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First time and has problems doing it





Flakky
I'm feeling very embarrassed in front of her. Me and my girlfriend are making out and we are comfortable enough so I can make her orgasm with my hands but for some reason I can't get a good erection whatever I do to get one. I've heard that many times boys are too nervous to get an erection but I don't feel terrible nervous or uncomfortable with her but still I can't get a fully erect penis. I also can't make myself orgasm when she's around.

She says it's no problem and that we'll try again but next time I want it to work! I've searched the web of course but couldn't find a good link or something. So please, if you have some advice than I'd appreciate it you would give it to me Smile
brokenadvice
It is called male performance anxiety, it is similar to stage fright. The solution of course is to picture your audience naked (I am sorry, I couldn't help myself). Apparently it is a common problem for guys, so don't get too worried about it -- that is one of the things that causes it in the first place. I found what seems to be some moderately helpful articles, but I have not actually tried these.

http://www.ehow.com/how_2172791_ease-male-sexual-performance-anxiety.html
and
http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_60/79_love_tip.html

They basically boil down to having more foreplay and communication. Good luck Wink
Flakky
brokenadvice wrote:
It is called male performance anxiety, it is similar to stage fright. The solution of course is to picture your audience naked (I am sorry, I couldn't help myself)
It's no problem, it was very funny xD
Quote:
. Apparently it is a common problem for guys, so don't get too worried about it -- that is one of the things that causes it in the first place. I found what seems to be some moderately helpful articles, but I have not actually tried these.

http://www.ehow.com/how_2172791_ease-male-sexual-performance-anxiety.html
and
http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_60/79_love_tip.html

They basically boil down to having more foreplay and communication. Good luck Wink
Thanks for the advice, I've read both articles and I think (note I don't say I hope Razz ) it'll work next time. Just keep on trying Smile
imera
What is the worst?
Not being able to come but making the girl come, or coming so fast that the girl feels disappointed Razz

Hope you manage to work this out, it must be frustrated and not very good for your confidence, but your girlfriend sounds nice since she say it's not a problem. Hope you figure this out and have better luck next time.
Flakky
imera wrote:
What is the worst?
Not being able to come but making the girl come, or coming so fast that the girl feels disappointed Razz

Hope you manage to work this out, it must be frustrated and not very good for your confidence, but your girlfriend sounds nice since she say it's not a problem. Hope you figure this out and have better luck next time.
Thanks Smile We've talked about it a couple of times and we are going to try out tomorrow. Smile
anarhistu
Just try, next time, not to think about your last "bad experience" and let everything flow by itself. Good luck!
Flakky
It worked out this time, thanks everyone for your help and support Smile
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