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How I will know if my girlfriend really loves me?





macky
I'm just 20 but I had 40 relationship in the past 5 years and only 2 out of them is serious relationship unfortunately the two serious relationship i had went flew out and end up to nothing. First I thought maybe its a "Karma" and just accepted what happened.

After a couple of months, I met my ex-girlfriend and i got some little bit of conversation with her. I asked her why she left me though she knew since our first date that I really really love her. And what she said is she don't love me anymore! I was shock and realized that 40 relationship i had before is not enough to know if the girl loves me like the way i do.

Is 40 relationship is not enough or maybe i miss some techniques from "David Angelo"?? Question Question Question Crying or Very sad
Xanatos
I think the fact that you have been in 40 relationships in the last 5 years reeks of desperation. It sounds harsh, but maybe your way too into relationships at the beginning. Maybe you feel as if you need to be in a relationship, while the women you date do not. As for loving someone on the first date- utterly ridiculous, unless you knew her for some time before hand. What I'm trying to say is- you want perfection and you think that in each relationship you enter that you have it- until it ends.

My advice- Grow up.
deanhills
You mentioned that 2 out of the 40 were serious relationships. Did the 2 know about the 38? Maybe the 2 thought that you were not committed enough. How did you deal with the 38? Did you love and leave them? Maybe the 2 were wondering about that too?
macky
deanhills wrote:
You mentioned that 2 out of the 40 were serious relationships. Did the 2 know about the 38? Maybe the 2 thought that you were not committed enough. How did you deal with the 38? Did you love and leave them? Maybe the 2 were wondering about that too?


that 38 was kind a serious game. I mean yah i love each one of them but were not committed to each other. That's why instead of being hurt first by them,I'm the one who leave them before they do. Only what we did is just a sexual intercourse..they call me when they need me and i call them too if i need them.. but their parents know that I'm her boyfriend...
Solon_Poledourus
Let's see. 40 "relationships" in 5 years. That works out to an average of 1 girl every 6 weeks. I wouldn't call that a relationship. I'd call it womanizing.
You say you knew from the first date that you loved a girl. I'm not sure if what you were feeling is actually love, maybe just affection and attraction.
Maybe you should ask yourself why you went through 40 girls before you decided to get serious. There really is no way to "know" if a girl loves you. If she says she does, you either trust her or you don't. If you tell a girl you love her, maybe she doesn't trust you because you have a lousy track record.
tingkagol
It's so obvious this guy has never been in love.
apple
I do not think you've been in love with any of those girls. maybe this time the girl is playing you. Twisted Evil
macky
apple wrote:
I do not think you've been in love with any of those girls. maybe this time the girl is playing you. Twisted Evil


maybe your right,im paying those mistakes that i commit before..
tingkagol
Ah, yes. Then your pride masquerades as "love". Classic. Smile
mk12327
"Love" is so much deeper than what you made it out to be. The 40 "relationships" you had are probably based on lust than love. Take some time to reflect on the experiences you once had with your "girlfriend" and list out the troubled times that the 2 of you went through together. In real relationships, the list is probably be a long one.
shkumbin
I believe you want to rush things up, you had so many relationships and no succes it really sound despertate, maybe if you take it easy and take it slow with a girl, analyze and spend some time with a girl dont fall in love immediately.!!!!!!!
Ashtray
I know it sound stupid but you just, do. I don't know. There are no guidelines for relationships.
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