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cooky24
I have a work now, and live with my classmates. this is not the life i want, and i think i do not have a real friend, all of them so hypocritical i always feel lonly...and i want to send my pets away...one reason is they do not like it, the another is i have no time and money to feen them.
rjraaz
Yes, It is really hard get true friend or friendship in today's selfish world. Those, stupids are always near us to take advantages our kindness.

I do not understand why you live together with them. It surely must be some compulsion which you are staying with them yet.
cooky24
Yes, because of that i have no enough money to rent a house just for myself.
rjraaz
cooky24 wrote:
Yes, because of that i have no enough money to rent a house just for myself.


Of-course financial conditions always forced us to be in such ridiculous situations. But, it is not compulsory for us to tolerate such type of people. Because we have option to choose our roommates whose have thoughts and feeling not exactly but similar to our ones.

I do not know what is your qualification but it may be sufficient for you to earn extra cash that may helpful to resolve your financial condition.

There are lots of students who are living around my place at rent and they give tuitions to college/school going students as per their qualification in their spare time even some of them give tuitons to their own landlord's kids.
grofet
you have to cooperate with them to get rid the financial problem. create a business team with you friends. create something, sell something, or anything that will give a lot of cash legally. talk with your friends without emotion.
ocalhoun
cooky24 wrote:
this is not the life i want,

Then why are you living it?
What's stopping you from going out and living a life you do want?
rjraaz
ocalhoun wrote:
cooky24 wrote:
this is not the life i want,

Then why are you living it?
What's stopping you from going out and living a life you do want?


That may because of certain situations of our life. Some wants to live life with luxury but are not financially good.
loveandormoney
cooky24 wrote:
I have a work now, and live with my classmates. this is not the life i want, and i think i do not have a real friend, all of them so hypocritical i always feel lonly...and i want to send my pets away...one reason is they do not like it, the another is i have no time and money to feen them.


There are two ways:
Talk with Your classmate, the talk about Your problems solves the loneliness-problem.

Search true friends. It is better to have bad friends.
ocalhoun
nickfyoung wrote:
I see the only option for you is to get out and work your butt off. Get another job or two and work, work, work. Save all your money until you can see yourself getting a better situation.

More money does not equate to better situation. Not necessarily.

Don't waste your life striving for what others call success only to find that you missed out on what YOU call success.

Don't fall into the materialist trap of thinking that more money/stuff will make you happy.
playfungames
Don't worry, one day you will find people that you will actually like to hang out with.

Me, I'm lonely like you. Finished college, so I don't meet up with friends that often. I am an only child and have to siblings to hang out with as well. So the entire day I'm up all alone. But I haven't given up and I think that I will meet someone special soon. You will as well and you have better chances of it happening if you do not lose hope.
nickfyoung
I see the only option for you is to get out and work your butt off. Get another job or two and work, work, work. Save all your money until you can see yourself getting a better situation. By working two or three jobs you will be too busy to be lonely and will meet new people too. Eventually you will have enough money to do something better with your life. So if you put in the hard work now now you will be able to look forward to a better future. Go for it.
loveandormoney
playfungames wrote:
Don't worry, one day you will find people that you will actually like to hang out with.

Me, I'm lonely like you. Finished college, so I don't meet up with friends that often. I am an only child and have to siblings to hang out with as well. So the entire day I'm up all alone. But I haven't given up and I think that I will meet someone special soon. You will as well and you have better chances of it happening if you do not lose hope.


How do people live, who want to stay alone?
How do people live, who stay together with friends or stay together with friends in one house?
How do people live, who live in a relationship?
spinout
I have never had a true friend, either.

Also a bit mysterious why I don't have a real friend??? (my cat was maybe my friend way back)

HM, no not really... I have only done wrong in this world - leaving everybody with mental pain for decades. I am so evil it is rediculous! Not directly evil but indirect prime evil. I have no intentions to change. Fed up, why change?

I tried for a couple of years back to change, haha, I tried to be good and letting goodness enter my world!!! Well the outcome was the opposite, more evil happened to my surrounding in the baddest way. And the better my health became! This universe is strange, the badder you are the better your health and vice versa!
deanhills
spinout wrote:
I tried for a couple of years back to change, haha, I tried to be good and letting goodness enter my world!!! Well the outcome was the opposite, more evil happened to my surrounding in the baddest way. And the better my health became! This universe is strange, the badder you are the better your health and vice versa!
I'd say the bottom line is as long as you are happy. And if you are happy when you are doing evil. Good for you. If doing evil worries you, it is probably not good for you.
nickfyoung
I can be difficult having a true friend sometimes. When I was young I had a best friend and we did everything together. When we both got married we stayed best friends and still spent all our time together as two couples. Life was pretty good till I discovered that my best friend had been screwing my young wife for the past couple of years. Things sort of went sour then all round. Don't have a best friend now. I suppose one becomes a bit wary about trusting a best friend again after being betrayed.
loveandormoney
spinout wrote:
I have never had a true friend, either.

Also a bit mysterious why I don't have a real friend??? (my cat was maybe my friend way back)

HM, no not really... I have only done wrong in this world - leaving everybody with mental pain for decades. I am so evil it is rediculous! Not directly evil but indirect prime evil. I have no intentions to change. Fed up, why change?

I tried for a couple of years back to change, haha, I tried to be good and letting goodness enter my world!!! Well the outcome was the opposite, more evil happened to my surrounding in the baddest way. And the better my health became! This universe is strange, the badder you are the better your health and vice versa!


Do You want to have a friend
or do You prefer to stay alone?
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