Don't know if this is where it goes so if it isn't I apologize. Which one do you prefer? Because I'm not shy to say this, but I would rather Masturbate than to get into a deep relation with a girl anyday just not to get her pregnant. :3
I have moved this thread to the Relationships forum
I'm not saying you shouldn't choose masturbation. Far be it from me to judge. But why choose one over the other? This is one of those great situations where you can have your cake and eat it too.
Wear a condom, or get her on the pill, or both... and continue to masturbate. The best part is, everyone wins.
Sex is way better than masturbation. If you have the right partner, of course.
That is true, but I am not ready to get involved having a girl pregnant, I have not had a decent relationship in my whole life, yea maybe (hug/kiss) but that's about as far as I would go into a relationship, because I consider about their age, If they're under 18+ I would just do that, but If they're over 18+ and they want to do it.. hell, I would do it.. Just as long as she doesn't get pregnant, I would be fine.
Sex is not really my thing because I don't have alot of energy built inside me, and I don't want to get into a bad situation If it ever came to it..
You can understand these problematics, right?
what's the meaning of "masturbating"?
A sexual relationship would be the obvious answer.
I'm quite sure most would agree sexuality with another person is preferable over masturbation.
Birth control these days are extremely effective. I guess you have a lot of self-control and really do fear impregnating someone because most people would rather have sex with someone than masturbate.
This word is not only for men , it is applicable for women also.
why people are masturbate ???
Answer is simple, when people have in good mood ,when they want sex at same time partner is not available , they people try to masturbate their personal organisms.
Dont think this is wrong...but if possible avoid.
The answer to this question really lies on the persons choice and mood,more over last but not least is avaibility of situation.....
Come on man. If that is the motivation for you to have started this topic is about the shyness, then, honestly brother: you have a problem. Not claiming that I'm the most well-resolved man on earth, but if this is a matter of such a concern to you, I can predict with certain range of safety that you`re gonna be reluctant to draw other even more important decisions in your life. You can't waste your life by being afraid of living it. So, to do it the right way, just take the proper prevention methods and think about each possible disaster before, but face the possibility; don't run away from them.
i am not afraid of having sex, it's just I haven't meet any girls that would really consider me as close, and since I don't live by myself, and live with family there is really nothing much i can do expect that. If I was living alone sure I would try it but at this current moment, there is nothing I can do. the girls that i've been with is either younger or older than I am. that is the problem that has been occurring.
I don't want to have sex with a person I don't know, that is totally wrong. and most girls want to have a sexual relationship. I am not really into the sex of a relationship, just being with the girl is all I want to happen until we know each other enough to get married or ready to have a sexual life.
I would much rather be in a sexual relationship with my spouse than masturbate. I don't know why, but I just don't view masturbation as...well....normal. To me--like I said, I have no idea why--it just doesn't seem like something people should do.
That's noble. Seriously. I think the world should miss people exactly like you.
But many will say that "there can't be a relationship without sex". Unfortunately that's what is on peoples heads, specially the women. Of course you could get to know her, stay with her for a while before you have intercourse, but that would be a gamble: you need to be with her for a period until you have relation, and she might think that your relationship, by it's third month, is "sexless" and then she would leave you. Others, unfortunately, could even think you're gay. Shame on them, not you. Hope you don't find any of those.
As my brother says, sex with another person is OK but there's nothing like the real thing.
Dude, go get laid. Get off the computer for a little bit.
Although I agree that it's not very easy for him either.
he says with such confidence....
its not as easy as that my friend...it takes time and dedication too get into the womens happy zone
just learn some PUA and get laid.... easy as that, not much more to it...
Hope everybody think like you!!!!ha...ha..
I think this the right way to control population...
But you think about our ancestors, if they also thought like this,how we produce?
Be happy and I think the world should miss people exactly like you.....
that is so true. :3, It also takes time to get use to the girl's feelings and get to know the girl, before you do have a relationship that involves sex, I never had a gf before, well. ones that were underaged but that's another story but because I like the younger ones, and cannot help myself also because, I am a very shy type of guy, I don't usually speak to girls at my school (well, when I do run into them, I am like deadless on words to say.) because I'm also a blond.
but as you said, It takes time and dedication to get to know the girl before you realize that you are ready for it.
Also, when you get a girl pregnant, there are steps that you have to take, If you want the girl pregnant and if she is ready for it too.
A Job=Income for the child and yourself (support)
a place to live with the girl and the kid.
and a steady food supply for yourself, gf/wife and the child.
You have to be ready to take the worse, if your going to have her get pregnant.
My girl is pregnant and we both still live with our parents and I'm on the way to college.
dude In my opinion, You can do both. ^_^
When your partner is not around you can jack off a little if you feel a little horny. But if she's with you, go for it. You can use a condom, or make her take pills. I bet you haven't got laid that's why you have that point of view. If you already did then all I can say is stop being a paranoid. There are many ways to prevent pregnancy and stuffs like that.
God created sex to take place between man and woman. as a form of closeness to each other and to him. i believe its way better to have a sexual relationship with a wonderful woman or man.
nothing is wrong with self gratification. especially if the person choses to do that for the sake of being careful and making sure they don't get into an emotional relationship before they are ready.
Considering you, along with I, are on an internet forum talking about sex, I would say masturbation, as it will be the most available.
someone here who like masturbation?)
Wow. Surprisingly 4% chose masturbation (at the time I last checked poll results). I thought the percentages would be much more lyk 99:1 or even 100:0 for sexual relationship:masturbation
dude the answer is sex every time
although me and my partner have 3 kids we try to make time to have sex as much as possible
Sex >>>>> Masturbation
To quote Woody Allen on masturbation: "What's wrong with having sex with someone you actually love?"
But seriously, when you get to meet the right person, you don't need to ask the question anymore.