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Have you seen die to somebody?

 


Jaime
Lamentably yes, one month back i see how a girl (19years) some people was doing CardioPulmonar Reanimation because she was an ill (I don't know which) and thet don't obtain save her. The parents was crying, i'm zorry for them and for that poor girl.

It's very sad to see this cases, many people have seen similar cases and are very horrible. But to think about these things makes us value the life. And it makes us remember that there are people who are alive and we must value familiar,friends,partners that we have forgotten.... Wink
jipmerite
If you are extremely shook up by the experience, I am sure you can find some support group in your area whom you can talk to. Or perhaps a psychologist. Different people are affected to different levels by such experiences. Some may move on and some may be more permanently or deeply affected.

Seeing other people die does remind us of our mortality. WHen we see our friends and relatives die, we should feel for them and pray for them. But we should also think that our time will also come. And so we should do the most with the time that we have left.
Idoru
It is a tough thing watching death. Humans mabye get closer to us then pets,
but the later can be close aswell. I went away yesterday and put a little cat
to sleep. Mabye it's tiny to bring it up in this thread, but for me it's the issue
when life ends that's central. I held her as she got the needle, the same way
I held her when I fed her a year ago, abandoned by her mother, when I fed
her.

Life is not to take for granted, but something to be grateful of as much as
angry at. Sadly, we tend to be negative more often then we just relax and
stay in the moment. Anyhow, death is a natural part of life that we have
to learn to accept. Perhaps it's easier having watched the process?

The important thing, though, never forget to live!
OutlawSpirit
ye i seen someone die on the streets - was an accidental death
hellrahul
If you are in India you will see many persons dieing due to road accidents.

Currently my teacher died in a road accident. I was shocked. He was the best teacher in my school. But ....

Crying or Very sad
SainT
Yes, my Grandfather Sad
photon
ive seen many road accidents where people died instantly. other than that, ive been fortunate enough to be away when my grandparents died. i still shudder at the thought of seeing someone i love die... the experience will be painful to say the least
UApilot
It is hard to understand why we become so shook up over the witnessed death of others. They are nobody we know yet we still seem to act as if we are family: we feel pity for them, we start noticing the atrocities of life, and it seems that our restlessness dies as we observe our surroundings in what sounds like a dead silence.
In truth, I feel that when we witness the death of a human being different from us only in name, we don't really feel pity for them. We simply get a reality check and realize that that person could have very likely been ourself. We are like small children that, after acting very rowdy, get put in check and are therefore very silent and guilty afterwards.
But just like with children, this feeling goes away with time. All you have to simply do is get your friends to take you out and do things you've never done before. Or doing something exciting in general. You have to take your mind off of what you saw. Ride a roller coaster, go to a strip club, sky dive, etc. The problem with most exciting things is that they'll probably remind you of death and you'll find it hard to do them. Thats why you'll have to get friends to push you.
Jaime
A long time ago i see how a PoliceMan shoot a delincuent that run... The man doesn't dead, was hurtly in a hospital... but the delincuent has kill a woman for rob something...
Soulfire
I've seen car accident scenes in which people have died. Unfortunately, I saw a body bag - occupied - at one of those scenes. It hits you like bricks, it made me sad and depressed, it was very sombering.
David_Pardy
I've never seen someone die or a dead body, but I have seen dead or dying pets (usually cats) on the side of the road and it really makes you think - a family somewhere nearby has probably just lost a loved one and they won't know it until the pet doesn't return for a few days or until a friend recognises the cat and takes it to them.

I have lost relatives to death but they have not been close ones - so I don't feel the pain as much as others might. I am glad I haven't had that experience and I don't hope for it but well... Welcome to mortality!
crimson_aria
I've never seen somebody die in front of my eyes. But there was one time when I was rushed to the emergency room. I swear I would never want that to happen again. My condition wasn't critical (I injured a hand), so I was still observant. What I saw made me feel heavy, really. You could see many people trying to hold onto their lives desperately. I wanted to cry that time. It was depressing.
rightclickscott
I didn't, but my girlfriends grandfather died right in front of her. I've been helping her through it.
peroxide
At work one day I was on my way to lunch with my colleague in his car. As we rounded a bend right outside our office, we were greeted with a scene that wouldn't be out of place on the front page of a newspaper.

A destroyed motorbike was leaking oil, collapsed off to one side, and a van was in the middle of the road. Underneath the van, a man was trapped, his head crushed under the van, blood streaming out. The police and medics were there, but it didn't seem that bad. Needless to say though, we lost our appetites.

Until I got home, and there right on the news was the scene I saw in the afternoon, and the anchor reporting that the man had died on the way to the hospital after losing too much blood. It just hit me, that humans are so fragile. Treasure life.
Jaime
In internet and TV I see some videos... but is very horrible...
HoboPelican
Seen far too many. It was hard at first and didn't get any easier. It can happen to anyone at anytime. I still breakdown sometimes thinking about friends I watched go....
cfackler
I've never seen anyone die. I have seen dead people (at funerals), and the sight of them brings on grief. I can't imagine being in the presence of someone and seeing them die, especially I was close to them.
limrio
One times, when my grand mother die Sad i see that she sure in pain Sad
seanooi
When I was 12 years old, and accident happened just before my eyes. The scene was just scary. A motorcyclist knocked a car and the motorcyclist flew about 10 feet up into the air and landed on his head. He died instantly because he wasn't wearing a helmet.
jipmerite
I once had a rabbit and he got fever and stopped eating. I put some paracetamol into a milk bottle and tried to feed the guy using a teat, like feeding a baby. But the fever only kep getting worse. One time I was trying to feed it like that when it suddenly gave a jerk and just went limp. Died rught in my arms.

I was pretty shocked. For a moment I was just emotionless. I told my bros and mom nearby he was dead. As if it was a fact. Then the emotions hit me. I felt sad.

Most of us have strong feelings when we experience a death near us. But we should also spare a thought for all the less fortunate people around the world who are dying of famine and curable diseases. We can help them in our small way, by giving charity to Organisations who are on the site, helping them, such as the French, Medicine Mithout Borders..etc
woundedhealer
There's one thing that comforts me about death, unless it's sudden.

This is just my own observations. Before the heart & breathing stops, the spirit leaves the body. It takes maybe 20 or 30 mins for the body to slow down and stop after the spirit has left.

The death of my husbands dog makes us smile when we talk about it. Bobbie had gone under the sideboard which was beside my chair. This was her comfort place. I think she hada heart attack while she was there and it was clear she was dying. I had to phone my husband to tell him I couldn't pick him up from work because I was sure his dog was dying. When he got home he spent a short time withhis dog before going out to dig her grave. When Bobbie had passed on we had to get out from underneath the sideboard. My husband had to lift it up while I slid Bobbie out from underneath it.

My husband jokes that she was awkward in life and awkward in death! I'm just glad she gave us these last fond memories
Vrythramax
Unfortunatly I have seen many people die, some my friends. The only thing that can get you through that kind of situation is to remember that death is as much a part of life as living it is. I know it sounds corny, but it's true. No one gets out of life alive in the end.

Death and Taxes...can't escape either one.
Zorrin
Fourtunealy I havnt seen anyone die, but soon my granddad will and its going to be sad Sad
cybernie
I have seen my grandpa on his dying hour... i was really after that time.. i just cried on a corner... that was horrible hearing him gasp his last breath... the last word i heard was from my grandma saying "he's gone".
Vrythramax
@Zorrin,

This may seem contrite, but death is just another part of life. I am terribly sorry about your grandfather, and I DO feel for your impending loss, but who are we to say that he is not moving on to another path, one that may grant him peace? Keep your pleasant memories in your head, and your love for him in your heart...and he will never truly go away.
bulek
I didn't see anyone to die yet and I hope I won't at least in near future.
jb2_86_uk
A Year ago I was driving on the M1 Motorway in England, where a chav/stupid boy racer came flying down a slip road, obviously in a hurry, moved straight into the 3rd (fast) lane to pass two lorries that were in the slower lanes, however the chav didnt see there was already a car in the 3rd lane which he promptly pushed into the central reservation. This happened only about 4 cars infront of mine which really shook me up to think it could have been me if he was 5 seconds later or I was 5 seconds quicker. I dont know how many occupants were in either cars but I heard on the news later that there was one death and two critically injured. Im betting it was the innocent driver that died. Since then my driving has settled down alot and I always check my blindspots no matter how quiet the road or motorway might be.

JB
otiscom
My father when I was 11 years old.

Four people in a car crash.

A man killed in the steelworks where I worked.

Just unlucky I suppose!
eqfan
bulek wrote:
I didn't see anyone to die yet and I hope I won't at least in near future.

sure,same here
poisonhzkj
if you are in china ,you will see many in your daily life...
38club
I have see anyone to die in front of me....
nox-Hand
Wow, freaky question.. Well, I saw a waterpolo player get kicked in the head once, and he stopped breathing. He died in the ambulance afaik..

Anywho, nuff of that question!
sujan
ya i had a recent memory
mw91
my friend had his head taken off by a lorry when he leaned out of a car window to see if he had a burst tyre.
windrei
i have never seen anybody dies in front of my eyes. But i think i will not cry. i am not indifferent, but only do not know how to react. it will be a sudden case. Maybe someone like your friend is playing in front of you, suddenly there is a motorbike come across by and hit him/her. Your friend cannot move anymore.... Everything is so fast that your feeling may just in a mess... ...
Vanilla
bulek wrote:
I didn't see anyone to die yet and I hope I won't at least in near future.


Same to me. I'm too fragile to hang on this. Sad
bugra9
I have never seen anybody dies in front of my eyes. I don't want to see.
eldarian
i seen my grandpa dead. not dying.
statusfashions
well i havent seen anyone b\dying in front of me and i dont want to see anyone that way.
i have seen accidents and it makes me feel totally unimaginable fury then.
i cant even see an animal dying in front of me .
had an incident when my two best friends drowned at a near my lake in my childhood and one of my friend had seen this , he wasnt able to come out of shock for a week to come . even all of our friends were in shock as we had planned to swim together that fateful day and had to i had to cancel that for some reasons..
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