Will u love someone just for fun, sexual relationship and ........ 
or will u love her with all her feelings and all the truth
And Yeah !!
You can post the Truth cuz ur Girlfriend will not be viewing This Forum.....
_AVk 
_ You don't love someone for a "fun, sexual relationship". That is lust.
Wheres the possibility to vote? =_=
The perfect love is a combination of love and lust, so i think it's both just as important.
Same as Insaniac mentioned. Both would be best!!!
I'd hit it for fun.
(If I weren't married.) You say that as if its something you decide to do. Its not, its just something you will feel, you can hide it or fake it. But truely, you cant control love.
Love requires a commitment.
Sex requires nearly nothing.
I'd opt for the former.
| All Maine Matters wrote: |
Sex requires nearly nothing.
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Unless you're not using protection haha... pimps dont do love 
I knew what most of them would be saying that they would love with commitment Nust still wanted to see what do all say
So,
I think I am near to the answer!!
I do it for some Teenage Fun Baby !! 
If I really love her, then I would never hang on to the relationship for fun. I will get a bit serious...
If it just a chick I selected randomly, then it would just be for fun.
Yeah Mark , I agree with you . Don't just play for fun , you will make her disappointed .
See, Some guys do it for fun (Some1)and most for Love(I mean Real love)
HA!! HA!!
Avk :-)
I could say that love and sex are bond with each other.. if love is not there then sex wont be enjoyable.... But having love only for sex gives a different meaning..
having love then sex
this is a normal....
Love and sex are NOT the same thing. Love is an emotion or a feeling. There is no one definition of love because the word "love" can mean many different things to many different people. Sex, on the other hand, is a biological event. Even though there are different kinds of sex, most sexual acts have certain things in common. Sex may or may not include penetration.
Love is a feeling (emotional).
There is no exact "right" definition of love for everybody.
Love involves feelings of romance and/or attraction.
Sex is an event or act (physical).
There are different kinds of sex but all kinds of sex have some things in common.
Can happen between a male and a female, between two females, between two males, or by one's self (masturbation)
Abstinence
I approve the love, but does not like cracking a joke. Do not take
likes cracking a joke, also can injure others, also can injure to
oneself.
Both lust and love are important in a relationship. especially if theres love and passion in the lust. its the best kind of love 
. Great!
This response will make me really love someone and then..........
___________________
Avk
::Anti alcoholic::
I think i would love her for her personality and loving care and such not for sex
love is not sex
and only sex is not love
| SunburnedCactus wrote: |
| You don't love someone for a "fun, sexual relationship". That is lust. |
i agree=/Hey!!
What do u mean by lust
I have real bad English
Strange how values erode away like the bank of a river.
Try reading some of the old books, where there are so many love stories and not a hint of sex (come to that no even a kiss, geesh).
And then try the modern ones .....
But then again there are some old one which would beat the crap out of the new ones.
Come to think of it, there's little in the way of right and wrong. Unless a person chooses to define something as right or wrong, it's not anything. Right and wrongs are defined by our up bringing and we choose accordingly to classify something.
P.S Do you think AIDs is God's idea of reminding people to be well ... faithful ....
FOR SEX of course. Love leads to sex and sex is wonderful way to increase intimacy ha!
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I love for her character and beauty..
Well, they're two different things though. Sex is just only a way of expressing your Love to your girlfriend / boyfriend I must say.
BUT...
Loving someone just for sex is not Love at all. 
^ Agreed
Though in a different perspective, loving them for being a good sex partner.. among other things ofcourse.
| SunburnedCactus wrote: |
| You don't love someone for a "fun, sexual relationship". That is lust. |
I agree with you, SunburnedCactus. I also think that the best for a relationship is to feel love and lust. If you don't feel love, lust is ok. I've never felt only love, usually when I feel love, no matter how ugly the boy is, I feel lust. Yeah, I know I'm strange.
Lena.Well I believe in feelings and love above sex and I'm not kidding. Though it can be tough to always be in love and not have any sex at all (LOLz). Sexual pleasure doesn't last long but true love is immortal. Anyone can give you sexual pleasure but only your one true lover can give you love.
Yeah!! Loving someone Just For Sexual Fun
Really disgusting!!!
Well i like a gal and for her character, beauty, the way she talks to me, the way she cries, her friendliness, her sweet voice, her beautiful dancing skills etc.
Its really not for lust. I dont wanna look below her neck or between her legs... lol
What i feel abt her is true LOVE and hope one day she understands........
its like 98.9% of the guys look at gals' below necks and between thighs. 
however, when they reach certain age, they begin to love their everythinng i guess. whahaha. i'm still amateur at such love love thing. i dont wanna fall in love!! Finalllllllllllllllllllly This topic did reach the second page but still I dont want it to stay there..............
Hey guys!! Are all of your get
Give this topic a post
It will not eat u up
Now your girlfriend will eat you up
sex is a kind of love,but love not is sex.
i think both cant live widout each other i.e sex n lov both r essential but i think lov has an edge over sx. So both need to go together simultaneously...............
I like tbat girl (not mentioning who) because of her characteristic and skill, not so much on appearance. I mean she don't look that good. Well, I have a crush on that girl and I am afraid to tell her, I don't know how she will react if I tell her, so I kind of just wait I guess
in my view both are imp,
but lets take an example.
if u love some one and dnt Sex wid her wht will be her response will she stay wid u whole life wid out sex? lol ofcourse no she requires some who will sex wid her .. in same way if u regularly sex wid sumone one day she will love u .. so whts the conclusion 
love i same thing as sex and sex same as love do love do sex or sex do love
| solomagos wrote: |
| SunburnedCactus wrote: | | You don't love someone for a "fun, sexual relationship". That is lust. |
I agree with you, SunburnedCactus. I also think that the best for a relationship is to feel love and lust. If you don't feel love, lust is ok. I've never felt only love, usually when I feel love, no matter how ugly the boy is, I feel lust. Yeah, I know I'm strange.
Lena. |
Hey, solomagos, wanna get together? 
I'm just kidding.
Anyway, I'd much rather love a girl for WHO she is, not what she can give me (sex, or sexual actions). Those things are just plusses in a relationship.A wise man once said that money cannot buy love... but you'd be amazed on how easy it is to rent sometimes. Not that I know this from personal experience mind you. Who knows what kind of funk you can get from the oldest working profession. hehe
Anyhow, just some food for thought. Don't gorge yourselves...
I think sex is not requirement, but Love is a requirment......
what you think ....
OMFG ....guys...are you men or are you mice?
We are natural born hunters and at the basic level of this lies the sexual instinct...you love someone but you still turn your head around after hot looking girls on the street don`t you?
Love is great, it is the most wonderful thing that can happen to a person...but do not think that because of this sex is just a barbaric thing....meant just to satisfy a foolish pleasure. Someone said that sex is much better when your in love...this is true only for about 3-4 months maybe a year if your real lucky. Men need to have diversity.,..in fact that`s why plenty of people....despite the fact that they love their wifes, they cheat on them. Having sex for just one night is great...especially knowing that you will not meet that person ever again and you can just let go....
Don`t get me wrong, i woudn`t trade in my current life (steady relationship) for the one i had before....each has it`s better points, that`s why i think you can`t just choose between one of them....
and to answer jobsword yes, sex is a requierment...because you can`t have a normal relationship without having sex. Actually it isn`t normal that kind of a relationship. And besides, seeing that when you love someone you are going to stay with her a long time, then yes, the sex must be good....if you would like i can write more about this....but in another post lol,everyone need love and six.doesnt anyone need them?
yea in my opinion you shouldn't really have sex with someone unless it means something. If you have a one night stand with someone you're just hurting the feelings of the other person.
jeez why are you talking about sex and love here?
U see both love and all the felings are really important for the life of an Human .
I really agree what avk said But Hey I too think that what others said was also correct cuz faith is also very very important for a man's life and it is realy Important
I do believe that there is such a thing as love and such a thing as lust. It's kinda like psychology. In people there's an Id that is the bad half of you and then theres a superego which is the good part of you and inbetween there you have your ego which is a perfect balance between the two. Sometimes you might drop to the Id, or the Superego. But I believe that somewhere between Lust and Love there is a perfect balance of the two. Sometimes we may want to pursue sins of the flesh and other times we may just want to kiss every part of the person we love and never let them go. It's all about feelings.
[quote="frozenhead"]Sex is just only a way of expressing your Love to your girlfriend / boyfriend I must say.
[quote]
OMG if only more girls would realize this. This is my stance exactly. I've told a girl that before and she got pissed off because she thought another way. But if the girl is saving herself for marriage then I am respectable of that and don't push it to get in her panties.
sex without love is salty
love without sex is light
Love is always different ... women are always different .
So if you are searching a real love to satisfy your feelings with someone who cares about you and respect your feelings and sence ,, you may think of lust to share your true feelinfs in your true moments with a respectful way - marriage .
but when you are searching fun , you may gain it from fun girls's searchers too ,so .
No fun in love ... love is great
fun leads to lust
Thank you
what's u p man
u r just in the first year and u worry about life and sex.
wat's the matter man???????????/
ursraj
well.. sex is a part of love that bonds em stronger its not a fun thing to do unless u are a bit crazed out 
U see!!
I am just in the First year but we should worry about such things
I am sure that you to do and used to
But Don't say
[quote="ursraj"]what's u p man
u r just in the first year and u worry about life and sex.
wat's the matter man???????????/
ursraj[/quote]
Isn't it the trutH It is!!!!
| avk wrote: |
U see!!
I am just in the First year but we should worry about such things
I am sure that you to do and used to
But Don't say
| ursraj wrote: | what's u p man
u r just in the first year and u worry about life and sex.
wat's the matter man???????????/
ursraj |
Isn't it the trutH It is!!!! |
i miss her ,i like her ,i love her for ever
