The scenario i'm about to explain is quite a peculiar one. Me and my girlfriend are peculiar people. She is 13 years older then myself and we've dated for 3 years.
I'm not with her most of the year because of my job and location. In July, i'm visiting her for two weeks. Within those two weeks we'll make attempts at having a child. This is where the normality of the situation ends. I'm not really going to be the father.
I'll be the father biologically, but not the "father figure", atleast in any societally accepted manner. We decided that i'd give her a child, but my responsibility would only extend past my catalyst role.
She is personally wealthy, beyond financially as it would seem. Having an extremely large family in a general state-wide area around her. She independently supported herself through the years, along with many of those siblings. Shes a nurse, if this provides any clarity to her. She wants a child, children, and is more then able to support them in every manner. Her family is supportive of the idea, and her family is one of many assets to herself.
I am however, a man on a non-stopping march to see everything. I'm not in a part of my life to settle down to one place for any reason. This is why, under any other circumstances, I would not have any partner or even dream about having a child. But strangely, this is what will happen to the letter. A relationship formed on distance, so distance would never become the problem it has for others. Where a normal relationship couldn't survive my nature, this one has risen above my expectations.
I love her, and would never have anyone besides her. This is a fact like the sky is high. Given her position, and remarkable readiness and ability, she wants to have my child. A child raised by the best woman i've ever known, and among a large family willing to embrace and raise a child. This is a situation unlikely to ever occur in it's simple brillance. The only negative is my abscence, an idea accepted on all sides but one. The child's.
My absence will only be for the warm days of spring and summer, but it only takes a few seconds to hate someone for not being there. What am I know about my absence's affect on my blood? Will it do unknown harms that even my girlfriend and I can't calculate? These are just a few questions I constantly think about. All the details are impossible to jot down, so feel free to ask for information where you think it's needed. I post for feedback, but my ways are set.
I'm not with her most of the year because of my job and location. In July, i'm visiting her for two weeks. Within those two weeks we'll make attempts at having a child. This is where the normality of the situation ends. I'm not really going to be the father.
I'll be the father biologically, but not the "father figure", atleast in any societally accepted manner. We decided that i'd give her a child, but my responsibility would only extend past my catalyst role.
She is personally wealthy, beyond financially as it would seem. Having an extremely large family in a general state-wide area around her. She independently supported herself through the years, along with many of those siblings. Shes a nurse, if this provides any clarity to her. She wants a child, children, and is more then able to support them in every manner. Her family is supportive of the idea, and her family is one of many assets to herself.
I am however, a man on a non-stopping march to see everything. I'm not in a part of my life to settle down to one place for any reason. This is why, under any other circumstances, I would not have any partner or even dream about having a child. But strangely, this is what will happen to the letter. A relationship formed on distance, so distance would never become the problem it has for others. Where a normal relationship couldn't survive my nature, this one has risen above my expectations.
I love her, and would never have anyone besides her. This is a fact like the sky is high. Given her position, and remarkable readiness and ability, she wants to have my child. A child raised by the best woman i've ever known, and among a large family willing to embrace and raise a child. This is a situation unlikely to ever occur in it's simple brillance. The only negative is my abscence, an idea accepted on all sides but one. The child's.
My absence will only be for the warm days of spring and summer, but it only takes a few seconds to hate someone for not being there. What am I know about my absence's affect on my blood? Will it do unknown harms that even my girlfriend and I can't calculate? These are just a few questions I constantly think about. All the details are impossible to jot down, so feel free to ask for information where you think it's needed. I post for feedback, but my ways are set.
