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I’m told happiness is a choice.

Unfortunately we complicate our lives to the point of being unable to recognize happiness when it appears before our eyes.

So how to clear the slate? Here are 10 things you’ll need to give up in exchange for your happiness.

1. Give up caring what other people think of you. I know it seems counter intuitive as we humans are primal pack animals that don’t want to be cast from the village, but spending time worrying what others think, is a waste of energy. You’ll never please everyone and it’s none of your business what others think of you.

2. Give up trying to please everyone. Unless you’re living life to the beat of your own drum, your tribe won’t be able to find you. Be the best version of you you can be, and you’ll naturally attract in the people that are supposed to surround you.

3. Give up participating in gossip. 100 percent of the time, those sharing gossip with you will gossip about you. Believing gossip is like gambling everything on a horse sight unseen. It’s naive.

4. Quit worrying. Where thoughts go, energy flows. Worry is investing time and energy in something you don’t want to have happen. Learn to let go and trust.

5. Let go of insecurity. When we take ourselves too seriously, we think everyone else does too. There is one version of you on the planet. Be it, own it and quit worrying about it. No one really cares or watches you that closely.

6. Stop taking everything personally. Truth is, most people are too consumed with their own life to really consider what you’re doing. As my first boss said so well: “The world doesn’t revolve around you. Most people’s reactions have nothing to do with you, so let it go.”

7. Give up the past. We’ve all been hurt, we all had parents that made mistakes and we’ve all been through hell. You didn’t listen to your parents when you were younger, so why are you still listening to their voices in your head now? Every experience in life has taught you something or made you stronger.

8. Give up spending money on what you don’t need in effort to buy happiness. Living simply allows the space for life to flow. We complicate our lives by spending too much money and filling our home with “things.” Less is truly more.

9. Give up anger. Anger burns a hole in the hand of the person still holding on to it. Move it out once and for all.

10. Give up control. Control is an illusion. We live in an out of control world. Learn to embrace the new and welcome change; otherwise you’ll grow old through your own rigidity. Learn to let go.

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Yes totally agree especially those f**** gossips. I always feels like a super star when I start hearing things about me. Sometimes I just think this gossip people are security agent or detective that surveillance your actions every moment. LOL

Anyway there is saying that the less you care, the happier you will be.
Just do what the true religion guide to you. Right now i'm happy since i'm trying to follow my religion as best as i can. True religion will forbid you from bad things and command you for good things. You will feel happy when you close to god. That's what happen to me.
A lot of great advice. It really is true though. Stop worrying about what other think and you will see that you have control of your own life. Don't try to impress people or make people like you. If they don't like you for who you are then they really arn't worth having in your life. We all do this but we need to stop and look at our own selves at times and see if we really need these people in our lives. Obviously you need to impress some people like your boss if you want to get somewhere.
Very good tips, especially #8.
Currently I am reading a blog about a couple who gave up their "normal" life and became full-time traveler: They gave up making money for things they don't need and instead enjoy discovering the world.
They also started blogging about some financial advises, like: "HOW TO REVOLUTIONIZE YOUR FINANCIAL LIFE" and "20 WAYS TO SAVE FOR TRAVEL". In a comment to the first posting a great quote from the movie Fight Club is mentioned: "The things you own end up owning you."
Well said !
11. Enjoy happiness!!! The research say that we focus mostly on sad things (80/20 or so), so enjoy good things more!
Stop thinking of what other think is great pleasure of life everyone tried to live their life as they want no need to listen other opinion
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