You can try bittorrent but it is not the best way. If u have public IP you can try running a password-protected web server or your own ftp (password protected).
personally i like Bit Torrents, they are crazy fast
I tried Bit-torrents and they work well but are very slow if there are few users sharing the file.
As far as I know, utorrent is just another client of the bittorrent family.
If you are asking which client is better, I actually have tried almost all of the clients out there, all except utorrent, which i plan to test out soon. I actually like Azureus the best, and for publishing a tracker for your aunt and uncle to dl off of and vice versa, I believe Azureus have this tracker making tool.
Now, according to a friend who used utorrent, it's like Azureus only it's not a java application and takes less resources. o.o So I guess give utorrent a try.
Well, if you are just sharing between 2 people. Whats wrong with a ftp server?
Anyhow, BitComet is my choice in case you care, it is very low on resource usage.
I prefer to use
ANY WAY I CAN GET MUSIC OR VIDEOS IS FINE WITH ME
i would definately say that microtorrent (µTorrent) is by far the best torrent client around. It has all the features and functionalities you would expect from a good client, and it takes 107KB of space on your computer. No spyware or adware.
The only point in using Bit Torrent is that if loads of people share the files, you can download very quickly. Sharing one-to-one completely removes the point of Bit Torrent. You could get an online webspace (or even use your Frihost account) and protect it with a password - then both of you eith the password could access the same files. This would be much faster, and would stop anyone taking your files wihout you wanting them to.
bit torrent is better becuase i dont know that the other one is, and with bit torrent you can get anything you want for pretty much free