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Here it goes.
My girlfriend does not like my mum. But its not so much of an issue because my Dad works in another country so my mum frequently jets around between both places.
The thing is, my mum has no issues with my girlfriend, although she does find it weird that she is never around when my mum is around.
I have almost been with her for a year, but so far she has only really seen my mum less than 5 times.
Whenever my mum is back in my country, she avoids coming over to my place to stay/do stuff.
Whenever i go dinner with my family, she avoids going along with us. (Even on special occasions)
My family is relocating home in January and i do not know how mediate between the 2 parties.
I am literally running out of ideas on what to tell my family whenever she doesn't come along
Another thing is that my girlfriend is sort of a loner type of personality. She literally has no friends and has fallen out with her good friends (permanently) recently over some "issues"
The reasons for not liking.
- My mum likes to nag and she can be overbearing
- She can be a little bit intrusive into her private life.
But then again i think most mums from Chinese background are like this due to their culture/upbringing.
What should i do to bring them together peacefully?
My girlfriend does not like my mum. But its not so much of an issue because my Dad works in another country so my mum frequently jets around between both places.
The thing is, my mum has no issues with my girlfriend, although she does find it weird that she is never around when my mum is around.
I have almost been with her for a year, but so far she has only really seen my mum less than 5 times.
Whenever my mum is back in my country, she avoids coming over to my place to stay/do stuff.
Whenever i go dinner with my family, she avoids going along with us. (Even on special occasions)
My family is relocating home in January and i do not know how mediate between the 2 parties.
I am literally running out of ideas on what to tell my family whenever she doesn't come along
Another thing is that my girlfriend is sort of a loner type of personality. She literally has no friends and has fallen out with her good friends (permanently) recently over some "issues"
The reasons for not liking.
- My mum likes to nag and she can be overbearing
- She can be a little bit intrusive into her private life.
But then again i think most mums from Chinese background are like this due to their culture/upbringing.
What should i do to bring them together peacefully?
