I am a white guy whose been dating a South Indian girl for 2 years now. We just recently moved to a bigger city and I can't help but notice a lot of angry faces from asian males and old white ladies. At first, I thought asian males are just being jealous. For instance, whenever I see a white girl with a black guy I could really care less, but why is it that when I walk to a grocery store or something with my Indian girfriend, I get disguisting looks from Chinese guys?
I see more of the same thing every day, especially on campus. One night I walked out of a gas station when an asian couple pulled up in front of my car - the girl got out and walked in front of me and I just glanced at her for a split second. When I got in my car, this big asian guy was standing at the pump and looked like he was ready to kick my ass. Perhaps he is just really jealous, but maybe he has a good reason to be.
I'm starting to sympathize with asian males now because there are more white guys with asian girls than asian males with white girls. Now, you might be thinking I am just a hypocrit because I'm dating an asian girl, but you have to understand that my half-brother is asian and he is dating a white girl. So if you tell me to stop dating my asian girlfriend, then why not tell him to stop dating white girls? I encourage WF's like my sister to date asian males because they are generally polite and intelligent in comparison to the losers she has been dating who have abused her.
In the future we will all be brown anyways so I see this as a dying issue. I just wish my girlfriend and I didn't have to experience it.
For starters, Asian culture is not the same as yours. They dont believe in interracial relations. They consider that beastiary.
Its harsh but its life, It will take time before they learn to accept the facts that everyone is human no matter where they are from. It takes people like you to show the world, Being White or Brown makes no diferrence. Your human, I'm Human, We all are. But we are all segregated. We all want to be with are own kind. It can take centuries before people learn to accept the fact. So the best solution is to live with it. Racism is still at a all time high.
If you ever seen asians in america, Actually if you were asian walking in the streets of the USA, Maybe youll understand why Asians dislike white folks. Not because they are taking their girls, But because they are racist. Not all folks are, But in my neighborhood, My Sri Lankan friend is called a Paki by the French Kids, My Black friend as you may guest is called you know what.
How would you feel if the very race of people who are hateful towards you date your people?
I'm a white guy and I think a lot of asian girls are attractive. For the most part from what I've seen, White/Asian Guy/Girl combo (either way) is generally accepted.
But yes, I do see asian guys getting jealous (like friends I know), so that's what I voted for. But I also know asian guys with white girls, so I mean... it's all not a big deal and typically blown out of proportion.
who give so long as you get along together, it's a relationship it you and the other person, screw the other ppl offending you.
thats my say.
ASian America female here. Although I was born in SHanghai, I have been in AMerica since I was 2, and my parents are open minded about these things. And well, I am very happy to hear that some of you find Asain girls attractive, because of my experience, if you grew up in AMerica with Caucasian celebrities, culture etc. etc. you begin to find them more attractive.
But I won't deny there is some racism undertones here. But really, as far as I'm concerned, excepting a few of the older generation of course, it's just the pure male jealousy thing.
So I voted for jealousy.
And keep encouraging your sister. They're really great guys you know.
Heck, if it make syou feel any better, my grandmother would flip if I dated a Japanese guy. She's still not over WWII.
I am white guy and married since 3 years to an asian girl.
When I met her, she resembled my first love in EU only had darker skin.
We had a great time together but also a lot of fights. The cultures
are very different, and the asian culture I guess is very focussed on
Many people asked us, how we get clear with this difference, and I always
felt it other way round: I felt attracted to the asian culture, religion et al,
while she wanted to be western, european. This was the real distraction
in our relationship!
Also we had that 20 years age difference, which is deadly for the asians.
They dont accept ever, specially the family. (I am 20years older, of course).
Its about to break now, she is away since one year in Oz for studies.
I think its good, maybe we still can be friends.
I finally feel attracted again to European girls which I could not stand anymore, 4 years ago.
But during this time I learned a lot of understanding and changed my behaviour accordingly.
I feel, this process the americans should have done also, before they invade any muslim or asian country. You can't win the hearts of asian
people with western behaviour. Its ridiculous.
I would like to correct my first post. I no longer think we will all be brown in the future -- that's ridiculous because people adapt to their environment and there will always be diversity. Who knows what kind of radioactive freaks the future may hold? What if they start cloning Jenifer Lopez? Also, I don't really feel too strongly that I was discriminated against by anyone because it was too subtle to even matter. I voted that my poll was racist. Damn, I'm a flip flopper!
It shouldn't really matter - we're all human, after all. Certain cultures will always look down on that kind of thing, but ultimately if they're both happy that's all that really matters.
I'm white. My girlfriend of... 11 months now (yikes) is black, and we're very happy together. I know for a fact some of her family wish she'd met a black guy instead, but frankly, screw them.
If you are truly in love, who cares what others say? Go for it!
Plus I'm Korean and although adults say that they're against interracial marriage, but that's just a lie! Like a new poll says that more than 60% of Korean elders approve of interracial marriage. I guess times a-changing.
As I already stated, who cares if people stare at you? You should be proud of the fact that you are deeply in love
Funny you mention this, there was some movie that has been running around YouTube about this very issue... Yellow Fever, they call it.
HAHAHA that andrew dude's funny.
the royal family wont!
I'm asian and i dont care about it. Its not a big thing for me, anyway. You can date whomever you like. Once, I dont like whites because of some private reasons and views but nowaday, I found myself not caring about it anymore. Heck, we're all humans and have the same anatomical ingredients, though different in structures so why bother? And besides, I'm younger that time.
Nowadays, t becoming a common thing in our country to see an asian girl with an american guy. Its been going on in our country for several years now. So its nothing new in me. I dont know but people wont stare like that on you if you're living here in the Philippines. We're open to western culture eversince.
Filipinos do seem to be especially open to it, actually - I used to live in Hong Kong, and I had more half-English/half-Filipino friends than I did half-English/half-Chinese. I know there are more Filipinos in Hong Kong than most would expect, but nonetheless...
i'm an asian male, and my parents really don't care about these things, they'll support me as long as i'm happy. So ya, i support interracial dating, i dated 2 white girls before, they were great. in the end, i have to say, EVERYONE is human!
there is nothing wrong in this...
as long as i know, white male and asian girl will make a great couple
After divorcing my rude, messy, white American blonde wife, who was all about commercialism, hatred for "traditional" womanly roles (yes I mean cooking, cleaning, taking care of the house) and had a bad family upbringing, I had a decision to make... sure not all American girls are like her. I have had sweet American girlfriends and I am sure there are some sweet American girls that know how to treat a man, but what happened is that I decided to search globally for a woman.
I liked the filipino women right away because of their loyalty to family, their work ethic, and their satisfaction with taking care of the house (laundry, cooking, etc). Also they are so sexy and submissive. It's f'ing AWESOME.
I also spent some time dating a Thai girl and she is the same way.
Anyways, I love the Asian women. I will only date Asian women now. I will soon settle down on one Asian girl and marry.
Life is good with an Asian girl.
Eugh, this whole thing is quite distasteful... misogyny battered in racism.
This thread is dead.