Just a random thought, because I remembered the time my GF and I fought and I asked her how much she loves me. She answered that she'll be with me until she dies(sounds cheesy). Then she asked me the same question backed, I simply told her "If you could give me one, just one good reason. I'll kill my whole family starting from my mother and father.". She kinda cried and said, I love you so much..
And from then on, we seldom argue and she now says that she loves me sincerely.
I kinda look like a bastard telling her that. But I don't really have a plan to do that, and number 2 ,I don't think she would want to harm any of my family.
ANyway, how about you guys... how far would you go to prove you love someone?
do you mind sharing it to us ? ^_^
I'd like to think I don't need to prove it. They either believe it or they don't.
If I tell someone I love them, they should have no reason to doubt it.
I have a rule never to trust someone who feels the need to 'prove' their love to me.
Especially if they say those magic words, "I would do anything for you".
That is the first sign of someone with dependency issues.
Love is either there or it isn't. If it has to be qualified with metaphors about pulling the stars from the sky, moving mountains, killing people, etc., then I find it highly suspect. That's infatuation, lust, codependency... at best, it's a form of romance. None of which are necessarily genuine love.
You have a point there sir. And I believe that it is not " infatuation, lust, codependency." when we use such metaphors because I know I don't. For me its a way of flattering someone to make that someone feel important even though in her heart she knows that what I just said is impossible. I just want to ask what crazy stuffs you would do to prove it. If none then that would be ok. ^_^
I would do just about anything for the one I love. I would put myself in danger to protect her, fight her fights, give her any and everything she needs..
Cool. This I ask you. Would you fight for her, even a losing battle? example, your parents, peers and everyone around you doesn't like her, would you still fight for her?
to be in a relationship without totally loving a person is injustice to the person and yourself. i believe in loving to the hilt. i would do anything for my boyfreind. a few weeks a go he was terribly sick, his cousine as well. i had to walk through the rain to the house after taking care of them. it was terrible but i realize i would do that again. anytime. any where. its a great feeling to love like that and to be loved as well.
I can't say I'd die in is place or that I'd neglect my kids for him. Those actions have no balance for me and I cannot love unconditionally anyone who would want me to neglect one thing/person for their own benefit.
If you love someone it is MY view that you always want what's best for them even if its not the best for YOU. IMO thats love. To be able to walk away cause you being involved is not gonna help them. To be able to say I don't like it but if this is what you want I will not stand in your way.
Well, i see it like this
You can go as far as you want for "love" with saying (and doing) shit like "Ill give you everything i have/ Ill kill my family/ ill travel across the desert just for you" ect ect.
But it is not love when you are doing that, thats affection, something completely different.
Love is when your sitting in a room with them, 100% contented in how life is, Love is when, your with that certain someone you feel as though the worst things in the world could happen and you wouldn't care, if it is real love it could happen and with that person you would care, but you wouldn't you would be contented and accepting.
So how far would i go for love?
Well if i consider that its not that i have the love and what i would do for them, then i would do nothing, as i would need to do nothing.
But if you take it, in how i initially took it, what would i do to find that kind of love i explained earlier?
I would go to the end of the earth, and do anything for it, my goal in life is to find that love, the only thing that keeps me alive, and stops me from commiting suicide is the idea of finding that love...
Therefore i would risk my life for the thing that left me with the will to continue life...
If you love a person you have do everything, prove something that you love her. Tell death do us part.
A true love does not have limits!
| Ophois wrote: |
I'd like to think I don't need to prove it. They either believe it or they don't.
If I tell someone I love them, they should have no reason to doubt it.
I have a rule never to trust someone who feels the need to 'prove' their love to me.
Especially if they say those magic words, "I would do anything for you".
That is the first sign of someone with dependency issues.
Love is either there or it isn't. If it has to be qualified with metaphors about pulling the stars from the sky, moving mountains, killing people, etc., then I find it highly suspect. That's infatuation, lust, codependency... at best, it's a form of romance. None of which are necessarily genuine love. |
Extremely well-said. I agree...If someone says "I would do anything for you," it's definitely a sign that he/she is emotionally dependent. Asking your significant other to "prove" their love should not be necessary if the love really is there. | DGreatPronKing wrote: |
Just a random thought, because I remembered the time my GF and I fought and I asked her how much she loves me. She answered that she'll be with me until she dies(sounds cheesy). Then she asked me the same question backed, I simply told her "If you could give me one, just one good reason. I'll kill my whole family starting from my mother and father.". She kinda cried and said, I love you so much..
And from then on, we seldom argue and she now says that she loves me sincerely.
I kinda look like a bastard telling her that. But I don't really have a plan to do that, and number 2 ,I don't think she would want to harm any of my family.
ANyway, how about you guys... how far would you go to prove you love someone?
do you mind sharing it to us ? ^_^ |
at high school bcoz of immaturity factor they r very much eager to do anything but i my case i will be loyal to by better half and give her protection lovers need protectionanything, no questions asked
