Me and my girlfriend has been on and off now for about 8 months...Shes pregnant and getting an abortion on June 12th...We fight all the time and I dont like seeing her because she always wants it to be us two..I cant hang out with my friends if I'm with her because she gets mad...Also today at work somone kept calling me and I was gettin upset because we were really busy so when my phone rang for like the 5th time I answered and said "I'm not off ****** work yet leave me alone" And she hung up....I didnt know it was her because I cant see my screen, It's broke. So I called back and she started yelling and hung up so I called and left a message saying I thought she was somone else...She pisses me off most of the time and I'm rarely happy she's pretty much waisting my time I think but I love her....I'm not sure what to do anyone got any good suggestions?
There's only one option: TALK TO HER!!
If you don't speak what's on your mind then you won't get anywhere. Try to explain to her what bothers you so much, but try to say it to her in a way she won't be easy offended. Try to keep things to yourself, like explaining what kind of feelings you feel when she only wants you to to be together.
It's never good to let people claim yourself. It keeps you from being yourself and from doing the things you LIKE to do. A partner who claims you this much is indeed a burden on your life.
In addition you can try to tell her what you liked in her when she didn't claim you. That way she sees there's also a positive side she has and she can replace her negative behavior by the positive example she has already shown earlier. I think this is extra inportant, because when you start accusing people of things but don't give them an alternative, people tend to just leave things alone or still tend to get stuck in their old behavior.
Wow, Your in some pickle. You love her but yet shes annoys you. Talking to her isnt going to be easy. Judging by her character, Don't even consider counseling unless she suggests it. You guys dont get along very good. You need some sort of activity that bonds you guys, But first start off by getting her flowers and try to talk to her.
<Insert Name Here> I want to apologize for screaming at you, I'll deeply sorry and wish to make it up to you by inviting you to <An Event: Movie, Restaurant, Shopping ect.> I hope you will accept my invitation, You are my world, I love you and I am even willing to give you the moon to prove my love to you.
And don't suck up, It makes it too obvious.
It seems she has some "problem" with her, may be mental or physical or emotional. you gotta know it first, and to to know it, you gonna talk to her the way she feels most comfortable and tells u her innner things.
so if i was you, i would have find a good time and talk to her.