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gethere
hey guys im a guy and im 21 and im still a virgin ..Razz..lol
i think im comfortable with the current situation how about you guys..
is it good to be a virgin until u get married or...
Xanatos
I think that people should do whatever they feel like when it comes to this. I think either way is fine. If you want to wait, more power to you. If you don't, more power to you. There is no "better" way, and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
apple
gethere wrote:
hey guys im a guy and im 21 and im still a virgin ..Razz..lol
i think im comfortable with the current situation how about you guys..
is it good to be a virgin until u get married or...


its really your choice if you wanna wait until marriage or not. its cool that you're a virgin to me. cause everyone else is doing it does not mean you have to . i imagine it would have been nice if my husband and I were virgins when we met. it would have completed our experience and our love for each other.
good luck with making the choice Smile
Greatking
yes! yes a thousand times. i thinks its great to remain a virgin until you meet the one and only and get married. besides the physical benefits the spiritual benefits are awesome. i encourage every young man or woman to remain virgins until they are married.
Subsonic Sound
Far, far better to wait than to rush into it. If the opportunity hasn't presented itself to lose it in a way which feels right, then keep on waiting, if that's what you want to do.

My first few experiences would probably have been better avoided. I was quite young, I rushed into it somewhat, and I regretted it. Not the kind of weeping-in-the-bathroom regret that coming of age films would depict, just a light 'Yeah, probably shouldn't have done that' kind of regret.

It wasn't too long afterwards that I found the girl I want to spend the rest of my life with, and our first time together was her first time. It might have been quite nice if it was mine as well.

Now... here's where I may differ from some of the other posters here. I don't particularly encourage waiting until you are married. My view has always been that you should be engaged before you get engaged, and be married before you get married.

That is, before you get married, which is a MAJOR commitment, you should already know that you can live together, spend all your time together, and endure life's many trials together. There shouldn't be any surprises. I suppose a cruder way to say this would be 'try before you buy'...

Of course, if your significant other wants to wait, that's another matter. You can't force it on them!
Solon_Poledourus
Whatever you do, just use your brain. I can't vouch for any spiritual benefit of waiting, as I'm not very religious. But abstinence really is the only 100% guarantee of not getting a girl pregnant or catching a disease.
But as I said, use your grey matter. If you decide to have sex, be careful and approach the situation with maturity and education. Being well informed about the consequences of sex(good and bad) is the best way to avoid trouble.
You are 21 and have made it this far. My advice would be to follow your own lead, as you are doing a good thing. Be proud of yourself.
coolclay
That's awesome! Most guys don't think there are that many fellow virgins out there because of what the media feeds us and what we hear from other people but there are a lot of us out there.

It's definitely an amazing decision, imagine having one thing you can never get back and giving it to the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. In my opinion sex is one of those "magical" spiritual things that should only be shared with someone really care about and what to spend you life with. When you use it to please yourself, or make yourself feel better, then I believe it's for the wrong reasons.
Solon_Poledourus
I have no problem with sex as a sport, as long as people know the responsibility which it carries. It can be great for pleasure alone as well as for love.
There is nothing lost by waiting, and nothing gained by rushing, so if you have waited until now, then why not keep waiting? But if you find someone and feel the time is right and it's the right person, then there's nothing wrong with having sex. Just don't do it because you feel you have to.
airh3ad
Im not a virgin anymore its sad.
shkumbin
I am not a virgin anymore and why should i be sad, sex is good for you Smile
Solon_Poledourus
They say laughter is the best medicine. I think sex is the best medicine, and laughter is a close second. But don't take the two medicines together unless you want a girl to slap you.
steve1200
it's your choice! ^^
I, for my part don't want to wait till marriage, it could be a long wait. Wink
Solon_Poledourus
Does it count if the girl I'm shagging is married? Wink
Just kidding...
Jamestf347
Considering I'm 15 Yeah, I'm a vrigin and glad about it. If word gets around the school for something like that, Everyone makes rumors and looks at you weird. But It'll eventually happen, I'm still undecided if I want to wait till marriage, They stress it a lot in school but I don't know. I think they stress it too much, and try to scare us with telling us we'll get STD's (althought they are real). I just want to meet the right girl before I make a commitment like that.
iyepes
I was virgin up to 24, and I thought it was good to me. I started my sexual life when I was older enough to stand for my own decissions.

I really admire people who remains virgin up to marriage, specially these times when people try to put everyone on the same boat and tell you how to drive you life, as they know what is good for you or not.

I really discourage sexual intimacy in young people, having sex require a level of mental maturity and ability to be in charge of oneself, specially in case of pregnancy, which is always a possibility.
guissmo
I should be. I feel that 17 is still too young for that. I'm barely even legal to vote. Smile)
gtoroap
What are wrong with you? This is not XV century. I mean, why do you avoid some natural and great like sex? It's just sex, no one says love, that is another thing. Maybe when you have first encounter, you would say "Why I waited so long for this?".
lagoon
I'm 15, so obviously a virgin. I hope that is normal anyway... Confused
iyepes
Specially because it's not XV century, and now you don't have your parents to stand for your mistakes, it's that young people should think it carefully before starting their sexual lives. And, you will have lots of years of adulthood, so, why should you hurry?
Ryox
Bein a virgin is great and a big responsibility to handle, when you have sex it changes your lifestyle and if you get the girl pregnant, than you are asking for a serious problem in a relationship especally if you are not ready for it.

I would just wait till you are ready for the sex of the relationship, than be prepared for it, because if your not. Your life is going to be "Hell."

AIDS / HIV is the most not important part, You have to watch who you have to have sex with, and make sure the girl / boy doesn't have it, or if they do and you don't know it, You immune system is going bye bye...

This is a important part of learning in my health class, and very important when you learn this kind of stuff. Very Very Important information. Smile and I thought it was going to be a bad influence on me when I took it. Lol... <_<
macky
Well it doesn't really matter for me if your still virgin at age of 21 or not..The important thing is you know what is the consequence if you try to ****** someone..

And the last thing is your happy in your life..You satisfied your needs and meet your goals..

The disadvantage of being virgin is when you found someone or let me say love one she/he totally good in bed and expect a better performance from you. But the advantage of it is might your couple or partner respect you and it is more on doing simple things instead of thinking sex all of the time..

Very Happy Very Happy Very Happy Very Happy
pll
I'm 17 and I'm still virgin.
I don't necessarily want to wait until' mariage but... I want to wait to find the good one.

I could have done it a couple of times... but not with the good persons so I decided to wait.
matam
Virgin is so amazing but it is not guilty.
TomS
Nope, I'm not a virgin anymore. I lost virginity when I was 18,5yo. Now I'm almost 20yo.
Friends of mine considered 18yo is late to lose virginity. Others who are the same age haven't lost their's yet.
Doesn't really matter.
sondosia
I'm 18 and I'm a virgin. I think that's fine; I just haven't really found someone who's that special to me, and I don't really believe in hooking up/having sex with people I don't really like that much.
mk12327
I am personally same as you, a 21 year old virgin and I am totally proud of it. I was physically intimate with someone of the opposite gender before and I must say it require a huge amount of self-discipline to abstinent from sex. There is nothing wrong about being "different" and being a virgin till marriage. In fact you should be proud that you are. And for people who didn't believe in staying virgin till marriage, lose it when it is at the most natural and willing time. Don't lose it for the sake of losing it. lose it to someone you truly love.
hangnhu
mk12327 wrote:
I am personally same as you, a 21 year old virgin and I am totally proud of it. I was physically intimate with someone of the opposite gender before and I must say it require a huge amount of self-discipline to abstinent from sex. There is nothing wrong about being "different" and being a virgin till marriage. In fact you should be proud that you are. And for people who didn't believe in staying virgin till marriage, lose it when it is at the most natural and willing time. Don't lose it for the sake of losing it. lose it to someone you truly love.


what if the one you're waiting for is a long way off? what if you'll never get to meet that person or you already meet the person but did not realise and lost your chance already?
sometime meaningful can be overrated, don't you think?
spydajman
gethere wrote:
hey guys im a guy and im 21 and im still a virgin ..Razz..lol
i think im comfortable with the current situation how about you guys..
is it good to be a virgin until u get married or...

I'm married so I'm not lol marrige is a great thing I wish I would have waited
iyepes
You think meaningful could be overrated, that's a very strange idea, so should you do it with whoever because maybe the one won't come? what a sad vision of life you have.
Jamestf347
I'd rather wait for "the right girl". Sex is meaningless unless you want to spend your life with that person, and can see it happening.
Vardin
gethere wrote:
hey guys im a guy and im 21 and im still a virgin ..Razz..lol
i think im comfortable with the current situation how about you guys..
is it good to be a virgin until u get married or...



23 and going strong. Yet to find a women that takes my breath away that I could see growing old with.


Most the women I have met I wouldn't be surprised if I caught them cheating on me....definitely no women id ever want to marry.
Lalacroft
gethere wrote:
hey guys im a guy and im 21 and im still a virgin ..Razz..lol
i think im comfortable with the current situation how about you guys..
is it good to be a virgin until u get married or...



hey! thumbs up to you! you might be interested in seeing this website http://www.pureloveclub.net/
Alaskacameradude
I am a guy and was almost 30 before I had sex......I too see nothing wrong with waiting until marriage,
I think it's a great gift to give to your future spouse.
andysart380
not a virgin but don't really care for sex too much...it kind of ruined my last relationship and then i didn't get it for a long time and when i could've had it again i turned it down.... sex really isn't anything unless its with somebody you love... doesn't necessarily have to be a wait for marriage thing but it really only means something if you love the person your sharing it with.
pscompanies
lagoon wrote:
I'm 15, so obviously a virgin. I hope that is normal anyway... Confused


It definitely is Smile
sochapter
I was a virgin until I was 18 years old and my first time was with my current girlfriend. My virginity couldn't have gone for a better person by any chance! Smile Keep up to it guys, you'll gone get it someday, I promise Smile
Afaceinthematrix
Lalacroft wrote:
hey! thumbs up to you! you might be interested in seeing this website http://www.pureloveclub.net/


I always find it annoying that many people, like you, seem to think that the only kind of "true and pure" love is marital love. You can love someone without being married. Just look at the content of that website:

Quote:
But if you want the real thing, be prepared to sacrifice. Only then will you see that the peace and joy that come from chastity is worth more than all the pleasures of the world.

Within the pages of pureloveclub.net, you are going to find blunt, honest, and uplifting reasons for why you're worth waiting for. No fear tactics. No guilt trips. Just the demands of authentic human love.


Just look all around their website. Take their quiz telling you if you're "truly in love." That website's full of people telling you that it's only true love if you're married and that all pornography and pre-marital touching (besides holding hands and "simple kisses") is wrong.

Now I have no problem respecting other people's rights to believe what they want to believe. If you want to wait until you're married to have sex, then good for you! People should have that right.

But what gets me is those same people telling me that my love is not authentic, real, or pure. What are your qualifications for saying that? That seems a little rude to tell me that I don't actually love someone just because I'm not married and that I shouldn't be sleeping with them.

Am I married to the last woman that I had sex with? No.

Have I ever been married? Hell no!

Do I love her? Yes! As a matter of fact, she's the only girl I've ever loved (although not the only girl I've ever had sex with).
Parkour_Jarrod
Im a virgin, sure i would like random hot sex Cool but its not what i really want. i just want to find a person to love for a long time and lose it to them,

untill then, JILL can be my best friend Razz Wink
todabeat
from what i've seen i been to a couple different countries

right now i reside in mexico
and it looks like only Americans are really obsessed with being a .

nothing wrong with it
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