My girlfriend is very beautiful, a lot of people chasing her, and lodgers told me that his former girlfriend has a male chasing her, he had learned that a male, but honestly do not want others to feel bullied I do not dare to do so, so I began to feel weak.
I told her away, always with some boys I do not like looking at her eyes that I do not like it, they did not exist when I was in the bully me (with me in, do you dare look at me as female friends?).
I am a real person, did not dare do not want to stir up trouble, but I do not want others to feel bullied good (why is it I dare you to look at her with the kind of vision?), In fact, do not dare to do anything themselves, so sometimes feel very weak, I would like to look at the curb do not have any people around to see her, but more so feel inhibited more cowardly, so I do not like her to go to crowded places, because as the boys could have been avoided look at her.
I now see others afraid, but I forced myself to watch other people (because of this I am not a coward), I sometimes think, look at it this way, they will not dare to look at my girlfriend had (I did it!). But sometimes I stare at them, and they also continue to look at her, I will be unconvinced, but not their own can do, it also felt weak ... ...
i cant tell what your getting at..are you just saying stuff or did you ask a question somewhere in there?
| betaboy wrote: |
My girlfriend is very beautiful, a lot of people chasing her, and lodgers told me that his former girlfriend has a male chasing her, he had learned that a male, but honestly do not want others to feel bullied I do not dare to do so, so I began to feel weak.
I told her away, always with some boys I do not like looking at her eyes that I do not like it, they did not exist when I was in the bully me (with me in, do you dare look at me as female friends?).
I am a real person, did not dare do not want to stir up trouble, but I do not want others to feel bullied good (why is it I dare you to look at her with the kind of vision?), In fact, do not dare to do anything themselves, so sometimes feel very weak, I would like to look at the curb do not have any people around to see her, but more so feel inhibited more cowardly, so I do not like her to go to crowded places, because as the boys could have been avoided look at her.
I now see others afraid, but I forced myself to watch other people (because of this I am not a coward), I sometimes think, look at it this way, they will not dare to look at my girlfriend had (I did it!). But sometimes I stare at them, and they also continue to look at her, I will be unconvinced, but not their own can do, it also felt weak ... ... |
Cool story bro.As long as she isn't looking back then it's ok. Everyone loves to be adored. You shouldn't need to constantly aware of other people, you should be aware of yourself and her. Who cares what others think, do, look at or say? Not me I don't mind.
Ps my girlfriend is gorgeous, but then again, so am I.
I really don't see what you are asking.
Clearly if your girlfriend is a real stunner then she is going to attract admiring glances. You have to live with it. Most people like to be admired and she is probably no different. There is nothing wrong with that and you should certainly not try to stop her dressing as she pleases.
Just because she likes to attract a bit of attention, that doesn't mean she is advertising that she is 'in the market'. If you don't know her well enough to be able to trust your relationship then you are going to have a miserable life - overweening jealousy is a very negative influence in relationships.
You either need to learn to trust her and take the admiring glances in the same way she does - as an enjoyable compliment, nothing more - or you need to find yourself a plainer girlfriend.
To my mind, don't be too worried about other males looking at your girlfriend. Just be proud, that you are the happy one who can have her later 
I think I see the point. He's told a problem in the story, like having other men, probably "more capable" than he is, chasing his girl.
First of all: YOU are the man with her. If there are other dudes around her, you should be careful, but in the end that should excite you. Means that your girl is desired, but you're the one.
For that relationship to last longer, act normally, just ask the regular questions, don't fail to show her you like her, don't show negativity, weakness or jealousy. Administer it.
| Da Rossa wrote: |
I think I see the point. He's told a problem in the story, like having other men, probably "more capable" than he is, chasing his girl.
First of all: YOU are the man with her. If there are other dudes around her, you should be careful, but in the end that should excite you. Means that your girl is desired, but you're the one.
For that relationship to last longer, act normally, just ask the regular questions, don't fail to show her you like her, don't show negativity, weakness or jealousy. Administer it. |
I understand it the same way. And it worries me, as this could easily become a self-fulfilling prophesy. If you cannot believe in yourself as THE ONE for the girl, she may subconsciously start to look at other guys as well. Girls thrive on self-confidence in their men, not of the phony variety, but if they sense their guys are unsure, they may become unsure themselves.Sometimes all you can do is trust. After all, relationships are based upon trust.
| betaboy wrote: |
lodgers told me that his former girlfriend has a male chasing her, he had learned that a male, but honestly do not want others to feel bullied I do not dare to do so, so I began to feel weak. I told her away, always with some boys I do not like looking at her eyes that I do not like it, they did not exist when I was in the bully me (with me in, do you dare look at me as female friends?).
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I will be unconvinced, but not their own can do, it also felt weak ... ... |
Has anyone really been far even as decided to use even go want to do look more like?all i can say that you should be proud of her and you should make yourself the your girlfriend is proud of you too....
