My new girlfriend has been through a lot in her life. Fact is I am super in Love with the girl and have been since March of this year, however, we only started dating officially in July. We had some messy situations going on. However, due to her past, she is constantly sure that I will leave her for someone else. When I am not with her, she will contact me and start accusing me of being with someone else, even though I am literally in my apartment playing Fifa or something. What can I do?
Make her laugh.
Dont tell her fairy tales.
Stop using aggression.
I would say she has serious trust issues and trust is big part of a relationship so is whatever you 'feel' for this girl worth the headache of not being trusted?
Is relationship a hospital?
Of course it is, in many ways. Being with someone you love makes you feel better and stronger, isn't it?
OP, you can't 'force' her to trust you. Every person has his/her own pace in which he/she opens up. There are no tricks to speed this up and if you're going to look for ways to convince her, it might achieve the opposite result - since you try so hard to make things look right, you must have something on your conscience!
I've seen pairs with huge trust issues make it and I've seen others fail, it's impossible to guess from my experience (or at least I can't see the signs).
Just make sure she knows you're in it for real and when your relationship gets older, start demanding that she trusts you more. After all, a good relationship is a partnership so why should you be constantly on trial?
When you find yourself in the same situation several months from now (she continues to spy on you), just say that you can't be with someone who can't trust you and there is no point in you two being together if she sees you as a person who could do all those things she accuses you of.
just remain sincere with the person.
Make sure you always tell her what you're doing. and also try to stay out of trouble. It's hard to gain trust if you lost it