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lady_amrie
We are 16 yrs together with my husband and in a sudden he fall out of love withme and now inlove with his officemate which he is used to talked with anything same when the girl who had a depression and tells everything to my husband. And shits happened. And my husband leave me and asking his freedom. But He keeps telling me in end we will still be the one. what are he trying to imply here I am a bit confuse because everytime we met in my place because we have a ´baby things still happen as a couple. But I am just confuse if he still love me?
lady_amrie
what should i do now we verbally seperated but still we are legal married. Now he is going out with other woman which i am aware of. And now I wan't to do something to win him back not just for our baby but I still LOVE HIM SO MUCH: gUYS OUT THERE HELP ME SOME OF ADVICE PLEASE. i am letting him go totally because he is happy. still there I can do?
Vanilla
First, what kind of relationship is that? The guy isn't showing any respect for you or for the other woman he is dating. He is dating someone but he is still with you as a couple. And what kind of person are you? Do you think you can live this way? Show some respect for yourself and let this guy go. If he loved you in the first place he wasn't supposed to fall in love with other woman. I didn't mean to sound harsh, but it is what it is. He will continue to be the father of your kid and you don't need to stop seeing him. But you need to think what is best for you too. Stay strong. And love yourself!
deanhills
Vanilla wrote:
First, what kind of relationship is that? The guy isn't showing any respect for you or for the other woman he is dating. He is dating someone but he is still with you as a couple. And what kind of person are you? Do you think you can live this way? Show some respect for yourself and let this guy go. If he loved you in the first place he wasn't supposed to fall in love with other woman. I didn't mean to sound harsh, but it is what it is. He will continue to be the father of your kid and you don't need to stop seeing him. But you need to think what is best for you too. Stay strong. And love yourself!
Agreed Vanilla. In addition there is also an irony involved here that the moment that a person starts letting go and loving oneself, the husband wants to come back. When one shows pride in oneself and show the other person one can survive without them, that has a very magic power of attraction in its own right. Also strange that when that happens, all of a sudden the husband shows up as a real loser for having left his family in the first place. It's a toughie though. Letting go, particularly when there are children involved who are connected with their father has to be one of the biggest challenges life can present. So am thinking of you and wishing you best of luck lady_amrie. One of life's many dragons that need slaying.
zhybsc
why and how ? Cool
enilsoncba
Think of the lyrics "Nunca desista do seu amor" (Never Give Your Love) by Rodrigo Santos

The die is cast
He played the anchor no practical
We think that everything
Is solved at once ...

And anyway
Whether a given
Or a trump card
Who we want
Not always resolves
Once ...

Found that there were
Least two rungs on the ladder
And more space in the elevator
The boot is not so tight as
And the window of the house
I see the sun go down ...

If no wind
Paddle!
If there moon
Howl!
If no air
Get inspired!
But never give up
His love
If there is no chance
Create!
If there is silence
Scream!
If there is no word
Listen!
But never give up
Of your love ...

For some time
I hear all
What you say
We got a chance to understand
What did you
And what I did
And anyway
Whether a given
Or a trump card
Who we want
Not always resolves
Once ...

Found that there were
Least two rungs on the ladder
And more space in the elevator
The boot is not so tight as
And the window of the house
I see the sun go down ...

If no wind
Paddle!
If there moon
Howl!
If no air
Get inspired!
But never give up
His love
If there is no chance
Create!
If there is silence
Scream!
If there is no word
Listen!
But never give up
Of your love ...

Uh! Uh! Uh!
Uh! Uh! Uh!
Uh! Uh! Uh!
Never give up
Of your love ..
Ankhanu
enilsoncba wrote:
Think of the lyrics "Nunca desista do seu amor" (Never Give Your Love) by Rodrigo Santos

The die is cast
He played the anchor no practical
We think that everything
Is solved at once ...

And anyway
Whether a given
Or a trump card
Who we want
Not always resolves
Once ...

Found that there were
Least two rungs on the ladder
And more space in the elevator
The boot is not so tight as
And the window of the house
I see the sun go down ...

If no wind
Paddle!
If there moon
Howl!
If no air
Get inspired!
But never give up
His love
If there is no chance
Create!
If there is silence
Scream!
If there is no word
Listen!
But never give up
Of your love ...

For some time
I hear all
What you say
We got a chance to understand
What did you
And what I did
And anyway
Whether a given
Or a trump card
Who we want
Not always resolves
Once ...

Found that there were
Least two rungs on the ladder
And more space in the elevator
The boot is not so tight as
And the window of the house
I see the sun go down ...

If no wind
Paddle!
If there moon
Howl!
If no air
Get inspired!
But never give up
His love
If there is no chance
Create!
If there is silence
Scream!
If there is no word
Listen!
But never give up
Of your love ...

Uh! Uh! Uh!
Uh! Uh! Uh!
Uh! Uh! Uh!
Never give up
Of your love ..

Versatile song... you gave this suggestion for a completely different relationship issue too Razz
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