Guys do you want love or just want to have sex from the opposite sex ? What is your first thought when you meet someone?
love or sex ?
When I meet someone, I don't think of either love or sex. I like to respect the person the way they want me to respect them. Some of them are into getting to now me as a person, and others are more into flirting and stuff like that. In my opinion, love must have at least a small percentage of lust or I won't be that interested. But yeah, at this day n' age, it's hard to look at someone and immediately trust them so sex will come first. Then we'll see how it all turns out, and maybe we can start talking about love, lol. 
Does respecting other person the way he want you to mean do whatwever he wants you to do. It might be sex or love. Well, one truth is that when somebody loves opposite sex there has to be sex playing some role in it. Whether the open or hidden desire materialised into an intercourse or not is an other thing.
| nappa wrote: |
| Guys do you want love or just want to have sex from the opposite sex ? What is your first thought when you meet someone? |
When WE (men & women) meet someone of course its the physical appearance that we will notice first. We might think "wow, what a cutie" but that wont necessarily mean we want sex or want to love the other person. just my opinion of course
i always think of befriending with a girl first especially when i am attracted to her... then a bit of flirting or something like that... a lil bit of observatiob on her actuations when with you... when it seems like you both have the same actions or you have noticed she wants to eat you up, believe me you'll wake one morning you have that girl beside you naked...
well, i guess when you first meet opposite sex it is not just sex or love. But sometimes, when i meet a hottie, man, it is about sex. and all the other stuffs that you love doing to a hottie. Love for me comes, much later, after you really like a girl, and think she is worth all the time and attention that you are gonna put into her.
I don't think it's one or the either. If I'm supposed to imagine a relationship with a person, there is going to have to be as much emotional attraction as physical attraction. It's all part of "love".
Still, if you are not really looking for a relationship, but nature is calling your needs then why not just sex? If both parties enjoy it and are pasionate about it, why not?
Still, if you are not really looking for a relationship, but nature is calling your needs then why not just sex? If both parties enjoy it and are pasionate about it, why not?
sex is fun.
sex + love is better.
just do the best with what you have.
sex + love is better.
just do the best with what you have.
Every man is different. A few won't empty sex, a few won't love and most are some where in between. The same aplies for woman.
Sex with Lust is bad, but Love with sex is good. When I meet someone I personally look on what she is on how she acts and then thats the time Im gonna make my move.
| uslhoops wrote: |
| Sex with Lust is bad |
I must say you are wrong on that point, it certainly is not bad at all. While not the ideal situation, it's still very good times indeed.
hmm..the first thing i notice when i see a sexy/beautiful gal is obviosly "HER"....thatz my way of admiring ones bodily beauty...just scan from top to bottom...
now coming to the question Love or Sex??? none of them...FRIENDSHIP!!! is what i would like to have with her..to know her better..then over a period of time if i develop any sort of affection towards her thatz when i term it as LOVE !!!
frienship/love/sex..i consider all of them as one of the many facets of the so called human relationship!!!
now coming to the question Love or Sex??? none of them...FRIENDSHIP!!! is what i would like to have with her..to know her better..then over a period of time if i develop any sort of affection towards her thatz when i term it as LOVE !!!
frienship/love/sex..i consider all of them as one of the many facets of the so called human relationship!!!
we all want love. thats for sure. it may only seem like we want sex sometimes. but everyone wants and needs someone to love, or to be loved. it makes one feel whole or complete. there are a certain number of guys out there that only care about "gettin some" but the majority are real people and want a nice woman to love. find them, they are out there.
[quote=The Beatles]I'll buy you a diamond ring my friend if it makes you feel alright
I'll get you anything my friend if it makes you feel alright
'Cause I don't care too much for money, money can't buy me love[/quote]
However, money CAN buy you sex.
Take love - it's far rarer, and far more valuable. Sex is important, no doubt, but cheaper in every sense of the word.
I'll get you anything my friend if it makes you feel alright
'Cause I don't care too much for money, money can't buy me love[/quote]
However, money CAN buy you sex.
Take love - it's far rarer, and far more valuable. Sex is important, no doubt, but cheaper in every sense of the word.
I will venture to be honest. When I see an physically attractive person, my immediate thought is "I want in your pants, hot stuff." For me, physical appreciation is always the first step, and sex seems to be the natural way of expression that appreciation. These people tend to fall into the roll of friend or potential lover as I get to know them.
That said, I never actively pursue sex until I know someone. Sometimes it is with an attractive friend and sometimes it is with a love. Because of this, it's never 'just sex'. There is always a deeper connection.
That said, I never actively pursue sex until I know someone. Sometimes it is with an attractive friend and sometimes it is with a love. Because of this, it's never 'just sex'. There is always a deeper connection.
It depends on the kind of relationship. Long term relationship, i choose love. Short term relationship, i choose sex. But the objective really is to love and be love and enjoy sex at the same time. Nothing is more satisfying in having sex with your love one.
Love is the sweetest thing that happens in our life. Sex is more enjoyable when u r having it with your lover.
very few people would agree that they just want somebody to satisfy their sexual needs. another thing is sexual desire and lust are two different things. One should be very clear about one's thoughts about these two.
very few people would agree that they just want somebody to satisfy their sexual needs. another thing is sexual desire and lust are two different things. One should be very clear about one's thoughts about these two.
For me its Sex its more enjoyable its fun!
Ideally: love AND sex 
And friendship, appreciation, support, interest...
The real world is of course more complicated. ("They give you this, but you pay for that", as Neil Young once put it). But nobody said it's not worth trying for the best. ("Can't say we never tried", to stay in the world of rock and roll cliches...)
And friendship, appreciation, support, interest...
The real world is of course more complicated. ("They give you this, but you pay for that", as Neil Young once put it). But nobody said it's not worth trying for the best. ("Can't say we never tried", to stay in the world of rock and roll cliches...)
at first.. love.. later sex.
sex with a woman u love is better then sex with a woman u dont love.
sex with a woman u love is better then sex with a woman u dont love.
When I meet a person, I try to findout whether He/She is a HUMANE being.
love, of course. if it's real sex will be there. 
i just can't imagine doing something intimate with someone i don't love or barely know. that's just... wrong. 
the only way sex works is if love is present.
i just can't imagine doing something intimate with someone i don't love or barely know. that's just... wrong. the only way sex works is if love is present.one word: SEX SEX SEX. ok, 3 words
I don't really want sex.. Sure, mabye if I'm out on a good night I'll hook up with a couple of chicks, but, I'd rather meet a girl I can just keep. One that won't cheat on me. One that can respect me.. I want a girl that's nice..
I'm still searching. LOL!
I'm still searching. LOL!
well love is definitely more satisfying than sex, sex is a here and now thing, while love is a timeless thing. (sounds kind of a cliche I know but it's true) Personally I say its better to look for someone to love than to just have sex with. If you were to ask me whether love follows sex or does sex follow love, I would go with the later.
When I meet a girl sex doesn't even comes into my mind. I always look into the eyes of every person that I meet (That includes girls). I judge them through their eyes. Well its not that I do not think about sex. Its just i believe that its not proper to think about sex on the very first time you saw the person.
I feel that unless you find someone physically (otherwise known as sexually) attractive as a possible partner you rarely pursue that person any further. There usually has to be the initial spark there.
BUT in some cases love can grow between people who do not iniitially find each other sexually attractive, like when they get to know each other through being around each other a lot either at work or through friends etc.
Men tend to be more sexual than women but this can depend upon his personality, his age and his personal experiences at any given time.
Mean tend to be looking for sex, while women seek love - a sweeping generalisation but fairly accurate most of the time but this seems to be changing in modern times.
BUT in some cases love can grow between people who do not iniitially find each other sexually attractive, like when they get to know each other through being around each other a lot either at work or through friends etc.
Men tend to be more sexual than women but this can depend upon his personality, his age and his personal experiences at any given time.
Mean tend to be looking for sex, while women seek love - a sweeping generalisation but fairly accurate most of the time but this seems to be changing in modern times.
before Love or Sex u have to Respect that girl... well Sex is a very far way relation... Well i believe in Love cuz its only the affection that you make your Life Best or even worst if you lost her...
The both when you date a girl your ofte atracted to her look and bothy is hard to now her personalyti after a drink. But when you start the realtionship love come in if everything is matching. When i date a girl i think to have a fun time for her and me then maybe love if everything is ok
well.. to be 100% honest, it's sex, good sex is easy to get, true love isn't.. and I never hope for more then sex (love is more then sex)..
and I would also rather live with someone that I like and have amazing, insane and wild sex with
then with someone I love and just have common sex with..
I dont feel satisfied if I'm bored, and common sex makes me bored... means rest of the relationship will suffer.. not worth it.. just my 2 cents of honesty..
and I would also rather live with someone that I like and have amazing, insane and wild sex with
then with someone I love and just have common sex with..
I dont feel satisfied if I'm bored, and common sex makes me bored... means rest of the relationship will suffer.. not worth it.. just my 2 cents of honesty..
When I first see a pretty girl then I usually think how lucky I am that there are such pretty girls in the world, then after that I look the things what about I like her, usually eyes, smile, hair, body... To be honest, I never think of sex when I see a pretty girls, I'm just happy to be at the same place at the same time with a pretty girl and when I can talk to her then I'm a bit closer to heaven. Well that's me. 
first love and if the rrlatin is true no problem sex
i just want sex, even with a fling, a gf, or wife, just sex, long exhausting passionate sex....it's more fun and exciting....
Personally when I see someone for the first time (and I am guessing that I am not the only one here that is like this, despite what people are saying) I think about sex with them...
Love at first sight (IMHO) is an myth, love comes from understanding and with time, you can feel instantly attracted to someone, you can be lustful, but it's not true love.
At the end of the day we are all animals here on earth to procreate, to send our genes into the next generation. We are no different to any other animal in that sense.
When we see someone (of the opposite sex) we are subconsciously thinking about passing on our genes through them, that is based on looks, health and other factors that scientists are still looking into.
Love at first sight (IMHO) is an myth, love comes from understanding and with time, you can feel instantly attracted to someone, you can be lustful, but it's not true love.
At the end of the day we are all animals here on earth to procreate, to send our genes into the next generation. We are no different to any other animal in that sense.
When we see someone (of the opposite sex) we are subconsciously thinking about passing on our genes through them, that is based on looks, health and other factors that scientists are still looking into.
| greenwoodmonkey wrote: |
| Personally when I see someone for the first time (and I am guessing that I am not the only one here that is like this, despite what people are saying) I think about sex with them...
Love at first sight (IMHO) is an myth, love comes from understanding and with time, you can feel instantly attracted to someone, you can be lustful, but it's not true love. At the end of the day we are all animals here on earth to procreate, to send our genes into the next generation. We are no different to any other animal in that sense. When we see someone (of the opposite sex) we are subconsciously thinking about passing on our genes through them, that is based on looks, health and other factors that scientists are still looking into. |
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loves to read your posts | Azmo wrote: |
| A simple question about an erection's to be or not to be, and you make it soudns like a novel loves to read your posts |
Ahh, that reminds me of two pearls of wisdom my Grandfather gave men when I was about 15....
1 : "A Stiff D*** has no conscience"
2 : " *** girls will always be grateful"
The first one is definitely the case - which is why men find it easier to cheat that women.. as for the latter.... yeah maybe
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