that he can think about it as much as he likes but your sick of hearing about it (I'm sure others are sick of it too). |
Best idea so far and most likely to work.
He needs to know that his thoughts while natural and normal are irritating when forcefully experessed upton to other people all the time. He may also needs something else to share his time with, some sort of hobby, preferbaly something you enjoy so you don't mind him talking about it all the time.
tell him he is draining his vitality by thinking about sex.
the ancient sages wrote down all they learned about sex in those free love days, no condoms back then either....
three ways humans leak energy...
1) Through negative emotions
2) From dwelling on the past or future, not being NOW
3) Through the reproductive organs, too much emphasis on sex.
Maybe that'll chill your friend out, maybe he can pick up some pokemon cards or a magazine or what it is you dudes do nowadays.
another tip, lay off the internet porn, its screwing up your parents computer, tell him that.
taking a break from MTV and/or TV may enhance the boys spirit, who knows,
ages 14-umm 15/30/50 theres alot of sex drive, varies i guess...
goodluck.
the ancient sages wrote down all they learned about sex in those free love days, no condoms back then either....
three ways humans leak energy...
1) Through negative emotions
2) From dwelling on the past or future, not being NOW
3) Through the reproductive organs, too much emphasis on sex.
Maybe that'll chill your friend out, maybe he can pick up some pokemon cards or a magazine or what it is you dudes do nowadays.
another tip, lay off the internet porn, its screwing up your parents computer, tell him that.
taking a break from MTV and/or TV may enhance the boys spirit, who knows,
ages 14-umm 15/30/50 theres alot of sex drive, varies i guess...
goodluck.
I gotta agree with Meggsy and Mathiaus...
That is the most likely to have any real effect on your friend.
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| Perhaps let him know that he can think about it as much as he likes but your sick of hearing about it (I'm sure others are sick of it too). |
That is the most likely to have any real effect on your friend.
Wait until he matures. I don't think you can expect a typical 15 year old male not be to talking about sex and the like, I'd be worried if he wasn't aware of what it was.
| zenkirevolutions wrote: |
| tell him he is draining his vitality by thinking about sex.
Maybe that'll chill your friend out, maybe he can pick up some pokemon cards or a magazine or what it is you dudes do nowadays. another tip, lay off the internet porn, its screwing up your parents computer, tell him that. taking a break from MTV and/or TV may enhance the boys spirit, who knows, ages 14-umm 15/30/50 theres alot of sex drive, varies i guess... goodluck. |
Uhmm... my two cents:
15 is a normal age for having those kinds of feelings. It represents the boys first steps into manhood, and it's normal to be thinking about it. Pokemon cards at 15 means probably that he would be considered a geek, a nerd, a whatever you want to call him.
The harder you try to censorship a child/teenager, the more curious he will be with discovering that. Remember communism?
If yur a guy just start acting gay w/ him. And talk about penises asses and muscles.
And when he fed up with it. Just tell him see how it feels?
I noe what you mean its like a kid trying to tell you all the pokemons.
Or the more mature way will just be tell him to stop i don't care. Talk to someone else about this. That usually works if you seem serious.
And when he fed up with it. Just tell him see how it feels?
I noe what you mean its like a kid trying to tell you all the pokemons.
Or the more mature way will just be tell him to stop i don't care. Talk to someone else about this. That usually works if you seem serious.
i think he'll shut up when you undress yourself. after all he's a virgin. then he probably don't know what to say.
or else: make him eating a little too much pizza while watching a porn video.
but ignoring is also a possibility.
or else: make him eating a little too much pizza while watching a porn video.
but ignoring is also a possibility.
i agree with most of the people who've mentioned this before me that you should say something to him. BUT I havent seen it come up, what is your relation to him, he your friend, boyfriend, relative? and how close are you two, do you tell him secrets etc?
divert his mind without him realizing you are. introduce him to a new game that could take up his mindspace, perhaps. introduce him to table tennis. do some treks. find a digital camera and let him run amok with it. buy him a fps game, soldier of fortune if that one's still around. talk to him about AIDS and STDs. Send him Godward...whichever religion you believe in/practise. Good luck with your friend. He is lucky to have someone as concerned about him as you are. But remember to be patient. its a tough time for everyone at that age. If you let him annoy you, he'll probably be worse off. Be patient and work on him till he's a year or two older...
He's a 15 yr ols boy, that says enough, been there a few years ago my self
I'd have to agree hes 15 its his time...the best thing I can suggest is that you try to change topic when he brings it up and hopefully he'll get the message...I would if i were him
He is 15.. he is starting to actual notice all that, he is starting to get to understand all that..
there is nothing wrong with it. give him a little bit of time he will grow out of that stage
if its getting so bad its annoying and you dont want to be around him let him know.. tell him.. hey man just stfu for a min...
there is nothing wrong with it. give him a little bit of time he will grow out of that stage
if its getting so bad its annoying and you dont want to be around him let him know.. tell him.. hey man just stfu for a min...
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