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Nearly 1 in 10 kids are victims of 'cyber bullying'.........

 


subirbasak
Nearly 1 in 10 kids are bullied electronically, and girls are more likely to be on the receiving end than boys, suggests a new study.

According to study co-author Ronald Iannotti, a researcher with the National Institutes of Health, children continue to harass each other through electronic means such as text messages.

But other forms of bullying, however, remained much more common, such as spreading rumours, turning fellow pupils into outcasts and threatening others through words and violence.

The study suggested that the power to keep kids from turning into bullies or victims lay within the parents.

"Parental warmth and support may improve your own psychological development, meaning you're less likely to feel a need to degrade others to improve your own self -esteem," Wires News quoted the researcher as saying.

Experts observed a 2005 national survey that quizzed 7,182 students in grades 6 through 10.

Cyber bullying was found to be much less common with eight percent saying others bullied them through computer pictures and messages.

Another 6 percent said they got bullying messages through cell phones.

Stephen Russell, Youth and Families at the University of Arizona, also put focus on bullying in middle school, which is often overshadowed by high school bullying.

However, the director of the Frances McClelland Institute for Children said: "What remains needed in this field of study is attention to the reasons that kids bully one another ... much of which have to do with bias or discrimination based on how a student looks or acts, their sexuality or gender, their race or religion, or their social class - whether they are perceived as poor."

The study was published online in the Journal of Adolescent Health.
ocalhoun
... and 9 out of 10 are victims of 'real life' bullying...
Adapt and overcome, kiddies.
deanhills
subirbasak wrote:
However, the director of the Frances McClelland Institute for Children said: "What remains needed in this field of study is attention to the reasons that kids bully one another ... much of which have to do with bias or discrimination based on how a student looks or acts, their sexuality or gender, their race or religion, or their social class - whether they are perceived as poor."
I thought this was a good point. Given the shooting incidences at schools and especially of violence among school children in North America. Hopefully there is a rule that mobile phones are not allowed during school hours to start off with.
Afaceinthematrix
deanhills wrote:
subirbasak wrote:
However, the director of the Frances McClelland Institute for Children said: "What remains needed in this field of study is attention to the reasons that kids bully one another ... much of which have to do with bias or discrimination based on how a student looks or acts, their sexuality or gender, their race or religion, or their social class - whether they are perceived as poor."
I thought this was a good point. Given the shooting incidences at schools and especially of violence among school children in North America. Hopefully there is a rule that mobile phones are not allowed during school hours to start off with.


Well there are rules that say that you're not allowed to have phones at school... But these rules often fail because they are extremely difficult to enforce. Maybe it's just the high school that I went to... I went to a pretty bad high school (bad in terms of violence and other criminal activities - my school was excellent in other aspects (like some of the teachers I had)). So what it comes down to is who are the authority figures going to worry about more: the kid sending a text message between classes or the gang member kid that has a gun and is about to fight another gang member, or the kid spray painting "f*ck school" on the wall, or the kid setting the bathroom on fire, or the gang member kid stabbing another gang member, etc.? These were real issues at my high school - while I was fortunate enough to never witness someone getting stabbed or shot (while it did happen several times - in fact at one point during my high school career (my second year) there were daily riots), I did witness many of those things... All of a sudden, some kid sending a text message at lunch doesn't seem too bad...

P.S. Next time enclose that in quote tags and add your own opinion.
deanhills
Afaceinthematrix wrote:
deanhills wrote:
subirbasak wrote:
However, the director of the Frances McClelland Institute for Children said: "What remains needed in this field of study is attention to the reasons that kids bully one another ... much of which have to do with bias or discrimination based on how a student looks or acts, their sexuality or gender, their race or religion, or their social class - whether they are perceived as poor."
I thought this was a good point. Given the shooting incidences at schools and especially of violence among school children in North America. Hopefully there is a rule that mobile phones are not allowed during school hours to start off with.


Well there are rules that say that you're not allowed to have phones at school... But these rules often fail because they are extremely difficult to enforce. Maybe it's just the high school that I went to... I went to a pretty bad high school (bad in terms of violence and other criminal activities - my school was excellent in other aspects (like some of the teachers I had)). So what it comes down to is who are the authority figures going to worry about more: the kid sending a text message between classes or the gang member kid that has a gun and is about to fight another gang member, or the kid spray painting "f*ck school" on the wall, or the kid setting the bathroom on fire, or the gang member kid stabbing another gang member, etc.? These were real issues at my high school - while I was fortunate enough to never witness someone getting stabbed or shot (while it did happen several times - in fact at one point during my high school career (my second year) there were daily riots), I did witness many of those things... All of a sudden, some kid sending a text message at lunch doesn't seem too bad....
Isn't texting however a way in getting the bullying started though? Texting one another leading to the actual physical bullying. Working up the momentum?
Vrythramax
ocalhoun wrote:
Adapt and overcome, kiddies.


Laughing Cool

Something else for people to complain about. I'm not trying to be mean here (that would be out of character for me) but why do people give out their cell numbers so freely? Nobody gives out their home number in such a way. And can't you block certain numbers from your phone? Seems to be a very easy solution.



Cyber Bully = Moderator Question
Afaceinthematrix
deanhills wrote:
Afaceinthematrix wrote:
deanhills wrote:
subirbasak wrote:
However, the director of the Frances McClelland Institute for Children said: "What remains needed in this field of study is attention to the reasons that kids bully one another ... much of which have to do with bias or discrimination based on how a student looks or acts, their sexuality or gender, their race or religion, or their social class - whether they are perceived as poor."
I thought this was a good point. Given the shooting incidences at schools and especially of violence among school children in North America. Hopefully there is a rule that mobile phones are not allowed during school hours to start off with.


Well there are rules that say that you're not allowed to have phones at school... But these rules often fail because they are extremely difficult to enforce. Maybe it's just the high school that I went to... I went to a pretty bad high school (bad in terms of violence and other criminal activities - my school was excellent in other aspects (like some of the teachers I had)). So what it comes down to is who are the authority figures going to worry about more: the kid sending a text message between classes or the gang member kid that has a gun and is about to fight another gang member, or the kid spray painting "f*ck school" on the wall, or the kid setting the bathroom on fire, or the gang member kid stabbing another gang member, etc.? These were real issues at my high school - while I was fortunate enough to never witness someone getting stabbed or shot (while it did happen several times - in fact at one point during my high school career (my second year) there were daily riots), I did witness many of those things... All of a sudden, some kid sending a text message at lunch doesn't seem too bad....
Isn't texting however a way in getting the bullying started though? Texting one another leading to the actual physical bullying. Working up the momentum?


First off: I highly doubt that text messaging is a huge form of bullying.

Second off: I think it would be wrong for the authorities to worry so much about text messaging when crap like what I mentioned is going on at a school. If the school had very few problems and was nothing like my high school, then sure, worry about kids sending text messages... But the fact of the matter is that many schools have problems too large to be devoting too much energy to stopping text messages.
deanhills
Afaceinthematrix wrote:
deanhills wrote:
Afaceinthematrix wrote:
deanhills wrote:
subirbasak wrote:
However, the director of the Frances McClelland Institute for Children said: "What remains needed in this field of study is attention to the reasons that kids bully one another ... much of which have to do with bias or discrimination based on how a student looks or acts, their sexuality or gender, their race or religion, or their social class - whether they are perceived as poor."
I thought this was a good point. Given the shooting incidences at schools and especially of violence among school children in North America. Hopefully there is a rule that mobile phones are not allowed during school hours to start off with.


Well there are rules that say that you're not allowed to have phones at school... But these rules often fail because they are extremely difficult to enforce. Maybe it's just the high school that I went to... I went to a pretty bad high school (bad in terms of violence and other criminal activities - my school was excellent in other aspects (like some of the teachers I had)). So what it comes down to is who are the authority figures going to worry about more: the kid sending a text message between classes or the gang member kid that has a gun and is about to fight another gang member, or the kid spray painting "f*ck school" on the wall, or the kid setting the bathroom on fire, or the gang member kid stabbing another gang member, etc.? These were real issues at my high school - while I was fortunate enough to never witness someone getting stabbed or shot (while it did happen several times - in fact at one point during my high school career (my second year) there were daily riots), I did witness many of those things... All of a sudden, some kid sending a text message at lunch doesn't seem too bad....
Isn't texting however a way in getting the bullying started though? Texting one another leading to the actual physical bullying. Working up the momentum?


First off: I highly doubt that text messaging is a huge form of bullying.

Second off: I think it would be wrong for the authorities to worry so much about text messaging when crap like what I mentioned is going on at a school. If the school had very few problems and was nothing like my high school, then sure, worry about kids sending text messages... But the fact of the matter is that many schools have problems too large to be devoting too much energy to stopping text messages.
I probably did not communicate well. I visualized the beginnings of bullying in school children texting one another, first maybe gossipping and provoking with photos, etc, then starting to tackle the person they gossipped about with text messages, and then working up to physical.
truespeed
Afaceinthematrix wrote:


First off: I highly doubt that text messaging is a huge form of bullying.



There have been lots of stories on the news in the UK that would say that text bullying is quite widespread,it allows the bully access to the person they are bullying 24/7,even in the supposed safety of their own home.

Keeping phones out of schools don't solve the problem though,as texts sent after or before have the same effect.

Google search : text bully
Afaceinthematrix
truespeed wrote:
Afaceinthematrix wrote:


First off: I highly doubt that text messaging is a huge form of bullying.



There have been lots of stories on the news in the UK that would say that text bullying is quite widespread,it allows the bully access to the person they are bullying 24/7,even in the supposed safety of their own home.

Keeping phones out of schools don't solve the problem though,as texts sent after or before have the same effect.

Google search : text bully


There have been stories.... it probably happens hundreds of times daily... but then again, millions of kids are bullied physically every day. Besides, you can always turn the phone off, block the number, only give your number to your friends (the most obvious approach - why give you phone number to a bully?), delete the texts, etc.
coolclay
Why parents even give kids cell phones boggles my mind. They are only setting them up for trouble. Cell phones are the worst invention ever. Now people can reach people anywhere, people can track other people and apparently now people can bully other people. I am glad I don't own one, and live, and work in a place where their is no reception!
deanhills
coolclay wrote:
Why parents even give kids cell phones boggles my mind. They are only setting them up for trouble. Cell phones are the worst invention ever. Now people can reach people anywhere, people can track other people and apparently now people can bully other people. I am glad I don't own one, and live, and work in a place where their is no reception!
I don't agree. In these days of violence everywhere and all kinds of dangers for children attending school, and parents having to be away at work, the cell phone is a life saver for being able to be in contact with one another, or if there are emergencies, to be able to phone for help. I like Matrix's suggestion however for a block on the number. Can one programme cell phones so that they can only receive calls from certain numbers?
Vladalf
subirbasak wrote:
Nearly 1 in 10 kids are bullied electronically.

And nearly 9 in 10 bullys are kids aswell in my honest oppinion. I don't think a mature internet user would be rude to another if he wasn't disturbed by the other. And most random 'gangster' and 'cool' bullys are obviously kids. It's just immaturity spreading in another way.
~Vladk
Bikerman
I don't think there is anything especially unique about this type of bullying. I have some experience - one of my students was being 'bullied' by postings on facebook. He 'attracted' some people to his 'site' and, without going into details, some of them were from the extended family with a grudge against his parents and proceeded to 'lay into him'.
Now, as tutor and mentor I did the normal thing - notified the facebook admins that this was going on - and they took the appropriate action.
The fact is, however, that young people are attracted to these services and often don't have the self-control or the 'worldy-wiseness' to deal with the outcomes when someone 'takes against them'.
The mature and sensible thing to do is ignore them, but even experienced internet users often have a problem with this, and it is perhaps unrealistic to expect children to do so.
There is no easy solution. Sites like this rely on moderators to intervene and stop such behaviour - and we do (though it is rare).
Nameless
I object to the portrayal of Equal Opportunity Bullying (or "cyberbullying") as a negative act. E.O.B. is a step towards a happier, united future for all of us; finally, all those scrawny, angry nerds can feel the unhealthy pleasure of ruining someone's day without being punched in the face. Razz

coolclay wrote:
Cell phones are the worst invention ever.

If you would please hold in mind an image of a stereotypical teenage girl blathering into her phone while reading the follow sentences: Cellphones. They are worse than nuclear weapons.
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