Do somones friends matter when you want to ask them out?
I want to go out with this girl but I dont' like her friends that much. What should I do?
I want to go out with this girl but I dont' like her friends that much. What should I do?
Do friends matter
Yes frends matters, you cant live whitout frends so yes frends are really important in your life...
well, it would all depend, if you dont like her frineds, and you like her
(*you will have to like her alot*) but if you liker her that much who cares about her friends right?
Because, if you like someone you dont like their friends you like her, so whether or not if her friends like you shouldn't mean anything
but, dont be a jerk to her friends... she might slap you or something
and dont let her friends try to talk her into breaking up with you *they might try this* so beware
all I can say is good luck with it
(*you will have to like her alot*) but if you liker her that much who cares about her friends right?
Because, if you like someone you dont like their friends you like her, so whether or not if her friends like you shouldn't mean anything
but, dont be a jerk to her friends... she might slap you or something
and dont let her friends try to talk her into breaking up with you *they might try this* so beware
all I can say is good luck with it
Obviously they matter...
The simple fact is that a girl depends more on her friends' opinions than here personal decision making skills in selecting a person to go out with..
So she asks them for opinions as how the person is, is he good for me or vice versa...
Dont worry if you dont like her friends, the fact is that they must like you, be impressed by our personality or charm..
This will enable you to make a better impression on the girl..
Because they will probably recommend her to choose you over others..
But if you really hate her friends to the point of, well, HATRED, then you have 3 options.
1. You forget the girl and get another one( there are lots you know)
Relative Difficulty: Easy
2. Dont try to impress her friends or despise them. Forget that they exist
Relative Difficulty: Medium
3. You can try impress your girl so that she over rides her friends opinions
at the same time you can openly propagate your hatred toward them and risk getting ditched
Relative Difficulty: Very hard
Choose one and enjoy!!
The simple fact is that a girl depends more on her friends' opinions than here personal decision making skills in selecting a person to go out with..
So she asks them for opinions as how the person is, is he good for me or vice versa...
Dont worry if you dont like her friends, the fact is that they must like you, be impressed by our personality or charm..
This will enable you to make a better impression on the girl..
Because they will probably recommend her to choose you over others..
But if you really hate her friends to the point of, well, HATRED, then you have 3 options.
1. You forget the girl and get another one( there are lots you know)
Relative Difficulty: Easy
2. Dont try to impress her friends or despise them. Forget that they exist
Relative Difficulty: Medium
3. You can try impress your girl so that she over rides her friends opinions
at the same time you can openly propagate your hatred toward them and risk getting ditched
Relative Difficulty: Very hard
Choose one and enjoy!!
If you like her enough her friends shouldnt matter in the short term......maybe in the long term they could have some effects on your relationship, but this could be for the better rather than the worse.
She may even reject you for the same reasons you hav'nt asked her yet, would'nt that be ironic
Still I say go for it.........many ppl have different "sets" of friends ,in a relationship liking or not liking your partners friends dosnt have to be a big issue if you dont want it to be.
She may even reject you for the same reasons you hav'nt asked her yet, would'nt that be ironic
Still I say go for it.........many ppl have different "sets" of friends ,in a relationship liking or not liking your partners friends dosnt have to be a big issue if you dont want it to be.
Srs2388's right, if the friends don't like you they'll do their best to get her to break up with you. Or if they feel you're so-so, then everytime you do something wrong (like forget a birthday, be five min late etc) they'll deduct points 
Anyway though if you take the Medium Difficulty setting, I find the girl or guy will usually take up the other person's friends. Just from what I've seen though.
Anyway though if you take the Medium Difficulty setting, I find the girl or guy will usually take up the other person's friends. Just from what I've seen though.
Honestly I dont think Ive ever really liked any of my significant others group of freinds... ever lol .... on rare ocassions ive shared friends to a certain extent but yeah. Its not a huge deal unless you absolutly cannot stand them and there always there to drive you crazy. Be polite.... avoid sore subjects if nessasary and if nessasary try to avoid spending time with the offending friend in question ; )
Thanks guys you are really helping me. I am going to get to know her friends a little bit better before I ask her out.
i think that friends do matter, but you shouldn't make such a big point about it. maybe the girls you want to go out with is just like her friends, maybe you don't like their friends and find out she's like them and you don't like her either. but if she's not the same, and you do really like her, then it doesn't matter what her friends are like.
if you understand this far this is my theory
if you understand this far
this is my theoryrelationships are more important in life...without these we cant achieve anything....we achieve more if our surrounding relationships are good....we get good relationship based on our attitude....there are various types of relationship which we see in our life.....every relationship we come across may have one or more advantages and even disadvantages too....
Did she choose her friends herself? Does she like them? In that case, what they are like might tell you a good bit about what she is like or wishes to be like.. So if you don't like them, be careful about her.
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